does your love partner opens your emails, facebook & other accounts you have?

My husband is also open all my accounts. In fact everything on my phone. At first I was annoyed, but now I've got used. In this way, there's nothing I hide from my husband. But even though my husband to open all my accounts, I never opened any account of my husband.

Hi gracielle, Nopes, i don't have any problem with her opening my email or facebook. She has all my passwords and i have hers. Though i don't like to sneak in, i could, if i find anything fishy. She likes to check my mails when she gets bored, lol. Well, i have nothing to hide from her, and i hope she doesn't mind much when i log in. And if i do log into her account i let her know about it beforehand. The same would apply for seeing the message inbox in the cell phone. Wow, she's been quite busy lately and all i know is that i am going to miss for the time being.

My ex-girlfriend used to be really paranoid and invasive on my privacy as far as being speculative to me flirting or cheating. She would get upset about me for comments I had sent to girls before me and her were even together. She ended up being a bit too crazy for me in the end and I could clearly tell that I wasn't benefiting at all from the relationship and that she was limiting my potential. Now I have the best girlfriend I've ever had and we have no trust issues with each other. I had no issues trusting me ex either because I've always been a trusting and honest person. It feels good to have someone that full trust in me because it makes it feel even better to be completely faithful and full of love back to them. I didn't like having someone that always doubted my love and it eventually made me shy away from her as well as her behavior towards me when she was upset.

Hello gracielle, Yes, even my girlfriend has my password to my everything, she can also take money out of my online bank account. I am least cared if she opens up my social networking accounts as i have nothing to hide from her, and i have her passwords too but i never open them or should i say i never need to open them unless i am going to have to check on anything. I sometimes, just casually open her account to see not because i want to check for things, once in a bluemoon i would open up her account. Even she knows there is nothing she would want to hide from me. We both are open to each other too, and we talk and share a lot of things. I would really never mind if she wants to check a few things opening my email inbox or facebook profile. I would even give her my phone to check my inbox, just like that from my side, not because she asked me to give her my phone.

I think it should be fine. Or it depends with the person. In my opinion, with or without permission, why would you be mad if he opened your account and you have nothing to hide? And in the first place why did you give him your username/email and password if you don't want him to check your email or facebook accounts? But there's also a kind of person that would allow his/her lover to check their account only if he asks for permission. Hehehe.

We are a very very happy couple, married in 1968, he is Professor, retired in 2006, he never opens my email, i don't have any FB account, it is only when i ask him to check my mails for some reason or other, he does that for me. Glad to know about you and your hubby, nice happy couple, enjoy, be blessed happy mylotting, cheers kalyani

no i dont get irritated...its cool with me...since like you ive got nothing to hide.

Hi, Both me and my husband don't have any secret in life. We are quite open with each other. If I need to open up his email ,facebook or bank account, I will ask him directly for his password and ID and of course, I have to give him the reason why I am doing so. It same goes to me,when he need to open up my email,facebook or other accounts, he will just come to me and get the details from me. We trust each other and I don't scare to let him see my emails or other information in my accounts. We are husband and wife,so we share on everything we have. Of course, we still respect each other privacy life.

Yes, she used to open my emails, check on my mobile phone and log into my social media account. We have numerous quarrel over it. There is no changes to her behavior. But in recent times, things are getting better.

no...he never does that...sometimes i hope he would..hehhehe..he doesnt want anything to be jealous with..i guess...or he respects my privacy too much...

It's cool with me..cause i do the same..i check his facebook account, cellphone sms..whatever..but it doesn't mean that i don't trust him..he's just showing that he has nothing to hide from me...he does the same with me..i don't mind cause I've got nothing to hide from him as well..

i don't really mind. He opens my account all the time. I think he like to have responsibility over my stuff and as well as the privilege that he's the only one who knows my password and other security block. i don't keep secrets from him so i don't mind. He's my bestfriend and confidant and i like it when he's curious about who's texting me, it just means he cares. =)

I don't sneak,I ask straightforward about some things, but I try them to be at a casual manner,he barely asks me about my stuff,wish he did it a bit more tho,not like those jealous maniacs tho! I'd get a bit upset he did that honestly.

I am not irritated if ever my partner opens my online accounts and matter of fact she is not asking about it, though i know her accounts and passwords. I am not hiding anything from her and she know that, and its a healthy sign on our relationship. Though I travel a lot she is never suspicious of my activities, she never inquires from my companions about my whereabouts and reads my text messages and i am happy about it. Being suspicious in relationship is oftentimes a guilty attitude of personal misconduct.

He doesn't. Neither do I. Even if I wanted to, he always tells me that he needs some 'privacy' in his life, and the email account is one of them. I know that it's tough to keep myself out of his business, but there are times when I need to just keep things to myself and not go spying on someone who values his 'privacy'.

hi gracielle my husband never looked through my stuff without asking first and we had a very close relationship ;it was that he felt I had a right to my own things as he had a right too. see we trusted each other as we were always open about everything we each did. I would tell him what I was doing and he would tell me. we had a great line of communication that kept our marriage wonderful as we could trust each other always. we never broke each others trust.he asked before barging into what i was doing, and I was the same. we hide nothing as we had nothing to hide so why not be open to each other ,. the thing is we wanted each other to feel at ease about anything we did as He had had one prior marriage where they were too young and both did not trust each other.

Yes, my spouse doe. Sometimes you may feel irritated but somehow it continues. Anyway, there is little chance of privacy in my house as far as mails are concerned.

Hello friend, me and my boyfriend are the same as you both, but only I am checking sometimes what he does on his computer. He trust me really much and i appreciate it, but we are different than the other. I mean i would never allow my ex boyfriends to flirt with me, even i finished my friendships with them, not because of my present relationship, i just don't like to keep friendships after we break up with someone. It's kind of annoying and if there are some feelings left, it will be really cruel the other to be informed all the time what the other one is doing. But he had one ex girlfriend, who was chatting with him often. When i asked him to stop chatting with her, because i was not sure if he still has feelings for her, he was so mad at me, that i want to control his personal life. We had a lot of fights and when he stopped talking to that girl, as result of that she even started to look for him more often. That pissed me off and i asked him to cut her at all. For my happiness, he did it and now i have no doubt that he loves only me, without reminding his ex girls, without waiting specially that girl to be back in our country, because she lives somewhere else, and to call him.

it ok for me to let my partner to open my fb account or email. but i think to trust each other is vital part in a relationship. so if i were husband i dont need to do that, coz im fully trust my partner. i still respect her privacy.

Well i think its nice to share everything , no secrets is the best way for a relationship ( thats my foolish young opinion - dont listen it might be wrong :D ) I'm loyal only to my sweetheart and i don't care if she go searching true my facebook or emails (6-7 full with spams - i might use her to clean them :DDD ) So overall i don't care i'll let her do what she likes ;)