Do you think that kind of behavior is a normal apperance?

China
November 28, 2010 6:40am CST
That is a scene of chat between a male and a female. They are come from different countries and new friends.Everything goes smoothly at the beginning of the chat(the male asked some question,then the female answered serious),suddenly, a sentance appear on the screen "It is getting late here got to work in 8 hrs i must go take care",then the colour of male's photo turned gray.He even did not wait for her to see the G'bye. If you were the female, do you think that kind of behavior is a normal apperance? Could you share with us about one of the awful condition happened on you?
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4 responses
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 10
Hi ykkkuan, from the gray color of the male's photo we know that he had interrupted the chat in a hurry. I believe he didn't had any interest to continue the chat anymore when receiving a serious response which he was not happy with. This showed that he had lost interest to have further contact. It's really insulting to encounter impolite people online. No matter how he should leave after the female said good bye to him to show his courtesy. Anyway, it's not not that hurt as he closed the chat with a reasonable excuse. I notice that nowadays it's quite difficult to come across with people who have common interests in chat room. Therefore I don't have interest to meet online people in the chat room often. If so, I don't take it seriously, just would like to kill my monotonous time and have fun chatting on comfortable and easy tall topics with someone Have a nice day
• China
29 Nov 10
Hello Ikbooi, as you said "no matter how he should leave". Maybe he was just a male who did not know fundamental of polite in interactive communacation, how can we blame him for his behavior. Thanks a lot for your positive mind-set.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 10
Yeah, we won't feel pleasant if blaming others we come across, who never meet our requirement totally. Of course it's nice to meet people who are polite and considerate
• China
1 Dec 10
Hello ikbooi, it is true that we can not force others to do anything they do not want to meet our requirement, in which more and more unhappy things would be happen. Have a beautiful day~
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• Philippines
29 Nov 10
i think the guy is bored with the conversation theres no spark between them. or hes really busy that day. maybe he had more important things to do that time other than chatting. its just between the two.
• China
1 Dec 10
Hello sweetmary86, half of time we would falling in a closed situation that we do not aware of existing anyother circumstances. Not just two, good idea you have.Thanks a lot.
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
29 Nov 10
Well, I guess that it has happened to you, am I right? I don't know if he usually says goodbye like that or if it was the forst time you were talking. If it was the first time, it might be his usual way to say good bye. If he hadn't said anything and just logged off, then you might have reasons to worry, but maybe he might haven't thought that he had to wait for a goodbye in response. If it's not about you, sorry for personalizing the conversation.
• China
29 Nov 10
Hey,hey^_^madteaparty, why you must get to the point?! (Joking)Yeah, i am the heroine of that sight. Thank you for your logical thought. If change another place to think about the same one, it could be not an important to show others courtesy. When i come across more similar people, i will ignore it.
@dsplay5 (360)
• Bulgaria
28 Nov 10
I almost didn't understand anything from the conversation... But, It seems like the boy does not want to have anything common with the girl anymore. " They are new friends" = They still do not know each other well.. So if the boy has found something in her character that he doesn't like, maybe this has led to the result. I'm not 100% that I've understood well what you said, so my comment might not be relevant.
• China
28 Nov 10
Thanks a lot for your comment. I understood your meaning, but if you think this behavior should happen between them and that show impolite of hiw to over a chat with a new friend. I think that is not a good start of knowing each other in the future.