hardest words to say

"I love you" was hard for me to say at first because I wasn't sure if i really did. But if I know for sure, I would say it. "Sorry" is hard to say for me because usually, I'm not sorry for the things I've done but I would be sorry if I was careless. Sometimes, it would not be my fault and in those cases I wouldn't want to say it. But when I really know it is my bad and I care about the person's feelings, I would say it.

Those words are harder to say when there are placed in a particular context. I agree with the last responder that they are people who can say these words without meaning it but there are also people who do not say words unless they mean it. For those people, saying these words like 'I'm sorry' or "I love you' is a big deal and sometimes, it has to be done is a specific context to make the receiver believe the sincerity of those words. There are scenarios in life where these words are harder to say but needed to be said. Based on that situation, the speaker who is probably embroiled with emotions makes them hesitant to say those. The speaker also has no idea on how the receiver or recipient of these words might react to the words- so emotions like fear, anxiety and passion are mixing together. This creates confusion and hesitation. Words are our instruments to relay message to one another - delivering them and interpreting them are very important skill. Intentions might be perceived as another if the words being delivered and the manner it is delivered is not clear to both parties. Telling someone words is an art and skill especially if the communication has a motivation behind it.

As for me "Sorry" is much more harder to say especially when you know that you are really wrong and that you hate to admit that you are really wrong. But when you are really ready to admit and face the consequences of whats gonna happen after admitting your faults then "sorry" wouldn't be that much hard. "I Love you" are words easier said when meant..

For me saying sorry is not a hard thing honestly. If there is something wrong from my end and somebody got disturbed of my actions or words immediately I say sory for what has happened with out any inhibitions. Coming to I love you i told it and I am still telling to my wife alone. So I think that is not a big issue for me. Yes people do take time and have hard time in conveying that they love the other person, because they don't want to be rejected. That the thought being rejected is one thing that will pull them back in saying I love you.