first love

China
December 4, 2010 9:09pm CST
22 years old and no boyfriend even no first love,sounds a little sadd, isn't it? LOL.Actually it's quite common around me, most of my friends do too.maybe it's all because we expect too much from our first love , we hope that the guys should be kind, gentle-hearted,smart and love us by heart.I believe that lover should be here because of love, not lonely,money and so on. Anyway maybe he is around the corner.HOHO.
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3 responses
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
Hey there. I'm sure that guy will come sooner or later, you just have to open your heart. Don't be afraid to fall in love with the "wrong" guy, as your expectations might suggest. Sometimes, love comes in the most unexpected ways. Don't look for someone who's perfect because no one really is perfect, it just depends on whether you can make the relationship work. It is a wonderful feeling, to fall in love. So don't deny yourself that. The first love is usually not the last, you're lucky if it comes out to be. But don't be afraid to be in love many times because finding the right guy is a process, make yourself ready for the right one with as many wrong guys as you want, for that when the right one comes, you'd be the right girl for him :) good luck! peace & love
• China
5 Dec 10
Thank you so much for sharing your ideas with me so patiently.I got it, I shouldn't be too weak to afraid of being hurt in love.All I need to do is to open my heart, change my mind and start to communicate with people,to know them, not to refuse them even whitout thinking.Giving them some time and leaving myself a chance.
@mac_fish (723)
• China
6 Dec 10
Food for thoughts..........
• China
9 Dec 10
It is.LOL.
• China
8 Dec 10
Hi,sophia. I'm 25 years old and no boyfriend, never fall in love with some guy. It's OK. we just have't met our Mr.right. i don't care about the looking, money or something like that.just like you said, we are looking for the kind and gentle-hearted guy. All we need to do just open our heart and look around. someday we'll find our true love.
• China
9 Dec 10
Dear,kittysmile.Yeah,it's quite common today,Aha?But it's ok,both us will find our Mr.Right finally.It's just a kind of life different from lovers,we have freedom,and friends.Sometime it's only cuz i donot wanna to spend too much time with one person and away from my friends,I choose to push them away.But I believe the main reason is that they are not the right man.GOODLUCK.
• India
19 Apr 11
Hello welcome again In my opinion things come at right moment only, you have to wait for him, i am sure you will get the best companion lol.. Thanks for sharing Cheers. God bless you, have a nice day ahead. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .