Bad breath

United States
November 18, 2006 11:55am CST
How do you tell your friend they have bad breath and not hurt their feelings? I try to get back to everyone, but sometimes I can't, as there are so many. Please forgive me and thank you in advance.
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23 responses
• United States
17 Dec 06
Some people have medical problems that stem from their stomach producing gases which cause bad breath. Also the food they consume can make their breath nasty. I try to turn my head when encountered with bad breath. The problem is that I have a sensitive sniffer and the smell is overpowering. If I am not chewing gum, I will reach for a piece and offer them a piece as well, or a peppermint candy will do too. People are more likely to accept the candy over the gum. Some will ask if their breath stinks, and if it is someone I know I will tell them honestly. If it were me, I would like to know that my breath is offensive.
• United States
17 Dec 06
Great response. You get a + rating. Thanks for sharing all that. Thanks for answering my posts.
@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
20 Dec 06
We just have to tell them privately and try to find the right words so as not to hurt their feelings. Make them understand that you are doing that as a friend so that he or she may be able to improve themselves. Take care and have a nice day!
• United States
20 Dec 06
Thank you for your input my friend. Will try. Have a great day!
• Singapore
18 Dec 06
i think it's kinda hurtful to tell them too...and what i will do is that i will always have a mint in my handbag and will keep on offering it to him...gradually, they will either get the message and do something about it. if they ask me outright about their breath, i will be frank and tell them...
• United States
18 Dec 06
Good idea, thanks for the advise and the response.
@14missy (3183)
• Australia
18 Dec 06
That's an interesting discussion. lol. Maybe you could offer them breath mints subtly! Seriously though if they are your friends, you should be able to tell them as I know I would like to be told rather than embarrassing myself with a stranger
• United States
18 Dec 06
You are right, but it's hard to do that. Thank you for your advise.
@cessy1 (1748)
• Philippines
18 Dec 06
if that person is really your close friend..you can tell it to that person straight..but be sure that the conversation is just between the two of you so that the person will not be humiliated.. :)
• United States
18 Dec 06
That makes sense, but it would be so hard to do it, don't you think? Thanks for your response.
@xionous (439)
• Belgium
18 Dec 06
the best idea i guess is offering a mouth freshner to him or her. i often offer them a mouth freshner like polo. sometims they get it and sometimes they dont but its really a good way to kick butt of bad breath and they seem to like it. if no way they like to have a mouth freshner and my friend is breathing really badly i just bring my mouth to her year and say: dont u mind as it happens to every one and not a bad thing indeed but i think you r having bad breath, how about a polo or a mouth freshner? i think it we can have polos wot do u say? thats it.
• United States
18 Dec 06
Straight forward guy and good advise. Thank you.
@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
6 Dec 06
It would be hard to come out and say something like that to someone, but you're a friend and friends are supposed to be there for each other. You'd hate to see your friend become embarrassed when some mean person tells him/her in a rude way. So my advice, do tell him/her.
• United States
6 Dec 06
You are right, but it's hard to hurt their feelings. Thank you for your advise.
@chifeo4y (271)
• Nigeria
20 Nov 06
i try to bring discussion on bad breath so that they will understand that am indirectly referring to them.
• United States
23 Nov 06
Good idea, thank you.
• United States
6 Dec 06
You just tell them in a nice way. I am sure your friend would rather know from you and do something about it before some stranger says something? That would be awful!
• United States
6 Dec 06
I suppose, but it is a touchy subject. Thanks for your input.
@helper1 (765)
• Canada
21 Nov 06
Sometimes honesty is the best policy!
• United States
23 Nov 06
Yeh, thank you.
@wmg2006 (5381)
• United States
21 Nov 06
Bad Breath - Smelling bad breath
Well if they are your friend it will be easier. You can offer them a piece of gum or breath mint, if they decline tell them no I think you should really take this. Say it with a smile!
• United States
23 Nov 06
Thank you.
@rangray (18)
• India
19 Nov 06
Just tell them upfront. if they are ur friends they will value ur opinion or else they deserve it
• United States
23 Nov 06
Ok, thanks.
23 Nov 06
try sending an e-card from blue mountain they have some nice ones about this subject.
• United States
6 Dec 06
hahhaha, okay. Thanks.
@socute (181)
• Philippines
9 Dec 06
funny ds is a dilemma of mine also. glad u came up with this post. the responses will help. i might try them also. got this one friend who has bad breath. i really would like to talk her but im afraid she'll be angry.
• United States
10 Dec 06
I understand. Hopefully you and I can handle it better with all the advise. Thanks, blessings, M&M
@sandie61 (2359)
• United States
19 Nov 06
I would offer them a mint or stick of gum and hopefully that would help.
• United States
23 Nov 06
Thank you.
@varun23 (902)
• India
19 Nov 06
I think you should let the know the fact !!! ofcourse in a friendly way !!! otherwise they could get banged ( verbally ) by some stranger !!!!
• United States
23 Nov 06
Thank you.
@RebeccaLynn (2256)
• United States
19 Nov 06
I'm just honest with my friends. Just tell them. If your' breath stinks or you have something in your' teeth, wouldn't you want to know so you can do something about it?
• United States
23 Nov 06
Good idea. Thanks.
@CrashO (698)
• Romania
18 Nov 06
i'll tell them directly or i would buy a mentos and give it to them :D I wouldn't be upset if a friend of mine would tell me, but if a girl or somebody strange would tell me i would get really sad :)
• United States
18 Nov 06
Thanks for the answer.
@pink_sox (263)
• Australia
19 Nov 06
Id say something like "omg your breath stinks!!" and then we would just laugh about it, and hopefully one of us would have a mint lol
• United States
23 Nov 06
Hhehe, you are funny. Thanks.
• United States
19 Nov 06
Just be honest, not rude. A simple comment to them, in private, explaining that lately you noticed they've had a bad breath problem and you wanted to let them know as opposed to having them later be embarassed. Also, it can be a sign of sickness or a change in diet (people on the low carb diets tend to suffer from horrible bad breath). So be honest about it and say it nicely. or the suttle way... hand them a box of mints! lol
• United States
23 Nov 06
Thank you for your response.