Another discussion about to bite the dust. why post milestone discussions?

hi bunny bon oh yes I have got the news, old lady mind your own business. so yes I do not really respond to any newbie discussions'that look iffy and now as I have finally grasped that good in tentions and five dollars might buy a cup of coffer or get you a nasty retrort instead I will not care anymore. let mylot admins do or not do something about people who keep making errors and getting deleted. I simply have had it with people saying why do you care. if they do not understand why I cared then I give up.After all why should I care if nobody else does here. besides maybe the ones who keep getting deleted have only brains the sizes of peas., poor things.

hi dragon proably not. but commponsense should tell them that it their discussion is deleted they will not be making that money they want so much. I am here for fun but really I have to make as much as I can to pay my internet bill bu t I also enjoy myloting.

balasri and they really must not be thinking as all the reponses do thy no good as first our responses do not pay the poster, they pay us who responded. secondly a deleted discussion will take away any money that it might have earnerd as deleted mean all earning is also deleted.

Pay no attention to the fools that get upset because you call a spade a spade - it will not become a ladder just because they call it such. and their discussions will be deleted if they break the rules

thanks ElicBxn I needed a word of encouragement.

hi elicbxn and I did not think or I wo uld never have made this discussion. I had one mylotter tell me she hated this and apologixed if I felt she was rude, my thought right now is why the hell co I care, nobody else cares anyway and I guess I am thought of as an old fool.'so I will weep a few tears, gather up my hurt and oh the heck with it I am not going to quit, I for a moment felt the need to tell mylot I am done but I need this so I can stay on the internet.I am a bvit like a weeble , they may wooble but they dont fall down.

hi theresaaizq right it has to be oneof the three. I am now'bveginning to wish I had never made this discussion as I have been told nobody will listen to me, I am just an old fart, blah blag b lah. she even says I am tired of reading your discussions. okay then lady just pass on by.

hi theresaaiza well recently real life handed me a good lesson about all that. its now march20th. on Feb.15th I had a bad fall, broke my nose, blacked my eyes but worst of all it injured my right knee'so much I could not walk on it without screaming in pain.x rays shoeed no broken bones but my nose. so finally they called my doctor who told them to get me admitted to the rehab hospital at once.I spent 20 days in Care HOuse on the 19th day I was booted out as my insurance only covered 20 days. in pain I had to take pain pills yet to be able to walk user a walket .So yes right now I c ould care less let the newbies flounder and if I am asked for help,pleaded for help then I may or may not help. Sincerthe newbies dislike me and some of my friends evidently think I am just a nutty old lady I will forget it.Sometimes help is mistaken for being mean;I was just using co mmon sense but i guess young people have no need for common sense until it bangs them over the head.I give let Diana and Lamb take over. Just that it hurts thinking some feel I am nutty or whatever.odd as I have an high IQ and am told by my own doctor no you are not nutty.

It's because of people who don't listen to us, or make us feel like we are not being heard, which make us sound like a broken record. I understand you because that's what some "crusaders" like mysD, or Lamb, and many others like you are trying to push. But some people are just too hard headed. One thing I get from what one responder is saying here is that it's become a waste of time, and this is getting you more frustrated. It's consuming you. It may not be healthy anymore. Perhaps you could learn to ignore these people. Let them be wiped off from the face of myLot for all you care. Then move on. Just suggesting.......for your own good. But hey, I admire your cause.

hi Merry Christmas I have been accused of caring too much a nd asked why do you care. now I do not know how to answer that. I thought I had thge right to make a discussion on any topic I chose too but have been told I am just an old fuss budget, oh not in those terms bvut it was implied. I should never have ever given my age.here in the Us and among younger mylotters old age is a no no and we should just quietly fold our tents and disappear. well I am not going to do that.but now I am not going to bother, not anymore.

hi gabs yes I know and all the helping and telling seems to make it worse not better.so let them flounder and call mylot a scan 'and thus get mad and quit. so okay lets just pretend not to see them. I for one have had it with helping those who think they already know everything.

msTickle yes there are some mylot just does not see really or they' would delete. but all this aside why do not all of us read the 'information as even if its not completely clear it will really help to know what not to do. why be in such a rush as if you make poor quality discussions they will just be deleted and you still will not have earned anything? so rules are not perfect but still they will help. or does anyone care anymore? all I c an say is do not come crying to me'newbies if you get your discussions deleted as you could have read the rules and known what not to do but you made the shoice not to' know what you are doing!!!!!!!

Hatley, I should've kept my big mouth shut. I guess I just didn't think my response through long enough to make a wise choice. I have been a long time fan of yours and will remain so. I'm sorry my response caused you emotional pain. Please forgive me, dear. Next time you post on a topic I don't like I'll just be quiet...promise!

hi hatley I feel better now thanks so much.

why is it people always say if I am rude I apologize as then they gfo ahead and are rude. let me suggest if you from now on do not like myhh discussion just do not bother to read it. I hate being patronized because I happen to be an older person. so much unspoken hurtful messages came with your resp;onse I am just about to cry. I have'feelings just like younger people.

hi dawn no it sort of dumbs the site down really nope I am not going to get lured into making a discussion of h ow many points I made and oh what a milestone as I am sure I would get deleted too. wow you are also getting up there with 22023 soon be right even with me. lol.

I'm not even going to try and catch you!

hi dawn nope as you are a more impo ortant jpb raising your great kids and as I see it they are great, cause they have a great'mom. 'I am so far head here only because I am retired with a heck of a lot more time than I ever wanted and nothing to do with it, so I mylot and write a litle on the side.

hi paula I am begi nning think that mylot admins needs to make getting into mylot much harder. make them show they have read gthe rules.lots of sites will do something similar before you areallowed to post anything. here they just hope the newones read the information, ' there is no check and thus a lot of newcomers refuse to read what is there to help them so they keep losing discussions and blaming 'mylot when its their responsibility to learn the rules.

hi catdla 1 well I wish I had never started this as I am told nobody will read it, nobody cares, why do I care, my discussions are disliked blah blah. If I had just not opened my big fat mouth and divulged my age I would have been better off.It seems to be time to put elderly women'ub their place wherever that is lol.

thanks Catdls1 thanks as I do love what I am doing and mylot is a \great place really.

Well, I agree. Except that I think that your place is HERE, with those of us who love ya! Hugs!

hi dorannmwin yes I agree some really will not let anyone tell them anything but will scream mylots a scam etc etc. Them they will leave which might be for the best if some of them think theyknow bestg when maybe they may have only a brain the size of a pea. so yes best to getg on with ones' own life.

hi teamcholent but do not they realize if their discussion is deleted on account of breaking a mylot rule they will not be awarded that two cents or whatever? Yes I agreee some sections teem with guideline violations. perhaps they have read the rules' and thought oh mylots not going to notice and I will get Paid.Wrong they are coming down much quicker now so it pays to know what you are doing

I noticed its mainly the same crowd that never bothers to spare a moment and reply to those of us who took time to reply to their post.[i][/i]. They will have to learn the hard way then!

hi yes indeed and they will find that people will start to avoid responding as they will feel their responses were not being read'adn the person did not care about them. they will learn I hope.

they need to make getting into mylot much harder. make them show they have read the rules.lots of sites will do something similar before you areallowed to post anything. here they just hope the newones read the information, 'there is no check and thus a lot of newcomers refuse to read what is there to help them so they keep losing discussions and blaming 'mylot when its their responsibility to learn the rules. unless of course they only possess brains the size of a pea. lol

hi zandi right maybe when they see that their discussions are not getting any responses at all, they may grasp the fact that we do not want to re spond to a losing discussion., good thoght there.

hi elitess yes that was me in a whimsical mood but your suggestion might really work if mylot admins did offer a little money for reading the information and quiz them and maybe a small sum for geeting the answers all correct. lol almost all newbies come here first for the money so any little sum would entice them to actually read the information thus helping them to have fun here and also make some nice earnings for themselves for a change without the usual deleted discussions that broke all the rules. how refreshing that would be.. y

hi jotomy I guess some people will learn the hard way and I am asked why do I care as if its some horrible thing I have done, but I know a few other people here are like I am, I am now so tired of defending whu I wrote this discussion I feel like quitting if I only had some other source of making the money to pay myinternet bill.

but zaga cleuth they can share legitimately by privat emessaging their friends, mylot will delete these milestones and they would have known that had they taken a few minutes to read the rules. Is there something hard in just sitting down and reading a few'words hat explain mylotting/