what do you think of dating over the internet

@singup (666)
Malaysia
December 31, 2010 7:45pm CST
there are alot of stories aren't they ? i met him in a forum , i love his articals or i saw his photo in facebook and if i have chance to date him/her i will go directly there are alot of There are a lot of scenarios like the above but what do you think about internet dating?
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9 responses
• United States
1 Jan 11
I agree with the above poster you really do not know a person until you actually go out and date. So it does not matter where you meet so as long as we as humans place good judgment. I have never dated any one from the net but would not single it out as I am a good person so I imagine there are others like me.
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@singup (666)
• Malaysia
1 Jan 11
When you say you are a good person If an indictment for each of the go through online dating that they are not good Is this what you mean? ?
• United States
1 Jan 11
No it simply means that I am a good person so there has to be just as many as good as me.
• United States
1 Jan 11
I don't really like the idea of online dating because it is so easy to be someone else online. But I have heard allot of success stories with online dating so maybe it works for some people but I am not one of them. I am happy to have meet my fiance through a friend.
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@singup (666)
• Malaysia
1 Jan 11
Not be gauged online dating does not mean that it is not especially good, and you said you heard a lot of success stories But imagine you have such a receptive so long relationship or if it happened to one of your relatives a brother, sister and what would be your reaction
@daliaj (5674)
• India
2 Jan 11
You should be really lucky to find a good person over the internet. After reading through lots of stories of cheating, acting as a different person, and problems I see in the show divorce court, I feel like it is a little risky to find or date somebody online. Trust is very important in life and it requires god's great blessing to find a good person onine.
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@singup (666)
• Malaysia
2 Jan 11
trust can't be sharing over the internet or virtual world trust comming with real communication and with alot of stories you talk about it i think i will think twice before thinking about dating in the internet especailly free dating website where anyone can write what ever he want
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
1 Jan 11
Hi there, Why not possible? As we keep in touch either via mobile phones or Internet this is very much usual that two people could find each other best suited. I know even a few marriage that was settled through Internet. And on such thing dating is hundred times more possible.
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
2 Jan 11
Possibly I was not focusing on the negative side of it.
@singup (666)
• Malaysia
2 Jan 11
hi krajibg as you said "a few marriage" but how about the other statistics about broken heart over interent can you imagin how much of it.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
1 Jan 11
You have to be careful when dating over the internet. Not everyone will portray themselves as they truly are. you can not always be sure of who or wht you are promising.
@singup (666)
• Malaysia
2 Jan 11
most of cases even it end with happy end it be shocked in the first meeting i remmember when i saw a man in internet cafe so sad and when i ask about him i told that he dating over the internet a girl in another country and now he sell everything to travel to her country but he does not have enogh amount of money to travel . such that satution break my heart.
• Philippines
1 Jan 11
In my own point of view, online dating is not that great. A person will not be able to show his/her true self with the use of virtual communication. You, yourslf as well will not be able to peruse if this particular person is showing his/her real identity. Various masks can be worn by someone with the use of online dating. This means may also be used for people with negative intentions. They may buy some time with you online for you to give them your trust. Sooner or later, you may be shocked that a robber or a thief was able to sneak in to your house because you have given a vital personal information to him/her. I believe that dating would be best if the person is referred by someone we know deeply.
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@singup (666)
• Malaysia
2 Jan 11
hi areshstarfreak yes friend i remmember someone my friends called him " Mr lie " because he have always negative intentions especially in dating thanks for your comment your comment was rated
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
1 Jan 11
Hmmmm! I am not quite into internet or online dating. I am more into meeting the person in actual and it starts from there. I am more of a conversation. Then dating is initiated by the guy when interested. If not, I won't force it.
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@singup (666)
• Malaysia
1 Jan 11
Nowadays may be the start of the girls, contrary to what you were used to
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
1 Jan 11
I think it's just as safe as meeting someone through a friend or at the bar. You really don't know a person "fully" until you live with them. I would really prefer meeting someone , oh I don't know...at the book store, through work, or at the grocery store.
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@singup (666)
• Malaysia
1 Jan 11
buggles64 Adverse opinion in this matter,How can you say that it's safe then you say you prefer to meet Him in the bookstore or at work? I hope to hear from you again better
• Philippines
1 Jan 11
Online dating is becoming the norm these days it's a pretty clever idea that means you can meet lots of new people in your own time as and when you want. But it depends how you maintained your communication with that person behind the screen. Be clear to your words and phrases that can be interpreted in many different ways,be as clear as you can to avoid any misinterpretation.
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@singup (666)
• Malaysia
2 Jan 11
you know being clear behind the screen so hard. most of poeple try to act different in dating or at least to looks better. also the screen can not express real feeling isn't it :) thanks sweetyellow i add you and i hope to contact more in future .