From right-handed to left-handed

@iDivision (1412)
Latvia
January 12, 2011 12:02pm CST
Few days ago i was told that i am born to be left-handed not right-handed as i am now all my life. That doesn't make much sense for me, but then i realized that i am right-handed just because i was teached to write and take things in my right hand first. maybe i should try to learn to do things with my left hand too as best as i do it with my right hand?
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@mentalward (14691)
• United States
12 Jan 11
I learned a long time ago from a medical doctor that everyone has a dominant side which includes hand, foot and eye. If you are right-handed, your right eye is dominant and your right foot is also, unless you have a mixed-dominant gene. In that case, you would be dyslexic. My sister was dyslexic. When she was 14 and I was 11, we learned that our father had muscular dystrophy so we went to Johns Hopkins Hospital to be tested. They tested us for everything under the sun, or at least it seemed that way. One of the tests was this dominance test. The doctor poked a small hole in the middle of a piece of paper, handed it to us and told us to bring it up slowly to our eye, all the while keeping an object sitting on his desk in view through the hole. We automatically bring it up to our dominant eye. He then crumpled up the paper and threw it at us, telling us to catch it with one hand. The hand that automatically reaches for the paper is the dominant hand. Then, he threw the paper at our feet and told us to kick it with one foot. The foot we used was our dominant foot. I am left-side dominant. (Left hand, foot and eye dominant.) My sister had mixed-dominance (left hand, left eye and right foot dominant) which accounted for her dyslexia. I'd think that you should have not much trouble at all using your left hand as you use your right IF you are truly left-side dominant or at least have a left hand dominance. Oh, just so you know, I cannot use my right hand for anything I use my left hand for. I've tried writing with my right hand but that was a huge failure. My right hand is 100% my left hand's assistant, nothing more.
• United States
13 Jan 11
I've never heard of that connection to dyslexia before but it makes sense. I write with my left hand, but as a child in acrobatics I also felt more confident in right-sided cartwheels. I always that it kind of weird that my left hand was dominant but my left leg wasn't. (I also suffer from dyslexia though it's not as bad as it used be.)
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@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
13 Jan 11
WOW! Dyslexia souds scary and serious. I never had been tested this way, but maybe will try to do something at home today. I want to try it out - will be much fun :D
@mentalward (14691)
• United States
13 Jan 11
Dyslexia isn't really serious unless maybe if you suffer from it. It's simply the brain's inability to process words correctly. It mixes things up. An example would be when my sister would write out the word "girl". She would spell it "gril" but, even when she looked at what she wrote, she would still say that the word was "girl" because that's how her brain processed it.
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@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
13 Jan 11
When I pass things out, I use my left hand, and when I snowboard, I snowboard from my left (goofy feet). But, I'm right handed. I tried practicing writing left hand a few years back, I still sometimes do try but it never improves. If you use your right hand, you work your left brain and the opposite goes for the other side. It's good to keep them both exercised and balanced.
@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
13 Jan 11
OK, but what about one brain side to be more responsible for science and other for humanitarian thinking. have you ever heard of it? If its true, then theoretically if i will improve one of my hands i will be more intelligent in mathematics or opposite - in humanitarian stuff (drama, politics, literature). :)
@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
16 Jan 11
but still, there is people who are natural born better to calculate and those who not i think :|
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
15 Jan 11
Yes, the right brain is good for creativity and left for calculations. If you exercise those muscles (your brain), you are capable of improving yourself in those areas but the choice is yours if you want to use your brain or not.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
10 Apr 11
That's entirely up to you. I'm just the opposite. I went from being right handed to left. It all started when I was very young. I had became deathly sick with spinal meningitis. I even fell into a coma. When I recovered I preferred using my left hand. I've been a lefty ever since. None of my teachers ever forced me to learn to write with my right hand. However, my sister tried to teach me back when we were in grade school. She even learned how to write with her left hand just to show me that it could be done. Unfortunately, I just couldn't seem to get the hang of it. Even now when I try I have a heck of a time! LOL Oh well, at least I can write well with my left hand. And that's all that really matters. Happy mylotting!
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@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
11 Apr 11
You have strong will power i think and it is very, very impressive achievement that you can write with both your hands. Thank you for your response to my discussion dear friend. :)
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
12 Jan 11
That used to be a common practice, teaching a left handed child to use their right, but I didn't know that it was still being done any more. Now that you've gotten so used to using your right hand, I don't know if you can relearn using your left. But it would be interesting to see.
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@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
12 Jan 11
Its i n our - latvian culture that anyone must write with right hand. Maybe it is traditions which is a little bit similar to those in some asian cultures who think that left hand is more "dirty" than the right hand. :) I just triedto write my name using left hand - it was horrible and hard :D
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@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
13 Jan 11
i heard that in some Asian cultures it is very indecent to touch other people with left hand and do any other things. Thats weird for sure :D + its not acceptable in my country to shake left hands not right as usual. To return to my discussion - my oldest son hold hockey stick as left handed, but he is right handed officially since we teached him to write and do things with his right hand. :)
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
12 Jan 11
My mother thinks she was also a lefty who was made to write with her right, and my dad is a lefty. When my oldest daughter turned out to be a lefty also, my father-in-law wanted to know if she could be made to change it, because "left handed people are less intelligent". I pointed out that my father (who is a genius) is a left. He never said another word about it. But apparently it's a German superstition, so there may be more to it than the thing about the left hand being dirty.
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• Philippines
13 Jan 11
If you were born left-handed, maybe you could try doing things with it. Aside from doing what you are naturally supposed to, you might be able to learn new skills associated with the right hemisphere of the brain which controls the left side of the body. Give it a try. I'm a right-handed person but sometimes, I could do stuff with my left hand too. When playing catch, I'm better at catching with my left hand than my right. I also tried practicing writing with my left hand. When I was a kid, I always wanted to be ambidextrous so that when I needed to do some writing at home, I could write with my left hand and eat snacks with my right hand, lol. But then again, it's cool being able to have skills with both hands.
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@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
13 Jan 11
ok, i decided to try to learn writing with my left hand too, it will look funny from the starte, but with time i will improove it.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
hi, learning something new is better for enhancing our ability, i am a right-handed person but i can use my left hand also, but not really good unlike with my right hand. but practice could make it better right.
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@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
17 Jan 11
yeah, yesterday i was trying to play ice hockey with left handed hockey stick, but failed at the start. After one hour of playing i was getting better and better :)
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
13 Jan 11
It would help and also it depends on how good you write, barring any injury. It also depends on what hand is stronger. For instance, I am a lefty and I am also ambidextrous in that I can also lift things with my right hand and also play the piano with both hands. There is probably one way to find if you are truly a leftie. Most right handed people find it harder to learn to play the bass section of a piano then the right hand. By the way, all the righties try to think that if us lefties had an accident that immediately our right hand can take over. Not so easy. I have a bad wrist due to an injury in my left hand and when I tried to write with my right, well it was worse then a doctor.s.
@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
13 Jan 11
Ha-Ha! if it was worse than doctors then it was unreadable i think - we in nhere have a joke about writing like doctors (that nobody can read what is written, only doctor) :D
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
13 Jan 11
my daughter is 13 and has always been left handed. we did nothing to stop her either. i think we were right to do so.
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@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
13 Jan 11
Its cool if you and your daughter are happy with it :)
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
12 Jan 11
My brother is the same way. He writes and holds his fork with his right hand, but he plays sports and does things like that with his left. You can try to learn to do things with your left if you want. It couldn't hurt anything. Did you know that people who are left-handed are such because their brains are wired a little differently? It's pretty interesting stuff. If you haven't heard of it before, looking it up might be interesting to you. Well no matter what you do, good luck. :)
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@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
12 Jan 11
yes, i know about brain connection with hand with which you write. i have heard that those who write with left hand are better at mathematics, but those with right hand in politics etc. :)
@much2say (53944)
• Los Angeles, California
12 Jan 11
My dad always suspected he was born lefty, but he was raised righty. There are just too many things he is better with on his left side. I guess it was not good to be lefty in the old days, in the Japanese culture anyway - and perhaps many other cultures. Being right handed was "the right way". I was born lefty and have always been lefty. However, there are things I do with my right hand (like using the mouse) simply because it's just always situated that way. With practice, you CAN use your left hand - if you choose to do it anyway. I figure skate, and I jump and spin like lefties . . . I try to do it in the "righty" direction, but it doesn't feel like second nature.
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@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
13 Jan 11
when i play table tennis at work i can tell that its much more difficult to play against opponents who are left-handed ;) About japan - i had heard that somewhere in Asia children are learned to write with both hands - right and left. Isn't that in Japan or am i wrong?
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
12 Jan 11
I think I am a bit like you. Although a lot of the things I do naturally, throw, shoot pool, etc., I am left handed, I consider myself right-handed because I was taught that way in school when I was little. I think the school I was in back then didn't have much room to be creative, or find out kid's natural tendencies.
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@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
13 Jan 11
Probably then the school are the biggest threat to people who want to write with their left not right hand. Also in our traditional Latin alphabet writing style from left side to right side it is harder to write when you have pen or pencil in left hand since then you cannot see the text that you have already written - you left hand are placed on it and you just continue to write forward. i just tried it. Weird feeling. :)
@jamed28 (1903)
• Philippines
13 Jan 11
I have the same story. I was born left-handed and there is an old belief in my family that left-handed brings misfortune so they trained me to be right-handed. Well I think they are wrong about that belief since right-handed never brings me fortune. hehehehe.
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@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
13 Jan 11
I am very curious how do you found out that you was born left handed not right handed? you do some things with left hand or what? :)
@petersum (4522)
• United States
12 Jan 11
Don't know about that! The word 'sinister' comes from left-handedness. It certainly is strange that the left-handed people that I have observed, including my daughter, are actually capable of using both hands equally well. They simply choose one hand for one particular task. Now I am right-handed, and my left hand is just useless! I may be dexterous, but ambidextrous - no way!
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@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
12 Jan 11
hehe, cool :) ... btw. i forgot to mention that fact that i was supposed to be left-handed not right-handed told me traditional healer woman. :) it was very strange experience with her to me.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Jan 11
If you are indeed born to be left handed and just trained to be right handed by your parents , then you could probably very well learn how to write and do things using your left hand. Left handed persons are said to be very artistic and talented persons. I noticed that to be true from among my left handed friends.
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@iDivision (1412)
• Latvia
13 Jan 11
Thats weird - in my country left handed people are considered to be much more pragmatical, logical than artistic. :|