Did you let Loneliness reach you?

Philippines
January 15, 2011 10:53am CST
This maybe a serious talk for tonight. I know that there are several people like me who are alone, and that maybe almost everyday. But did you let loneliness reach you? I am alone physically, but i know i am not by heart, so i must locked my door for loneliness to come in. Let me share you one inspiring thoughts. This is not any referral links, and not intented for any. This thought is worth sharing for. Please read aloud for yourself. http://www.primeworld.webs.com/apps/forums/topics/show/4061966-are-you-feeling-lonely-?page=last
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13 responses
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Jan 11
hi prime oh that is just great and I have been there and yes loneliness does not want you happy.So I make myself be happy as being here with 90 people whom most I do not know I have felt lonely then I decided enough of this; I get on my lot and talk to all my friends here and once more i am happy and have kicked loneliness butt.It will not get me again. I felt really inspired in reading that and yes it was well worth the reading.You see I have one wonderful best friend and my dear son. Those two please a few friends here to make my heart sing
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@marguicha (216334)
• Chile
15 Jan 11
You are So right, Hatley. Mylot is like entering a room full of friends. I usually make my first cup of coffee in the morning and come to have it while chatting.
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@pogi253 (1586)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
Loneliness - Man is very lonely.
The most instantaneous cause of loneliness is an incident that has produced an extreme change in a person’s life situation. But I’ve a read an article that loneliness might be a family trait. That's the conclusion of latest research suggesting 40 percent of the variations in loneliness among people is a result of heredity.
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@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Jan 11
I tried myself not visited by any loneliness but you can't assume all the time you will be happy specially me because I am away from my family so there's a time that you felt loneliness specially when I am alone inside my room and remembered all the happenings while I am still in my country. During special days like birthdays, anniversaries and other events that I was attended, I can't resist myself not to felt lonely. It's a part of any individuals to felt loneliness but we can minimize it.
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@marguicha (216334)
• Chile
15 Jan 11
I don´r like loneliness and I cannot say I don´t experience it sometimes as I live alone. But being alone is quite another thing. I do like to live alone now and I doubt that I could manage well living with someone else, although I am very social. I like people but I also like to have my own space. I have caring family and friends. I suppose that loniness creeps when I remember my loved ones that have gone forever.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
15 Jan 11
Hello Prime. There is a big difference between lonely and loneliness. Loneliness is a feeling of emptiness inside, a feeling of need to be with another person. Being lonely is merely not being with other people. People choose which they want to be. TATA.
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@trader22 (232)
• Jamaica
15 Jan 11
Some say loneliness is a crime. Other cherish it. To me i don't understand why anyone would choose to live a lonely life. There is someone out there for everyone. Just have faith. Not being in a relationship doesn't mean you are lonely and this goes to everyone. If you have friends and family be thankful.
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@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
i am alone most of the time too but i'm not lonely. i checked out the URL you pasted and i like this line from the poem or whatever you call it hehehehe.. "Loneliness, is neither a burden nor sorrow, but a time of solace, of deepness" yeah.. i guess it's the times that i can think how deep is everything to me.. everything thats going on with my life. i can also write poems easily when i'm loney. i can express much compared when i'm happy.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
hello brother, Of course i also feel lonely when i am alone. I feel lonely when something went wrong. But i never let emptiness fills within me. I can be lonely for sometimes but not for a long time. I've learned to deal with it...and i find a way to fight the boredom as well. Life is short ...so let's enjoy Have a great day always
@mendy811 (22)
• United States
16 Jan 11
I think that everybody feels alot emotionally and physically. Sometimes you can have somebody sitting in the same room with you and still feel alone. I think that it starts inside. You have to learn to make yourself happy. You have to learn what to do with your spare time and not depend on anybody to fill your heart or your mind. To find inner piece with yourself. After i divorced and i was alone for the first time and it was quit an adjustment. Many nights i didnt sleep. Many days i cried due to be lonely. But life does go on and you learn that. Its like the saying is "get busy living or get busy dieing"
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
16 Jan 11
If we are happy, then there is no problem. But we face any problem, it is so tough to come out. I am an unmarried, and i have less experienced. But my parents can solve any problem if i faced. My exam fee, my computer bills and other....
@liuyh0619 (108)
• China
18 Jan 11
Yes, people have to learn to make youself happy. Sometimes I feel more easy when I stay along, I can read and surf in the internet, I have the enough time to seriously think about something like the future which I can't consider it when the so-call loneiness doesn't reach me. Anyway, Being along doen't means unhappy, and I won't hang the hope of not being lonely on the other guys, I know hot to deal with it.
• China
15 Jan 11
well.I suppose loneliness is a good thing sometimes,it can give you more time to think about yourself more seriously and thoroughly!for me ,I welcome the time to be alone in a day,but I didn't mean a long time,but a period of time just for yourself,you can do the things you like,like reading ,painting,or something else!it's a wonderful time !
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@virdell1 (57)
• United States
16 Jan 11
Loneliness is something that is felt even if you are in a crowd of people. It's good to know that you keep loneliness away. When people begin getting depressed from loneliness and aren't able to shake it, they may fall victim to chronic loneliness. There are steps that can be taken to decrease the feeling, but overall they may need to seek the help of a professional. Keep thinking positive thoughts!