mendy811

@mendy811 (22)

United States • Age 50

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how would you react if you discover that you boyfriend has another girl?

nathaniacherry @nathaniacherry (85) 12 Jan 11

me i will slap his face in front of his other girl without any words..

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mendy811 People say that they would do this and that. I used to say that i would never stand for that and that it would be the end of our relationship. But until you are truley inlove and never in that situation you really dont know how you will react. Love is blind...

15 Jan 11

Did you let Loneliness reach you?

Proud Dad of Twins :) @primeaque86 (8105) • Philippines 15 Jan 11

This maybe a serious talk for tonight. I know that there are several people like me who are alone, and that maybe almost everyday. But did you let loneliness reach you? I am alone physically, but i know i am not by heart, so i...

are you alone

how to be happy

how to escape loneliness

loneliness

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mendy811 I think that everybody feels alot emotionally and physically. Sometimes you can have somebody sitting in the same room with you and still feel alone. I think that it starts inside. You have to learn to make yourself happy. You have to learn what to do with...

15 Jan 11

Do you believe that dogs is really dreaming? If so, what are the signs?

shingshing @shingshing (119) • Philippines 9 Jan 11

Did you hear your dog making a sound while sleeping? I am just asking because I have been hearing my dog making same sound while sleeping.

dreaming dogs

shih tzu dog

signs of dreaming dogs

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mendy811 Yeah i do believe they dream and they have nightmares as well. I have seen mine dream. Its so cute. She will be laying on her back and she will have her feet in the air as if she was running. He paws will be just a going and she will be making a noise like she...

15 Jan 11

Dog after all is not a man best friend.

alokijon @alokijon (665) • Malaysia 11 Jan 11

I read from the newspaper today stated that a man had been attacked by a dog. He was succumbed to his death. It was said that the dog is actually a tame dog. Even the owner of the dog couldn't believe that the dog can became so...

dog

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mendy811 Hi agree with Octav1. I believe that something had to happen in order for him to attack this person. A dog can sense when someone is doing something wrong or is frightened and they dont know how to react to that. It is true that a dog is not human however if...

15 Jan 11

Is there any way of soothing my dogs arthritis pain other than pain meds?

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 11 Jan 11

my lab/boxer is 9 so yeah shes getting up there but this last year or so shes been having really bad arthritis in her back hips.. it was tolerable till we got snow and really cold weather.. now she just lies around and when she...

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mendy811 I am so sorry to hear about your baby. I know that it is hard when your doggie is in pain and there is nothing you can do. My first experience was terrible. My beagle woke up in the middle of the night yelling. She was in so much pain. I took her to vet in the...

15 Jan 11

Big DOg or small dog? which would you choose?

chipesterkhan @chipesterkhan (2925) • Philippines 14 Jan 11

My girl friend's birthday is coming soon and she's been hinting at getting a new dog. A beagle to be exact. Now I for one like the looks of a beagle. Plus they're easy going little dogs that are very loyal to their masters....

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mendy811 Well to me its all about what kind of dog you get and its personality. Really doesnt matter size. I have three doggies. My beagle is the oldest. I brought in two smaller doggies to live (jack russell, and a daushaund). They didnt like each other at first...

15 Jan 11

How to keep straint relationship

tony_terance @tony_terance (219) • India 18 Jul 09

Relationship become a messy when bad days comes to our life.It feel like scared like because of our mindset only.Can we keep our relationship even in difficult time?

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mendy811 Well any relationship is going to be work no matter what way you look at it. Yes you are right when tough times comes it puts a big strain on the relationship. But nothing comes from not trying. In other words if you love this person or want this person than...

18 Jul 09

Is crying a sign of weakness?

xroadsempress @xroadsempress (290) • Philippines 10 May 09

If you happen to see a woman in a train crying so heavily that her tears are almost welling like raindrops, wetting her purple turtleneck, would you consider her weak? Weak, because for all places, she chose to cry in a public...

crying

weakness

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mendy811 I dont believe that crying is a sign of weakness. You shouldnt feel that it is. It is the person way of grieving or dealing with whatever is going on at the time. Sometimes it is all a person has when they dont have anyone to turn to. Its okay to cry

18 Jul 09

After you have quarrelled with your partner...............

SuperJelly @SuperJelly (320) • Malawi 10 Jul 09

After you have quarrelled with your partner, do you wait for him or her to start the reconciliation process even if you are in the wrong?

partner

quarrel

reconciliation

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mendy811 Well personally i never wait to reconcilate even if he or me is in the wrong. I dont like being mad long. Life is so short. You really dont know whats in store for anybody future. Things could happen unexpecting and change everything for u or the other person....

11 Jul 09

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Relationship Advice

abetole @abetole (221) • India 10 Jul 09

Have you ever tried to subscribe to a website giving advice on relationships? or have gone to see a counselor, who helps you out of your relationship problems, especially with your partner? Do you think, these solutions really...

counseling

relationship

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mendy811 Well the most important factor is that everybody needs help and everybody needs someone to listen to them. Doesnt matter who u seek just as long as they can be objective to you. Thats why alot of people go to a stranger cause they dont know them at all and can...

11 Jul 09

how do you want to plan your wedding?

entrepinoy @entrepinoy (709) • Philippines 11 Jul 09

Hi. I just want to know your inputs about planning your wedding. Do you want wedding coordinators to help you plan your wedding's activities or do you want to plan it with your future groom and with some of your most trusted...

wedding

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mendy811 Planning a wedding is so exhausting. There is so much that has to be done. You would not believe all the things that have to be done. It generally takes from 6 months to a year to plan one out. On my first one i did everything myself but i also had a wedding...

11 Jul 09

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my girlfriend like angry

helicesar @helicesar (57) • Indonesia 11 Jul 09

i fed up my girl friend when she is angry,,, she make me confused,, but she always have good category girl, sweet girl and kind for,,i don't know why she is like that..

angry

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mendy811 I know your tired of all the anger she has and she makes you confused. Have you tried to talk to her and really get to the bottom of whats really going on. Sounds like there is something going on with her deep inside. Maybe something has happened to her in the...

11 Jul 09

MOUNTAIN or BEACH do yoy like more???

busky5 @busky5 (3164) • Thailand 11 Jul 09

When do you think to go to your holiday, mountain or beach do you want to go more?For me, i like the beach more than mountain , because my country are many fine beach and this weather is very hot when no rain.

enjoy life

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mendy811 I prefer going to the mountains. So much peace there. You can get lost in your thoughts there. And the scenery is so beautiful.

11 Jul 09

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Am I acting normal?

blue65packer @blue65packer (11826) • United States 11 Jul 09

Yesterday I had to put my 31 year old horse down! He was doing well until yesterday when he just went down hill real quickly! I cried when I witnessed this and cried alittle more after the vet pronounced him dead. Since then I've...

normal or not

should be crying

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mendy811 I am so sorry for your lose. Yes it is very normal to be very sad about the death of your animal. Some people who are not animal lovers is always the first to ridicule us for being so attached. You love this animal as if he was an actual part of your family....

11 Jul 09

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what or who is sexy for you?

ckyera @ckyera (17332) • Philippines 8 Jul 09

was she a girl with a 36-24-34 figure? the likes of Pam Anderson? and a man with nice abs...well built body? of course i know that all of us have different preferences to as what or who is sexy...we have our own categories and...

sexy

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mendy811 To me i have been with a variety of men. I have been with skinny, short, tall, muscular, and big men. In my opinion i would prefer a big man anyday over the others. No its not because i am a plus size woman, but theres a difference. Big men know how to treat a...

9 Jul 09

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Why do I do this?

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85135) • Shingle Springs, California 8 Jul 09

I come home from counseling, which I went to alone yesterday. Husband did not grace us with his presence. So I told the counselor what I was going to tell him about the conversation. So I toughen up my spine, get firm in my head,...

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mendy811 Well alot of times if weve had so much disappointment from our partners that it gets to the point where you would do anything to avoid conflict or arguing or unpleasing toward u. Cause you just dont want to deal with it. I understand this all to well. You have...

9 Jul 09

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