Should women be able to

@laglen (19759)
United States
January 16, 2011 1:08pm CST
serve communion? I attend a Christian Church and this is an issue we are having right now. Some women in the church have decided to step up and help serve. Some people in the church refuse to accept communion from them. First of all, women prepare communion, why cant they serve it? We can pass the trays down the pews. Also, we are low on volunteers. It has been the same 6 guys and our church serves communion every week. There is no where in scripture that says only men can serve. Even our Pastor said "are we going to live by the traditions of man or the word of God?" What do you think? Would you accept communion from a woman? if not, why?
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@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
20 Jan 11
I do not think that women should be allowed to serve communion. I also do not believe that women should be allowed to be pastors...
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
20 Jan 11
Is there a reason for not being able to serve communion or scripture to follow?
• United States
20 Jan 11
Actually the Bible is pretty clear on this issue. I don't remember exactly where the scriptures are located, but the woman's place in the church is clearly stated. Also, NOWHERE in the scriptures is a woman mentioned as a priest, or as any other church or public official for that matter...
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• Canada
20 Jan 11
goldeneagle - nobody gives a fig what you think. It's what God wants that matters!
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
18 Jan 11
You right, friend. There is no found in the bible about communion. That is only a kind of tradition. Don't be disappointed about this but the bible says: It's clear that there is no practice about that thing...read the bible and you found the truth
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
20 Jan 11
I am not Catholic, it is a non denominational church.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
19 Jan 11
communion is found in the Bible, it is the Lords Supper. Who serves it is not.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
19 Jan 11
It's last suffer proper way of saying it. Not communion I think. Because the practice of the catholic church they cannot follow what the bible say...they should serve to all the church members not only for some...then it should be cut in pieces and divided. Then serve to all the people in the church where this is the real concept of he last suffer which the commandment of our lord jesus christ
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Jan 11
Other than the Roman Catholic church I thought that all christian churches permitted women to serve the Eucharist. The Anglican church was driven in two by the decision to ordain women and is still mulling over the rights of women to be appointed to Bishoprics - although the US Episcopalian church has already got over that hurdle. I have no problem with women holding down functions preciously reserved for men. Churches need to develop or they will die. Go for it girls....
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
16 Jan 11
I agree, thank you Pike. I could see if there was a single word in scripture to back up the thought....
@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Jan 11
There's a single word alright: "Hope"!
• Canada
20 Jan 11
I think it's strange that the Anglican church seems to have more trouble with women's ordination than ordaining openly gay priests. What are their priorities?
@Christoph56 (1504)
• Canada
18 Jan 11
hang on... I don't get it... what is communion?
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
19 Jan 11
Of course it is. But there are places in scripture that out line the role of men and the role of women. This just isnt one of these places.
• Canada
19 Jan 11
And you're asking if women should be allowed to serve the bread and grape juice? Aren't men and women equals? Isn't saying that only one gender can do it pretty damn sexist?
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
17 Jan 11
Hi laglen, However modern are not we the tradition and culture thing hardly change. But slowly though, they are making their entry and one day all would accept communion even from women. Even in some Hindu temples here in India are not allowed to enter the temple. What was the ritual hundred years ago has not changed even they know there is no problem allowing women in. But as it is it has to be like this.
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
19 Jan 11
But as a Christian, do you follow traditions of man or the written word of God?
@laglen (19759)
• United States
19 Jan 11
I understand, But that is what this discussion is really about
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
19 Jan 11
Whichever I think redundant I do not follow.
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• United States
16 Jan 11
I feel that the Christian churches were set up to be led by men. That is what is indicated in the Bible and if one believes in the Bible women are not to be leaders. In the process of 'serving' communion, that puts women in the position of 'leader'.
@estherlou (5015)
• United States
17 Jan 11
I don't see how this puts them in the position of leading. You yourself said they are serving the people by giving communion. How is that leadership?
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
17 Jan 11
I agree, it is simply standing in the aisle and passing the trays. They arent presiding (praying) we still have the men doing that part.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
16 Jan 11
Is their scripture to back this up? We have looked and cant find anything
@max1950 (2306)
• United States
16 Jan 11
if im not mistaken eucharistic ministers in the catholic church are permitted to give the host, the church i go to in florida does but it's up to each specific church if its permitted or not. doesnt matter to me who i get the host from
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
16 Jan 11
I agree. she can pass it down the aisle, she can prepare it, (I do this 4months out of the year), so why cant she stand and pass it?
@laglen (19759)
• United States
17 Jan 11
lol your straying from the subject....
@max1950 (2306)
• United States
17 Jan 11
at our church the priest is is the middle isle in front of the alter and the 2 women on each end ,outer left and right isle. it works well. ah lass a nice irish catholic girl what else could a young mans mom ask for. ;)
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@Neriz69 (1093)
• Philippines
26 Jan 11
I don't see anything wrong with women serving communion in the church. In our church I myself is a volunteer usher. I don't only pass the bag for tightes, but communion elements as well. It says in the bible that we are all called to royal priesthood. Each and everyone is called by God to participate in His works, the bible did not actually specified if male or female. Your pastor is right about traditions, I really hope we do away with traditions and follow what is in the scripture. In the end it is not the procedure that is going to be judged it's the heart of the person doing the procedure.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
16 Mar 11
you nailed it. in the heart...
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
17 Jan 11
Canadian Human Rights gives women the freedom of conscience and Religion. Freedom of thought, belief, opinion, and expression. Freedom of peaceful assembly, and association. If a Religious Organization were to put pressure of Women's Rights in Canada, it would be an infraction of Canadian Law. Canadians take this Law very seriously! Where does the Bible say that women are not equal with men? (and don't quote the Pope!)
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
17 Jan 11
This has nothing to do with law and the Bible does make certain statements about who should do what. But nowhere does it mention who should serve communion. And I would never quote the Pope. I go with one book - the Bible.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
23 Jan 11
I know in the US we have Freedom of Religion. This includes that if you do not agree with the religion, find another. I dont think anybody should be suing or reporting for issues like this.
• Canada
20 Jan 11
Canadian law seems to be increasingly overriding religious freedom in the name of gay rights. It also seems to have a pro-Islamic bias in human rights. That's a point, Islam is much more sexist (and homophobic) than Christianity, perhaps some women should try dragging mosques before the human rights boards.
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• India
17 Jan 11
There is no harm if women serve communion, but may be people object to it because on certain days they consider her unclean, the time she is having her periods.
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
17 Jan 11
We are Christians, that is not an issue. Women are not considered "unclean" but it was a good thought. The people that are refusing say its because it just isnt done that way
• Canada
20 Jan 11
I think you just can't go to the Jewish temple (not a synagogue, the one in Jerusalem that should be on Temple Mount) when you're "unclean".
@marcmm (1804)
• Malaysia
17 Jan 11
I don't think it is wrong for woman to give communion. but before the woman can give communion, she must first be authorised or ordained as a deaconess at least then she will be entitled to give communion. Don't forget the first person to witness the resurrection of Christ is Mary Magdalene and she is a woman. So there should be no discrimination about who should give communion or who should not because of their gender.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
23 Jan 11
I agree and yes our board (Elders) approved it.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
17 Jan 11
The men that serve are not ordained. This is not a catholic church. We are non denominational. Only our Elders are ordained.
@marcmm (1804)
• Malaysia
19 Jan 11
Then it should be up to your church. If it was approve, so I didn't see any problem there. Jesus didn't mention the gender of the people that can lead the last supper or in our case the communion. If your church approve then it should be alright.
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@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
19 Jan 11
Here in india in temples, we woman folk feed poor persons, distribute clothes, food during flood and other natural calamities. Men too do this, there is no distinguish between men or women in this regard. thanks for this discussion god bless you cheers kalyani
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
19 Jan 11
Thank you for your input. Nobody has a problem with us serving dinner in the fellowship hall but I guess it is not ok to serve in the sanctuary
• United States
17 Jan 11
You are absolutely right. There is no where in scripture that says Only men can serve, although it is suggested. But then again, there is no where in scripture that says a woman can serve in that position, it is not even suggested. This issue is NOT God's Word. IF one wishes to look at it in that context, you would have to conclude that it( God's Word ) favors the service of men in that capacity, as Jesus neither sought out any woman, not even his own mother,nor blessed any woman for providing priestly duties. Faith asks for obedience to the church elders, so as long as obedience is in the mix, one does not sin either by accepting, nor rejecting a dogma that is given as choice. So one can conclude what their heart tells them I guess. And, therefore, it is a personal choice whether to accept communion for any lay person. A choice that needs to be respected.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
19 Jan 11
There is no where in scripture that says Only men can serve, although it is suggested. Please tell me where to find it.
• United States
17 Jan 11
Does God discriminate against women because he created us with internal genitals rather than dangling ones? And how do you even know that the person serving your communion isn't intersexed (someone born with genes and traits of both sexes)? Does God hate them, after having created them? Or allowing certain genes to mutate TO create them? Did Jesus not love all? Did he really care if they were man or woman?
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
19 Jan 11
no I dont think he loves anybody more or less. Jesus loves the sinner not the sin. I dont think this is in scripture about serving communion but there are other things regarding the differences between men and women.
• United States
17 Jan 11
I think you're reading into this a bit more than necessary, but to answer your question - that would be No. God is not swayed by a person's gender, He's more concerned about their heart towards Him. I will tell you this though - God loves just as much as He hates! However, those emotions are pointed at a person's heart and motives, not what He created them as.
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• United States
19 Jan 11
I do tend to get a little heated on these subjects, sorry. If there is a God... he loves us all.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
17 Jan 11
Sure. Why not? I don't really see what the problem is other than people are creatures of habit and it has always been the priest that served it. In this day and age, the people should be thankful that they have so many members of their church that they need help in serving up the communion, I would think.
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
17 Jan 11
We have a Pastor, not Priest and he never serves communion. It is just men. Not necessarily Deacons or Elders, just any man. I agree they should be thank full.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
17 Jan 11
It is a very outdated concept not to. I am guessing those who refuse to accept communion from them are men? They simply are insecure for having such a stubborn belief, they are afraid to give women equal footing as they are afraid to let women shine because they know we are as capable as they are of doing anything and it is their silly fear of this that holds them back it is unfortunate.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
19 Jan 11
nope, even worse, it is women.
@lumenmom (1986)
• United States
17 Jan 11
I did not know that was even an issue in today's society. I have always been served communion by women and have even had women preachers and that was even when I went to very strict Christian churches (though they were non-denominational, they were strict in following the Bible). I gues my answer would have to be a definite yes to this question.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
18 Jan 11
Thank you I didnt see anything wrong with it either!
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
17 Jan 11
I don't see why not! As a society, I think we're already matured enough to get through this hurdle/discussion. I believe there is nothing a man can do, that a woman can't also do. Politics have shown us that, I don't see why religion can't do the same. The church I go to have women serving communion. And I don't see people having problems with it.
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
19 Jan 11
I agree that it shouldnt be a problem.
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
I believe women can serve communion. Why in the world they can't. You know some people adhere to their old beliefs and it's so hard to convince them. Well it's their rights. Yes I accept communion from a man or a woman, the important thing is the body of Christ. And these women are trained and offer their service freely to God.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
17 Jan 11
I agree and I was the first person to accept communion from the first woman at our church. I was proud to accept from her!
• United States
17 Jan 11
When in doubt, go to the Word. I know what the bible teaches regarding female leadership, but in this instance, I don't believe that's a factor. If a woman can watch our bad children during service, and clean our toilets, I believe they can serve a tray! As a pastor, it's very encouraging to see women rise up and do something in order to be a blessing to the house of God. Some of the best men I've seen in the church (service wise), have been women!!
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
19 Jan 11
Thank you Pastor. My own Pastor agrees. He is a very wise man!