she hates me but....is it my fault?

I think it was just an instant reaction and unfortunately you happened to be the person standing there before her. As I can't imagine anyone blaming anyone for what a mouse did as it is not like you invited the mouse into the home. I suppose she will come around soon as surely she has to understand that anything she cherishes should be kept in her possessions and not your room. Secondly she has to realize that no one has control over a mouse. If anything break the ice and tell her that the mice/mouse will now be healthy. That cold bring a quick chuckle for the two of you to laugh with.

Hi. asliah. It is not your fault that your sister's vitamins got eaten.. By mice! She shouldn't have placed it into your room. What does she expect what would happen?

It sounds like a classic case of shooting the messenger!

It's stupid. That's not your fault. Why would she buy something and keep it at your room? She has no right to slap your door, doors aren't slapped, they are slammed.

Maybe your sister was just not in the mood and wasn't thinking clearly that is why she got angry right away. It wasn't your fault my friend, not at all. She should have made sure it was safely kept so the mouse didn't got to it first. Just tell your sister to buy another one since she can't do anything about it anymore.

Does she know that the mice ate the Vitamin E caps?try to explain her.

She should have put her vitamin E in a glass container. If you have mouse problems, you should put things in mouse proof containers. Her vitamins are her responsibility. It is too bad that the mice ate them.

I guess she should keep them in a bottle or something that won't be disturbed by mice. Maybe she thought you were supposed to keep them safe. How do you know they were eaten by mice, did you see them do it? If so, I guess that's why she's mad at you. I would tell her to keep them safer so that she won't have to buy anymore.

Of course it's not your fault, She just displace the anger she felt for the mice. And that was the defense mechanism she use in order to cope up with the thing she lost. The only thing you need to do is just don't take it personally and when she regain her senses she will realize it's not your fault even she didn't apologized for what she have said earlier.

Well, you should tell her the truth. Anyway, she is in angry mode right now, whatever you said, she might not listening to it. So, when she calms down, you just tell her that, it wasn't your fault. Mice did all these, and I am just a scapegoat. She might understands it better. Don't worry about it. You will be okay.

Just let it past. Sooner or later she would simmer down and you could just laugh it of. I also had this experience when my vitamins where eaten by ants and I laughed thinking this creatures would be so energetic considering the ratio of their body weight to the intake of this vitamins.

its not urs or ur mice fault.........its misunderstnding b/w mice & ur sister......he dnt know her nature.........hehe........

it is not your fault it was an accident that mice eat it.

I certainly agree to most of the response you got that it was just an impulsive reaction from a mad person. We tend not to think of what we are doing or saying whenever we are mad. Give her some time to think of what happened and everything will be fine. Small fights usually happens within siblings.

I cannot control myself to laugh out loud...That was very petty for your sister to get mad at you. In the first place, why should she keep hers to your room? Second, it is not your fault, it's the mice fault....Very petty to get mad at. Just ignore her dear.

Maybe she thought that the mice that eaten her vitamin e tablets are your pets. Or she didn't realized that you have pets in your room that's why she hid it there? Why don't you just buy her a set of 10 tablets to appease her because I think she's suspecting that you took the tablets and you're just blaming the mice.

Sometimes people react impulsively when mad. Let her cool down and she'll realize it's not your fault losing that Vitamins E to mouse. Sisters are always sisters. Give her some time to recollect herself and everything will be the same again for both of you.

On the first place, why on earth would she place the vitamin Es in your room when she herself have her own room. I guess, it's but logical that her things should be kept in her room not in your room. Maybe she thinks that you are just making up the reason. Perhaps she is thinking you might have kept it in a secret place, for you to use on the next days.

Definitely not your fault. Base on your previous discussions I think there something going between the two of you. I could see there's a gap. Is she the same sister you are talking about as your parents favorite? You need to sit together and patch things up. Whatever misunderstanding you have, solve it now and finally put an end to such issues before it goes bigger.

Im sorry your sister got mad at you. But you're right, it's not your fault her vitamins got eaten. Maybe she was just really pissed at the situation and had no one to blame so she blamed and got mad at you. Give her some time. It'll pass.