Love governed by what?
By DoctorDidi
@DoctorDidi (7018)
India
12 responses
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
24 Jan 11
I believe that it is necessary for both our heart and our brain to work together in all aspects of our lives.
@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
10 Feb 11
It should be a combination of heart brain and soul. As we should want, need and care during love so it should all be coordinated.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
27 Jan 11
I don't think that it is possible for love in our lives to be governed exclusively by the heart or the brain. Instead, I think that the two need to work together because sometimes our heart is wrong while there are other times that our brains are wrong. Therefore, if we allow only one of the two organs to govern love in our life, then our lives are never going to truly be complete. I tend to follow my heart more than my brain though.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
26 Jan 11
Both. Love should be governed by heart and mind. Love with you mind to see the true facts and decide wisely. Love with your heart to learn how to be sensitive and all forgiving. Love should be manifested with our senses,all acting and responding accordingly. If one is absent, then love is not complete!
@xinshunhe (132)
• China
25 Jan 11
To gain the great love ,we shall use both the heart and the brain. using the heart to move and be moved,and using the brain to think and adapt.
The great love requires efforts of both sides. we all need to creat someting and contribute to it by using our couple of hearts and couple of brains.
In my opinion,love is also easy,not need to make it complicated.
@sameer786 (832)
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26 Jan 11
In my opinion, it is not in our hand that we think what should governed to love, because you listen that love is blind, love is not controlled by mind or heart,when we fall in love, our mind becomes useless about that person whom which we love, so if love is governed by brain then it is not long lasting, so it is better that love should be governed by heart.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
24 Jan 11
Your heart governs all emotions! The brain , your thoughts.
@celticeagle (189833)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jan 11
Depends on what you want to get out of this love. Why does it have to be governed by either? I am a romantic so I would say the heart. I would think that the brain would be more clinical and to the point. The heart could get you hurt but it can be a lovely road to the hurt. Brain is hard, heart is soft. Go for it!
@tkonlinevn (6427)
• Vietnam
25 Jan 11
Both of them. We need heart to love, brain to make love becoming more everyday. If we can combine both of them, we can get happiness.
@rog0322 (2828)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Jan 11
Hi Doctor,
Love is a fusion of mind and emotion. No one stands above the other. If it does, it causes untold sufferings and miseries. Just look around and we can see a lot cases where emotion or reason took over the game of love and the result is not always to one's desire.
@denydungrani (359)
• India
24 Jan 11
Heart actually. Because your brain that works for 24 hours right from your birth, stops working once your in love and go mad in it. *smiles*













