Can we tell our salary to our lover?

I dont't tell my salary to my lover. I am afraid he may borrow the money or account how I spend it with. If we will be married couples, then I can aleady tell him so we can budget the household expenses together :)

in fact if you give your income means all know he is set to finance targeted.if you need money ask him.

it does not ethic i guess. it is better to not tell it so we can judge her/him is she/he loves us because our salary

Yes we can tell our salary to our lover. If it's our true love or if our partner really love truly then he/she will understand our condition and will expect the things that we can give. They will not expect what we can't do this so this is the advantage. So we can tell our partner about our salary.

Better not, let's see how serious your relationship. If only just going out to have fun, not better, thank you, fear of things that hurt you, if your boyfriend just loves your money maybe she will ask various things (depending on the individual, just the average of all human beings like that), if small your salary, so surely he would think about it to start a relationship with you. Unless you have a serious relationship, try the open. Including salary problem. My advice, when going out, do not maintain a relationship with money, but with love.

A good lover will not be asked how much revenue you. Why would she ask, you also will not give her, unless you show off! No amount of your income, lover just gets treated to a meal, watching, window shopping, it also if you are not the type of guy who is stingy. Girls today do not depend on the same guy about the income, financial problems they generally strong:)

Hi Yes, i feel we should be quite honest in this case and go ahead and tell our true salaries to our girlfriends/boyfriends. Actually if you are close to each other, there is nothing to be hidden. Ur girlfriend/boyfriend if he truly loves you will certainly accept you no matter how much you are earning. But it is also true that while you shudnt ask a gurl her age, similarly you shudnt ask a guy his salary. He may feel small if he is not earning as much as his gurl and jealousy can creep in, which can spoil the relationship.

Is there a need to? I guess it won't affect anything if you tell or not because that is irrelevant to a relationship unless your planning to settle down or have a deeper commitment

hello friend! for lover i do not think that it is important to tell her about your salary,but if for your wife you should tell her about your salary because she is your life partner she have right to know about your all thing. thanks a lot.

Hello to you! Well i don`t have a job for the moment, but when i used to have a job, i used to tell my boyfriend my salary, because we don`t have secrets. We get along very well, and i don`t see why i should lie to him, or hide this from him. Because if i want something, he doesn`t say not to buy that thing, he understands that i need that thing. He tells me his salary too, so i don`t see a reason, why i should hide this from him, as long as he is honest with me.

Yes, I think that we can tell our lover our salary. If we want to be with the person in a long term, we have to trust them. We also have to treat them as our best friend, telling them anything and everything. I believe that there should be no secret between two lovers.

I have another view, and should be chosen by a distinguished right moment. 1. If NEW courtship, unethical ADVISED! 2. If NEW courtship, unethical ASK! 3. If IS OLD courtship and already there are plans to continue to pursue marriage, NEED to PLANNING, (marriage expenses, other costs in the future.) 4. If it becomes PAIR life (already husband and wife), MANDATORY for open management. More positive than negative. So from my opinion and sharing.

It's okay, but when asked (by me). Because not all of a sudden feeling tells its own income to the lover, it seems less ethical. Or if for example there is talk about earnings, may be told just to information / to find out the reaction from him, and not "exaggerate"yourself ... But honestly, I'm just as girls do not want to say the amount of my salary, and I also do not want to know the amount of his salary, which I wanted to know if he has a job or not, as well as from side to me, just tell me that I had a job and no unemployment, and about salary, it is a private matter.

I believe that there is nothing wrong in telling our lovers the figures of the salary we receive. The wrong thing is that, when our partner becomes so demanding in asking for material things or when he or she abuses the financial resources one has.

I have always told my salary to my loved one..I don't think it would effect a relationship if your partner is not after your money..lolzz..well,I always shared talk with my gf how company is paying me.

Ya i have told the salary , however the disadvantage is that you have to tell what have you done with the salary. as she ask me to save and i cant. If the relation is not that close then you might feel wrong to share the salary figure. I actually enjoy doing that because we plan our house hold expenses and if we have some extra we plan for a trip. Also she share his salary with me.

There's no advantages or disadvantages in telling the salary of your girlfriend or boyfriend, or any one of them. It's better that you don't keep secrets to your partner about this matter. If both of you knew what's the other is receiving every end of the month, then the better. Why hide details to each other, when in fact you love each other so much. Money is not the problem, and you can never be in unison with her/him unless you're hiding something.

I always tell my salary to my lover that is to show that I do not hide anything from her and that is one way of earning her trust. The only disadvantage I see is that if your lover is a shopaholic.