Exercise your brain by talking to your child.

@beamer88 (4259)
Philippines
January 31, 2011 7:31am CST
I really dote on my 7-year-old son. He's really a bundle of joy. I always enjoy having a conversation with him. But do you know that talking to kids that age can really give your brain a good exercise? Their questions doesn't only jog your memory, but you also have to answer their questions in a manner in which they would understand. You can't answer them like you would a person your age. You have to use very simple words, and that by itself is no easy task.
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10 responses
31 Jan 11
My son is almost two and I have already noticed that I am pronouncing my words better so that i can teach him how to speak properly. I did not realize how similar some words sound like ball and bowl as I would not usually use these words together but I have asked him to get me his bowl and he brings his ball!
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
31 Jan 11
And then you have to explain the meaning of both words, and then you have to explain why they sound the same, and so on and so forth. Good exercise, right? :)
31 Jan 11
yes, I work in a call center but I learn more from my 2 year old that at work!
@nonersays (3329)
• United States
2 Feb 11
My son is only 14 months old. He's not really talking in words yet. I talk to him alot, but the conversations are pretty one sided at this point.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
2 Feb 11
Just wait. No sooner than you think, you'll both be having a conversation :)
• United States
1 Feb 11
Not only does it benefit you to talk to your child but it also benefits the child. As soon as my son was born I began talking to him, I was a stay at home mom for the first year of his life and all throughout the day I'd talk to him, I'd tell him what I was doing as I did it, talked to him about dinner, basically having a conversation with him just as I would have if he was another adult. I never used "baby talk" with him and now, at 5 years old, he has a vocabulary well beyond his years and pronounces words far more clearly than some other children his age.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
Yeah, it's a two way street of learning. I also did not baby-talk my son. Besides, I don't know how to :)
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
1 Feb 11
I think that everything we do each day can give stimulation to our brains. Children can be quite curious and inquisitve. Just keeping up with their minds can be more than enough to exercise your brain.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
Sometimes I feel that it wasn't just and exercise but a rigorous workout :)
@shuley (368)
1 Feb 11
Yes, because talking to a child makes you think brilliantly to answer his/her question carefully, and it is fun having them around.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
There were times I had to be like an Einstein explaining to him why we couldn't fly like the birds :)
@sigriol (39)
1 Feb 11
Good point. I don't have a lot of recent experience dealing with a seven year old but I have a two year old and although it might not be the same, I still have to think hard about how to explain things to him and how to convince him.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
I think it's similar, just a bit harder at that age :) Or maybe it's easier since at 2, you are his main source of information. It's hard when you're already competing with the TV.
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
31 Jan 11
it brought me to the time my children were in that age. and i have to agree. it exercises the brain talking to a child. we also discover that by talking to them and listening to their ideas it refreshes our minds of the things we have long forgotten. very, very nice experience. cherish it.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
31 Jan 11
That's right. And sometimes it reminds us how we were at that age. I will really cherish this experience.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
31 Jan 11
I have a 4 month old baby, I enjoying talking to him although he is just biblling these days, I think when I talk to him encourages him to respond back; while he is talking back, he is learning too.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
Yes, I also think that talking to babies encourages them to talk back, especially when you make animated faces when you talk. Funny how we think that we can understand one another :)
@hlgmdt (300)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
I agree with you. Sometimes kids ask you questions that you haven't even thought about before and this really stimulates your brain. I really appreciate parents who are very patient in answering their kids' questions. This is also a very good bonding moment with your kids.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
One of the best bonding moment for me. I just hope that when he grows up we could still share some conversation once in a while.
@edb225112 (124)
• United States
31 Jan 11
What a joy to have a conversation with a child. You get to see the world through their eyes as they try to make sense of everything. It is a joy and exhausting. The hardest part is understanding just what they are really asking. My grandson ask why the cat didn't bark. Was he asking why the cat didn't speak a foreign language, why the cat makes different sounds than the dog or why the dog barks when someone knocks at the door but the cat doesn't . . .etc. Getting the question in a context of the world he sees is the hardest and most fun a person can have.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
It's like trying constantly to solve a puzzle :) He said this, and this so he probably means this. And still you don't get it right. Now I understand what my parents went through.