edb225112

@edb225112 (124)

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what will you do if someone break up with u

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 9 Nov 11

if someone break your heart and break up with you .what will be your reaction

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edb225112 Move on! That is what you must do. The person who broke your heart had a reason. No matter what that reason was, you will be better off with someone who truly cares about you enough to put up with your faults as well as love your good qualities. That is the...

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love or lust at first sight?

Ghajini @Ghajini (775) • Philippines 21 Jul 11

This really happens, right? What do you do whenever you feel unwanted lustful desires upon seeing a specific woman or man? Anyway, love is what really matters since lust will only lead to confusion and despair.

love

lust

temptations

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edb225112 First, humans feel lustful. Humans feel love. Why deny either? If you see someone and they attract your lustful thoughts, it is part of being human. There is nothing wrong with feeling lustful. That is the feeling which motivates someone to ask the other party...

21 Jul 11

Dating & Parenting

Dancer96 @Dancer96 (36) • United States 21 Jul 11

How long do you wait to introduce your child to someone you've been dating? I don't have the option of going every other weekend with my son, as many single parents do. The man he knew as his dad was killed in a car accident five...

dating

single parent

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edb225112 Adding someone to your childs life as a parental figure is thorny at best and damaging to the child at worst. The first concern is where is the child in the grief cycle from the lost of the other parent as part of his daily life. If divorce caused the loss,...

21 Jul 11

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Do you secretly check on your BF's wallet and celphone??

whitewingspeak @whitewingspeak (888) • Philippines 15 Jul 11

I trust by BF's 100% percent, but sometimes I have this feeling that I wanna check on this private things on him. Do you check on his wallet and cellphone secretly? Do you also feel that strong urge sometimes to do these things???...

life

questions

relationships

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edb225112 You start by saying you trust your BF 100% then go on to prove that you don't trust him at all. The rule I live by is if I have to do it in secret, then it is WRONG! If you feel the need to check up on what your BF is doing, you don't have a trusting...

15 Jul 11

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What If?

SunlightSwoon @SunlightSwoon (1060) • United States 11 Jul 11

Last night I had a 'nightmare', that involved my family and a situation that hasn't existed for many years. Well, it went like this ... I was living with my family again [the situation], in an apartment that we had recently...

crimes

justice

nightmares

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edb225112 We have lost our faith in our justice system or 'dishing our a little of my own justice,' or revenge would not be in our vocabulary. What would you get out of giving these people a little taste of vengence if it were not for your lack of faith that these...

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It seems as if I have reached my breaking Point

walking2010 @walking2010 (1009) • United States 11 Jul 11

I swear no matter what I do or how hard I try I feel like I am going in circles, don't seem as if anything is working you know? I feel as if I dream for other people anything that I dream about or want I see it come true for...

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edb225112 You need to start somewhere to get out of this funk. Start simply. Make a single goal to achieve in one day. Make a simple one to start. You are seeing just the problems not the successes. You may have some depression, and a doctor could help you with that....

11 Jul 11

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I need a pep talk..

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 7 Jul 11

Or words of inspiration or something.. just help me!! Ok, so I've been a stay at home mom for over 8 years, only working small, part time jobs now and then, which never lasted long. Needless to say, through these years we've...

feel like quitting

work

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edb225112 Anyone can do anything as long as a) there is a time limit on the job) and B) the desire to achieve something more important. You have a time limit in place. Once the kids go back to school you can find something else. Two months? What is that 40 shifts at...

7 Jul 11

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Definition of political leaders.

DoctorDidi @DoctorDidi (7018) • India 6 Jul 11

Some define political leaders as those who have many things to say and promise but nothing to do except creation of chaos for reasons and without reasons. Do you also have the same opinion about them?

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edb225112 Political leaders give us what we want so the only people we have to blaim for what politicians say and do. We need to stop wanting the 'government' to do something for us, make the world a 'fair' place and get something for doing nothing. Then politicians...

6 Jul 11

I have been holding back on

~Jodi~ @jeanena (2198) • Bucklin, Kansas 6 Jul 11

starting this discussion.I didn't want to feel like a crybaby so I have waited to post about what I recently found out from my doctor. Some of my older friends on here might remember that I had a problem with swelling and the Dr....

congestive heart

heart

lungs

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edb225112 I think you are asking the wrong question? Who cares if you are walking around with an oxygen tank on your shoulder. Who would care it it were a camp chair. Both may seem weird but can and do serve some purpose. So stop worrying about how you will look and...

6 Jul 11

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How many of you believe in god?

rattanchauhan @rattanchauhan (89) • India 6 Jul 11

Hey guys I have been trying to assess for myself that I am an atheist or not. Sometimes I feel that there's no God and no one above human beings that has limitless powers but when I hear of miracles then my heart says that God do...

belief

faith

god

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edb225112 Science and man's intellect believe they can find a reasonable explaination for everything. It is not in the explainations where God exists, it is in the order in the universe. Right now, the big search is for the God particle. The big bang suggests at one...

6 Jul 11

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Violence as I see it.

DoctorDidi @DoctorDidi (7018) • India 5 Jul 11

Violence proves nothing. Neither does it achieve anything. Do you believe it or differ from it?

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edb225112 Wow, what a simplistic world you live in. Violence has been around forever and it has roots in our most primitive survival mode. Most violence starts with the need for food, shelter or mating. Either you get the food or I get the food. The strongest or most...

6 Jul 11

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Vegetables and Fruits that grows in a canal water.

rhejans @rhejans (191) • Philippines 5 Jul 11

I saw a very large group of plants besides the canal water until i figure out that these plants are Vegetables and Fruits Plants. I wonder how these plants live and grows that water and soil is dirty, full of garbage and different...

vegetables and fruits plants besides canal water a

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edb225112 All things on earth decompose. Chemicals have a 1/2 life of effectiveness then they too become inert. Water is the great equalizer of all that. Water helps with breaking down the 'dirty' substances to their basic componants. The fruits and vegetables take in...

6 Jul 11

I Was So Mad At My Son Today

lindaharding627 @lindaharding627 (1442) • United States 3 Jul 11

He drew with crayon all over his good old navy hat. My mother-in-law bought the hat and if she would have seen it she would have had a fit- yelled at him then yelled at us. What made my temper flare even more is when my son said...

crayons

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edb225112 'see what happens when I am unsupervised.' What a revealing comment from your son. Behavior begins with some kind of need. My grandaughter will try to get your attention with a pet, asking you to hold it or saying the pet needs something. The person how needs...

5 Jul 11

How to maintain the confidentiality and authenticity of a business idea?

raj_gupta @raj_gupta (311) • India 5 Jul 11

Hi everyone. I have done a lot of research on a topic and have developed a business idea. Now I want to develop it into a real world entity. For that I need back of investors and a lot of other things as well. I plan to acquire...

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edb225112 What you are talking about is intellectual property. The only way I know is to establish the date you first had the idea and wrote it down. There is a poor man's copywrite. Write the entire idea down on paper(make sure you write about everything, where you...

5 Jul 11

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Is Life A Challenge?

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85292) • Valdosta, Georgia 24 Jun 11

Okay I had a debate a while ago with someone and I am curious to see what others think as well. I believe life is a journey in which we face many challenges but to just say it is a challenge I do not agree with that. Saying it...

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edb225112 Why does it need to be one or the other? I think it is both. We find the term challenge as a pejoritive rather than a positive part of a process of living. In the romantic tradition, life is a journey where one faces difficulties (challenges) and achieves or...

24 Jun 11

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activate the midbrain

sql_cell @sql_cell (1427) • Indonesia 21 Jun 11

Yesterday, my in-laws suggested to my son included an activity, which serves to activate the midbrain. I agree, if that's positive. But,to join the activity, requires no small cost.My in-laws are willing to pay the charge. In your...

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edb225112 Activate the midbrain? Exactly where would that be? This sounds like a silly way for someone who has little knowledge of the brain to swindle money from the unsuspecting. But then again, any activity which stimulates any part of the brain can be positive. What...

22 Jun 11

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Would a mother's past mistake affects a child mentality?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 18 Jun 11

I don't know if my title is appropriate for this discussion. My friend's daughter has made many mistakes in the past as she told me, and from others. Her daughter had gone through abortion once, and she also used illegal drugs...

mistakes

mother

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edb225112 Our children learn from their parents and their mother beginning in the womb. Eveything the mother does before the baby is born, affects the baby. All of the behavior the baby sees once born changes the babies view of the world and how to behave in it. So,...

20 Jun 11

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