What are the limits of friendship in between a boy and girl?

India
February 2, 2011 11:22am CST
Friends i am totally confusing, that how far we can made friendship a boy with a girl, and a girl with a boy. There are any serious restrictions. Ofcourse its depends on their wish, but we are not coming to this universe again and again, we are living in today again. And we are not having these days again. You may have so valuable and experienced thoughts. Please share with me. (Give a transperant response to boys and girl, because you have to think universally).
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@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
3 Feb 11
Um... what do you exactly mean with "the limits of friendship"? Is it that thin line that if you cross means the friendship is over? Well, in this world not all boys and girls are straight, so the possibilities for friendship to turn into something else are not that big, and also liking one gender (or both, like me) doesn't mean you have to fall for every single person of that gender, that would be absolutely ridiculous. The limits of friendship between two people, regardless their gender are to keep respecting each other, and not to step into the line where the other person doesn't want to
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• United States
3 Feb 11
Well, men and women (or boys and girls) can be friends. There is no law against it. I am a woman and I have plenty of male (men) friends. I am like one of the guys when I am with them. I am not a Lesbian, I have a boyfriend (or lover), but I just feel more comfortable hanging out with the guys than I do with women. When I am with most women, especially "Valley Girls" (girls or women from the San Fernando Valley in California), I run away from them, they annoy me so much. They use "up-talk" and they constantly use the words "like", "like you know", "whatever", "as if"... ever seen the movie "Clueless", those are pretty much "Valley Girls". I grew up with those women and I never fit in with them. I was too much of a nerd and too much of a geek to be with them. I like guys because they tell it like it is, and they don't hold back. When I am with men, I just feel comfortable.
• United States
14 May 11
Get a 411 on it. Dating is actually the best thing to do before getting into a serious relationship because you can weed out the good mates from the bad. You want to know who it is you are dating before making a full commitment to that person, otherwise, you might end up with someone that you really don't want.
• India
9 May 11
i don't know about dating.... I know very well about studies.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
2 Feb 11
Boys an s girl friends shar alot but really should just be friends and nothing more no kissing hugs maybe friends hug. now whentyu get more serious is still boyfriend and girlfriend but they are taling af marriage they get engaged thne married. Yuoucan have a group of friends with boys and girls mixed and just hang out being friends and doing thing all together
• India
4 Feb 11
how far is it correct to behave beyond the limits with a friend(girl)?
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
2 Feb 11
Well, as in every and any relationships, respect is a must. The line that divides or bounds friendship should also be respected as well as other aspects related to emotions and physical matters.
• India
4 Feb 11
@sender621 (14890)
• United States
3 Feb 11
I think it is difficult to put limitations and restrictions on friendships. You feel what is in your heart for a friend. When the friendship is between a boy and a girl, you have to set your boundaries. Taking the relationship to a new level can cause a lot of changes. You have to be ready to risk them.
• India
9 May 11
friendship is ship of cool things only..
• Philippines
3 Feb 11
I always thought that I'll never have a platonic relationship with a girl. All of my female friends were either my exes or I have planned to sleep with but didn't get through with it because they're already sober. But now I have female friends and they're great to be with. It's like having extra help when you're courting someone. Girls know girls and having a girl-friend (separated to avoid confusion) is like having a hacker by your side to decode other girl's encrypted personality. However, when it comes to a platonic relationship between a boy and a girl, I guess it depends on physical contact more (how you hold her) because when I compare my relationship with my girl-friends and my girlfriend, the difference is noticeable in that level. It also depends on how you communicate with each other, of course, but I can say "I love you." to any one of my female friends and they could just laugh at it, they do actually. Just to be safe, we could just consider the factors that can alter a person's perspective of the relationship; physical contact and verbal communication, which are everything I've just mentioned here.
• India
4 Feb 11
do you believe that "one girl heart is differ from another"?