I'm happy about my friend..Why?
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
February 3, 2011 6:35pm CST
Today, it is a great news I've heard because my friend called me that she is pregnant for almost 3 weeks and a day. She is always pray that it will happen to her because she get married 5 years ago and its a miracle to get preggy..I felt happy too..Good luck my friend maica..
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6 responses
@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
4 Feb 11
First of all I would like to say that I don't understand whether you are asking 'why' or you're telling us 'why'. I don't see any solid reason to be sad about this news. Only those who are diagnosed by doctors that they are unable to conceive will perhaps be unhappy on such a news. If she had been your sworn enemy then there would have been a feeble chance of you to get angry. I think you're happy because you want to have a family of your own. The news from your friend has reinforced that dream of yours. This made you feel happy.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
5 Feb 11
Hello Getbiswa. No, she's not my enemy because in my discussions I elaborate that I am happy because my friend is preggy. don't you find it clear? I'm asking why I am happy? The answer is.,It is because after long time of praying and waiting to have a baby at last she get preggy and that's is a great news for us.It's not my dream because I've also have my baby after all.Maybe, we didn't understand each other and I know that there are lots of conclusions.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead..
Godbless
@sardonyx777 (450)
• Philippines
4 Feb 11
Hi,
I understand happiness in the thread. Perhaps he/she is asking why after such 5 years of waiting at last. Why now and how?
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
4 Feb 11
Sharing your friend's happiness is an act of your true friendship with her. Your happiness spring from her own happiness and this is the true measure of friendship.Being happy for a friend is kind of stuff that sometimes are lost in friendship. Congratulations, you are a true FRIEND!
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
5 Feb 11
Hello Edna..Thanks for the wonderful word my friend. That's the way, I can show my affections to her. i know that for all those years passed by, she ever wanted to have a baby and this year she is lucky at last she have a baby after all. I am happy that she felt happy. I wish to be in her side whenever she needs me during her pregnancy..
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead..
Godbless
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
4 Feb 11
well maybe you are actually jealous of her. maybe you want kids and you just never really realized it until you saw one of your close friends get pregnant. i know i get a little weird when i see one of my new friends with their 3 month old baby and i actually start to think that i want a baby (because he is so adorable and he loves me lol...everytime he sees me he smiles :) ). anyway it's weird though because i know i can't afford a baby so i have to make myself snap back into reality so i don't end up actually getting pregnant...maybe it's just one of those "the grass is always greener on the other side" scenarios..
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
4 Feb 11
Hello birdie,,no I'm not jealous of her because why not to felt jealous with my friend whom I've always pray to get her pregnant. If she is happy, I am happy too. I have a baby of course that's why I didn't jealous with maica..
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead.
Godbless
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
5 Feb 11
Hello Lore2009..Of course I am happy for my friend because I want also that she felt happy and it's her time. I'm not felt empathy because I felt that before carrying baby iside my tummy and it is very difficult..
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead..
Godbless
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
4 Feb 11
Oh, same as me. The other day, my friend Tina from our company's affiliate texted me. She was also 2 months pregnant and they have been praying for it for almost a year already. They want their eldest, who is 5 years old and my god daughter , to already have a sibling.
i was happy for them too. 
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
5 Feb 11
Hello Simplyd. Good for her and wish that for her health. We must thankful for this blessings that our friends have it. I know it's not really easy for my friend to bear the baby inside her tummy but she's trying her best even though she is not feeling well this time, still she is happy.And that's the baby makes her happy despite the feelings bad.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead..
Godbless
@FX777222999 (437)
• Philippines
4 Feb 11
You're happy because it's in you that you want to give your friend the best of everything. The way you treat your friend is like your good relationship with her. You want her to have what she wanted in her life. I'm hoping that I have a friend like you. Honest, you're good with friends.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
5 Feb 11
Hello FX. you were exactly right. Of course, I want my friend happy too because I am happy. Thanks for your opinion and I know this is my way to show my feelings to my friend. I can't give her everything for my friend for now because we are far from each other but my prayers for her is much appreciated.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead..
Godbless
