Enjoy life?

Ecuador
February 22, 2011 6:31pm CST
How can I enjoy life if I'm always too tired?... how can I enjoy life if I don't feel loved by other people? how can I enjoy life if I don't love other people? how can I enjoy life if I don't have enough time to do the things I like? I'm feeling so tired, and I know most of you also have felt like me, and have had the same questions I have now... so please help me, I really need your help... what can I do with my life?! I'm feeling so sad and disappointed. feeling like an emo! I don't want to live like this, but I don't know how to change my situation. Thanks for your help.
12 responses
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
24 Feb 11
I don't know you to judge but I'm almost sure I felt like you 2 or 3 fases of my life. My dear, try to you to love your self. It was a hard lesson to me but I learned how I wasn't giving ME love and that was the reason why I felt others didn't love me. And love attracts, so I would have not so good people around me. I can say that after having and building a good selfesteem almost everything changed. I'm satisfied with life.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
23 Feb 11
Hi there. Yes, I've been there before too. The only thing I was able to do was think think think and worry and get sad. But eventually, time just changes it all. Sometimes you just can fight it and sometimes you can but just keep thinking of what you want to keep your small motivation going. What changed my life was because I kept looking and searching and eventually I found something that I really like doing. Something that I can do for myself, and not for anyone else. You will get there, I believe you will.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
23 Feb 11
i so know what you mean. i have fibromyalgia and feel tired a lot of the time. i work 3 mornings per week (because we need the money) and i am always wiped out afterwards. forunately, i like to read, so when i am tired and need to rest, i read. i order my library books onlne so i can send my hubby along to pick them up. i have a lot of nterests (history, decorating, arts and crafts) so that makes me happy (and of course my hubby and kids too!) my advice to you is to focus on things you like about yourself and things that you like to do.
• Philippines
23 Feb 11
i think the first thing you should do is change the way you think about people and things around you. there are lots of people who loves you, you just have to give them the opportunity to show it to you. you are capable of loving but maybe you are afraid do to because you fear of getting hurt. try to explore more with your life, have new friends and you'll see that thare's a lot more reason for you to be happy and enjoy life.
@JohnMach (550)
• Philippines
23 Feb 11
You should rest for a while if you're tired. You will not be able to enjoy life if you're tired. Rest and then tomorrow you enjoy your life.
@cyan9306 (65)
• China
23 Feb 11
everybody has lows some times.the way you walk out from it is to ignore some unpleasant stuff and focus on something that will make you happy .and also i think you need a break from your work.a short vacation maybe help. hey,you can not change the world ,but you can change your mind.cheer up,ricextreme!everything will work out!
• United States
23 Feb 11
First thing you have to do is to stop thinking negative about things in your life. Everyday people are tired and most of all tired of having to work to live their life. Also im sure there are people in your life that love you, look at your family and ask them if they love you and let them tell you how they feel about you and that may help you get through your day. People dont tell me they love me but i feel they do inside. If you dont have people then im not sure what you are doing most of the people i talk to are my family and i talk to freinds but not on a daily basis. You should try talking to your family once again. Family is so important in life. Enjoying life isnt just about having the time to do so. When you wake up in the morning tell yourself that today you are going to enjoy your life. If you work or just work from work try enjoying the work you are doing and that will help you to enjoy your day and life.
• United States
23 Feb 11
It really sounds like you are getting depressed. Depression is so common to some of us when a whole lot of things just to not go as we want and or plan. I am sorry you are feeling this way.. Do know that a great many people do care about you. You probably need a breather, maybe some walks to clear you mind several times a week. When was your last physical, as you may have a bit of anemia, maybe.. Please take care of you and try really hard to think positively as sometimes when things go wrong we dwell so much that our negative thoughts do not allow us to think highly. Best of luck and I do wish you feel better.
@tkonlinevn (6105)
• Vietnam
23 Feb 11
Hi my friend, I used to have this experience when I felt that I was alone in this life. I hate everyone. I hate life. But now, I knew that all are wrong. You should love yourself first. You should care yourself. Shopping, eating, going out with friend, traveling etc...Let doing every things which make you feel comfortable. You'll realize that life is beautiful. You'll love you. Then, you'll love other people. Wish you happy and peace!
• United States
23 Feb 11
People do love you they just don't know how to express it. You do love other people you just don't see it. You do have time to do the things you want but you don't make the time to do it. Things can get accomplished if you cut out the things that you do that aren't really necessary in your schedule. Stop with the negativity that you have building up inside and start focusing on the things you want and don't spend any minute thinking about the things you don't want. You can do anything you want to do if you believe in yourself. I know what I just said is some sort of cliche but it's true.
• Philippines
23 Feb 11
Breathe. Try to have a quiet moment with nature. Look around and see nature's natural beauty. Try to reflect, why were you unhappy? Look beyond what makes you feel so unwanted and alone for there lies the answer to all your questions..
• China
23 Feb 11
Why do you always feel tierd?Don't you have any minute to have a rest? You are so negetive that you have no love but comlain for the world. You can just do the things necessary.Can't you get along with your friends or lovers very well?You must take care others then they will be kind to you.Being loved needs you to love others.Do more sports then you will have more energe and emotion.Good luck!