Its funny how you can love someone sooo much without even meeting them...
By dloveli
@dloveli (4366)
United States
February 25, 2011 6:43am CST
I havent been on for sometime. I am ready to share the reason. My oldest daughter and a member of mylot was pregnant. On February 5, 2011 her water broke at 22 weeks. Fortunately the baby defied all odds and stayed in the womb for another two weeks. I honestly think he had no idea that he was in danger. He made to 24 1/2 weeks and on Wednesday, February 23, 2011, Alijah Aden was born at 2:55 weighing 1lb 7.7oz. is breathing 75% on his own. Lungs are great. Now we just have to wait. From the moment my baby girl told she was pregnant I was hooked. After the first ultra sound there was no turning back! I was obsessed! He is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen! Its amazing how much I loved him and didnt even know if he was a he. Isnt love amazing?
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13 responses
@lhenpaule (495)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
There are things that really beyond comprehension, yet we become overwhelmed with what is beautifully happening to us. True love makes connection.
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@lhenpaule (495)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
This is one of the beauty of sharing our thoughts here in MyLot. It's not just to merely sharing of thoughts, but inspiring us as well. Thank God, in a way, i was able to be that to you, the same way you are an inspiration to us too for trusting us and allowing us to be a part of what you are into. May God bless you more!
@friendship4lyfe (520)
• Saint Lucia
25 Feb 11
Love is amazing and as it is said love ask no questions.Loving a child is easy even when they make our lives miserable.Congratulations on the birth of your grandson.Enjoy every minute.
@dloveli (4366)
• United States
25 Feb 11
Your were words are like a poem. You are correct that children are easy to love even with their miserable side. lol I raised two daughters successfully I might add so I think I can cope. Maybe not though. No experience with boys. I may be begging for help in a couple of years. Dont go any where! lol Thanks so much for the beautiful words you sent. Happy MyLotting. dl
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
25 Feb 11
I am glad he is doing fairly well. That was really early. It is easy to come attached like that. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
13 Apr 11
It happens to me many times. When i am infatuated with celebrity or a regular guy, I believe I love them without being their friends or even without meeting them in person. I love them and I keep on praying for them for the reason that i love them. Loving someone who do not know you existed is not a crime. Do not stalk them though. Right now, i am loving someone that I never thought I had loved since 2006. Not my boyfriend, and will never be. So Alijah Aden is now 2 months old? Give my kiss to him.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
28 Feb 11
It is amazing to see what love can be like with someone that you've never met. I know that the minute that I was able to hold both of my children in the world I knew how much I loved them before they were even born. It is the most amazing thing and I don't think it is something that anyone can ever understand unless they've been a mother. I could never love anyone in this world more than I loved my two children before they were born.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Yes, it happened to me,too. I love the "little thing" inside my womb long before I could see her face to face. I have loved her through days and nights while waiting for the time. I am loving her, and giving all the best care I could give until the time she was born and became my precious possession . Until now that love did not fade and still growing and growing through the years we're been staying together!
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@dloveli (4366)
• United States
25 Feb 11
Yes Edna being a mother is an honor! Only you experience the miracle of child birth. Only a woman who has given birth truly knows how lucky she is. You and your child have an unbreakable bond for life. And now my babygirl has been fortunate enough to experience it for herself. Unfortunately her "little guy" came before his time but he's fighting like a champ. With her as his mother he has the greatest support he could possibly have. Of course, Im there. No one will ever hurt either of them if I have anything to say about it. thanks and Happy MyLotting dl
@whiteheather39 (24403)
• United States
25 Feb 11
Congratulations to you and your daughter. I am totally amazed that such wee baby 1 Lb 7 Oz can breath on his own. You just know this little guy is a real fighter. All the best of health to your daughter and the baby.
@celticeagle (158672)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Feb 11
It is amazing! I am so happy for you. My granddaughter gave birth to a little boy too in August. They are very special aren't they?! Amazzing how small and perfect they are right out of the womb. Glad little Alijah is doing okay. You seem very proud and I am really happy for you and the mother.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
26 Feb 11
It can happen anytime, anywhere you just know that you and that other life have a special connection. It can even happen with animals. In fact I think that is pretty common.
@larrychen (165)
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26 Feb 11
Love is really something great and amazing, especially when you are going to face a new-born life. How can we show our feeling to the new coming baby? How should we express our happiness while waiting for some one we even never meet? It's only love.
Everything will be nice and funny if you have great loves.
Glad for you and your daughter.
@asianjabba (158)
• United States
26 Feb 11
That is a miracle and I am so glad that the baby is hanging on. Congratulations on the new baby girl and I wish the best of luck to you and your family. I am also expecting a baby girl in three months so I feel all the anticipation, the excitement, and even the nerves! Luckily my wife is doing a lot better than I am...and she's the one carrying!
