Let's change the partner for a Night
By sriroshan
@sriroshan (2584)
India
February 27, 2011 7:47am CST
My friend family (only husband and wife)had gone for the over night picnic with their friends families. It seem they had the lots of enjoyment from eating to having the beers and alcohol to dance party. The party was in full swing, she said not a single women (they were 10 ) never mind dancing with other men other than their husband as they knew each other. After the dance they had the ice cream party and they decided to go in their room. Suddenly one couple came up with the idea and said "let's change the partner for one night, and see how enjoyable it is?" All ladies got shock to hear this they started looking at each other.
My friend and all other ladies object for such a act and told their husband this is not good and they does not like to participate in such activities.
Have any one experience such things in their life?
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21 responses
@akt1843 (207)
• India
27 Feb 11
Generally speaking, in our country this is not possible. Leave alone women, even men will not accept such proposal. But its also true that like many western things, wife swapping is also happening in India though on a very small scale. In the west, it is very common.
@sriroshan (2584)
• India
1 Mar 11
But there are some people do this things it seem I have seen in some Hollywood movies
@sriroshan (2584)
• India
27 Feb 11
Me I am damn against such thing as I strictly follow the Indian (Hindu) culture - Pati Parmeshwaar. If you are married I am sure you will realize how your wife is faithful to you, that what we Indian women follow
@jazel_juan (15745)
• Philippines
28 Feb 11
freakin weird! if i am in that kind of situation, i would also not agree because i would not be able to sleep with another person except my husband and thats it. That would be like soo groossss to be with another person especially if you do not know him 
@sriroshan (2584)
• India
1 Mar 11
Faithful partner (man or women) will never take the part in such activities and husband will never like or allow his wife to sleep with other specially in presence of him
@sriroshan (2584)
• India
28 Feb 11
Piya thanks and i I am sure married women will never agree for such act
@voldrox (7191)
• India
28 Feb 11
Hello there,
No, this has never happened with me. Lol, i am not even married, but i am not going to any such party where there are drinks and there might be other abusive substances as well? I don't think the others ever thought it was a swinger's party? I would not know, and i would leave right away if i had known, but like i said, i would never attend such a party in the first place. It is not something that i like to do, anyway.
@sriroshan (2584)
• India
1 Mar 11
Have a control on yourself and also on your emotion your friends may invite you to such parties which is very much common now a days within young people
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
hello sri,
I will never indulge in such act,or even think of changing partners 
I also read and watched interview of this kind,and i don't understand why and how can they do that.
Have a great day
I also read and watched interview of this kind,and i don't understand why and how can they do that.
Have a great day@sriroshan (2584)
• India
28 Feb 11
There ot seem such activities going on in the world and even I have read it sometime back but when my friend experience it I thought to put it here. I think such thing can born only if the head of filthy person
@jdyrj777 (6528)
• United States
1 Mar 11
I have not personally. But i know of some who do. There isa brother and half brother. The brother is single. The half brother is married and has kids. They would play this game and include the brother's girlfriend. Now the half brother's wife is expecting a baby and she doesnt know which one is the daddy. Worse thing is the brother was working around chemicals that causes birth defects. I pray for the sake of the baby that her husband the half brother is the daddy.
@celticeagle (181371)
• Boise, Idaho
1 Mar 11
No, I have never had this happen to me. At the ending few months of my last marriage my ex asked me if we could do such a thing with a woman he had met.(We had seperated several times by this time and he was seeing other people at time.I was too weird out to.)I am just too old fashioned for such things.
@beautifulkinabalu (64)
• Malaysia
27 Feb 11
Wow, that's wild. I don't know anyone who's got that kind of experience. personally, i think that's not ethical. It will be the beginning of a disastrous marriage. Do you want to experience someone else's husband? Or would you accept the fact that your husband have a thought of sleeping with someone's wife?
@sriroshan (2584)
• India
27 Feb 11
No No I personally will never do such thing and will never allow or like my hubby is doing such thing. My friend also against such activities and that's the main reason she decided to leave the place
@sinawaliboy (271)
• Philippines
1 Mar 11
I've heard a lot of suggestions like that in the past wherein after a drink you exchange partners which is a big no no. You go out with other people, be unfaithful at that but exchange partners is something you should never do.
@scorpiobabes (7225)
• United States
28 Feb 11
No I have not, even as a single woman nor would I even consent to participate! Some people make mistakes in selecting their partners. When the novelty wears off, they are looking for something better.
@dheckerz (473)
• Philippines
28 Feb 11
I've heard such parties but never been or even thinking of going into such gatherings. As far as I'm concerned if you participate in this kind of activity you are just promoting infidelity in your relationship. This could lead to serious problem in society if this will be socially accepted by couples. They may justify it in a way but i don't think exchange of partners is still appropriate.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
27 Feb 11
So are you thinking for a change.Then lets have some fun, if you are interested
@sunset_haze (97)
• Philippines
28 Feb 11
I'm not yet married. But, I were I would totally disagree with such idea. I mean Why would you share your husband or wife? You would even cry a bucket if your husband would have 3rd party. So, why indulge in such act?. Well, that is just in my opinion maybe some would like the idea, especially the liberated ones. But, just be safe you know what I mean.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
28 Feb 11
it sounds like a very bad idea to me. i would never do or want to do that. it may result with breaking up with the other half and create lots of problems. it's better to be safe than sorry but anyhow i would never do that.
