Choose your friends carefully

I don't have any criteria when I accept friends. Sometimes I look at the profile especially if they have a cool avatar. Sometimes I don't. To me it's not a huge deal. I accept everybody.

I used to add people who ever requested. I felt I was being open to different opportunities for different discussion but, now I feel that some people just may be spammers. So, now, I do check.

I generally check profiles, but I didn't check yours... If I see that they have way too many "friends" and interests but few posts, I will not accept them. I also won't accept if we don't have anything other than myLot in common.

I always check their profile and leave them hanging if I have any doubts or suspicions. I have one pending right now that have been here only 4 months, no activity at all but already has 1368 friends

I only accept sexy and attractive young ladies.... Oh sorry. Wrong social network. I am very selective . That person also tried to befriend me and was immediately declined. My rule is simple: visit my discussion or I visit yours and we get to be friends.

I will not accept a friend request from someone with very few discussions or responses. Typically I have to have seen them in a few discussions before I will accept a friend request. It doesn't happen often. I tend to get at least 1 friend request a day and it's always from someone with a very low number of posts (or none at all) and someone who's name I've never seen before. I never accept those requests.. ever!

I consider low number people very carefully. I do look a profiles. I check their interests. I look at their responses and I don't accept people with "0" especially if they have loads of money making banners. I also consider their age and where they are from. I'm more apt to accept a low number person if they have ever responded to one of my discussions, but I will check their discussions and respond to one if they have one of interest. Those I will let their friendship pend and see if they are active, but if their number hasn't changed in several days/weeks, I deny them.

I also check the number of posts....and how long they have been on board....I also go through my friends on occasion and if they haven't done any posting for a long time I delete them.

I like a few hundred responses in the ( ) by their name at least. I like to see them answer a few of mine. I like to see their discussions have something I would like to answer. Many ask to be my friends and they haven't answered a single question of mine. I look, nothing of theirs looks interesting to me either. So why does this person want to be my friend? If I can give and take with the person, great. But sometimes the person doesn't even answer anything that I can understand (not understandable English) or has an attitude that I don't want to deal with (we all have the right to believe as this person and if we don't we're wrong or going the H or whatever). I think people should try each other discussions first. You went to mine: I went to yours. You seemed cool. So then, I ask. But I get like 20 at a time that have never answered a question of mine and they don't have a thing I'm interested in on their home page. So I can't answer theirs and they can't answer mine. Where would be the discussion?

If your refer friends here in mylot. Well, I said that I never look any criteria before accepting those request. Because I know they are not friendly as I am. I never have a friends here regularly talking to me. But all of those friends added into my list of friend...no one with them are really a friends of mind

I don't accept all friends requests, especially if they have not posted anything or have very few posts. To me the ones with 0 posts are just trying to spam other usually, so I am just a little apprehensive and so I only accept those that have been here awhile. To me, it is safer that way. Good luck to you and happy mylotting.

I check the profile for activity. Often I wait for awhile and check it again to see if there are new posts within a month to three months. If they have no new activity then I do not add them. I look at the quality of posts they have as well.

Hello GreenMoo! When I was using myLot for the first few days I just usually accept friend requests that time so I do have friends whose number is 0. That time I didn't understand it well so I just accepted them. Now that I'm already used to it I will always take a glance at the profile and accept the request but if their number is 0 then I wait for some time before accepting or rejecting their requests.

to be honest, i havent got any friend request since i joined mylot. but in my facebook account, i approved only friends i really know, i dont have any idea how i can share my pictures, my informations, anything about me, with people i dont know well.. if someone add me as his/her friend on facebook, i will just ignore it if dont know that person at all..if i have same friends with him/her, than i will take a quick look at his/her profile, if i like it and i think i can be friend with this person, then i will approve the friend request. so, i think i will do the same ways here in mylot..:) by the way, what do you mean with "contained adverts to a making money opportunity"? i dont think i understand that..is it a kind of getting referral and make money from that? thank you!

If they have a (0} next to their name then I know they have not participated in any of my discussions or crossed paths in another discussion. I just don't even bother accepting them. It is obvious they are here just to solicit you for other sites. If I don't recognize the name then I do check their profile. A zero..I don't even check...I just don't waste my time with it.

I really have no criteria. everyday, I always receive friend request and I accept them. But when they send me some messages with links to promote, i just ignore it...

Before, when I was a newbie, some lotters(old or new) add me as a friend. What I usually do is accept them in that instance. And before, I don't send friend requests, I just wait for someone to request me to become his/her friend. Now, I always check on their profile before accepting and I make it a habit now to add the lotters who responded to my discussion or to the ones I had a conversation with. And also, just a few minutes ago, I deleted some of my friends who aren't doing mylot.

The issue is also a historical issue,and I can only say :landlord take care ,this world is so colorful.Therefore,they have easy to get confused,so difficult to distinguish between right and wrong.This is real beginning of time.

i've only got 2 friends in my list and im new here at mylot the two friend request ive accepted are both post a comment and suggestion with the topic i've discusted so i accept them...

I choose who I want to be friends here in mylot. I choose friends whom I can relate especially with the topics they posted. Everybody can be a friend but I prefer someone whom I can have a discussion always.