men can be so darn....................................

@saphrina (31552)
South Africa
March 2, 2011 3:22am CST
I couldn't really find the right word here. Why is it that men always follow either naked women or scantly dressed women on sites? Are you having some issues or shall we just call this lust? I mean really. Don't you have anything else to do? Seems like most aren't used to women. Time to grow up, i think. End of this rant.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
2 Mar 11
I needed six months to find how to see "mature content" at myLot, can I ask how to activate this feature at myLot, please ?
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@topffer (42156)
• France
2 Mar 11
I was not in "hot" interests and I saw during months only a response here and there with "mature content". I used the search bar to find how to see the bad words.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
3 Mar 11
And why do you want mature content sweetie? Didn't i just tantrum about men? TATA.
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• Malaysia
4 Mar 11
Hmm . . I too am trying to find out how to view posts with "mature content". Heaven knows I am waaaaaaaaay past the allowed age!! :))
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
2 Mar 11
I hope this does not refer to all men on the planet... If yes, I would have to find where I belong to
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
3 Mar 11
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
2 Mar 11
Not quite sure... you never know... esp in case of saphrina
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
2 Mar 11
Hi anna.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
3 Mar 11
Saph , I wonder what Sunny has to say about this .. .where is he ? Never see him for quite some time. Great rant , let it all out. Take comfort not all are like that , but I know .. respect your rant. Those types .. must grow up , but it's like a built in chip they can't change...well not all are like that I must say. Take care euuu..
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
8 Mar 11
Hahhahahaha .....
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
3 Mar 11
Hello Zed. Missed you. I have no idea where sunny is. That chip need to be replaced then. It's really starting to irritate a lot of women lately. Glad not all are like that, though. TATA.
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@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
3 Mar 11
I can think of words to put there. I belive its just the males nature. Its just not on sites. Also not limited to humans. All walks of life in males. Ever own a female pet that hasnt been spayed? All the males that are around smell her and come around. Its just natural animal instinct. The difference with humans is some feel some loyality to relationships. They may look but they know they can do nothing about it.
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@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
4 Mar 11
I believe in passed generations females were trained to turn away from their mates looking at other females. To ignor it and not make a big deal of it. As if to not see that they were looking around.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Mar 11
Seems both male and female should start waking up and smell the coffee sweetie. If they keep this up, trust will be missing forever.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
4 Mar 11
Hi sweetie. Seems like it's their nature. But that could ruin a lot of relationships. That's the problem. Thanx.
@vandana7 (98168)
• India
2 Mar 11
Give them a break... they are trying to learn how to solve a problem like....
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
3 Mar 11
Aunt V , like what ??? Tell me , tell me ..
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
2 Mar 11
Hi vandana how are you? Not to be seen around now a days.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
3 Mar 11
Hi Vannie. They are trying to solve the problem for which way their brain is. They tend to forget it's the upper part of the body. I think most men got lost on that lesson. TATA.
@jhaidro (877)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
I think that it is just human nature taking its course. I think that it is something that is out of our control most of the time. Some men try so hard to be faithful to one and just avoid these so called temptations, but at times, even how hard you try, it will just get to you. Men might not do so much about what they would feel when faced with these kinds of situations but their imagination is just way out there. I think that it will be alright if we just appreciate others but not really act on what we might feel.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
3 Mar 11
Hi sweetie. And do they have imaginations? It's scary to know what men think and how they look at things. Wonder if they are normal? TATA.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
4 Mar 11
Can't we share some detail then, sweetie?
@jhaidro (877)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
I think that it is 100% normal. Men think of the craziest things and it will be better to not go over the details.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
2 Mar 11
I think it just the way they are made, I think they were made this way because they will keep the species going, they can't really help it I don't think....
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
3 Mar 11
Hi sweetie. So that will be a human flaw then. Hope it can be fixed though. TATA.
@dpk262006 (58673)
• Delhi, India
3 Mar 11
Hi Saph! I checked out the meaning of the word darn, which is - to express dissatisfaction or annoyance. It is for you to decide whether it fits here. Back to your post, I think that it is a very good post. You see it is a human tendency to go for 'forbidden' things. In a civilised society, we are not suppose to roam naked or in a very scantly outfits. When you cover up something, a person gets curious what is beneath it. . You say going for a naked women on site, I think you wish to say that people (read men) get attracted towards such pictures of women. The question is - what for those pictures? Are those pictures not for viewing by someone (it could be either male of female viewer). And what about those who upload such pictures and videos ( if I could add)? I understand that you may not feel the lustful approach of some men towards naked women but I think it cannot be helped.
@dpk262006 (58673)
• Delhi, India
3 Mar 11
pl. read - you may not appreciate or like the lustful approach of some men ...........
@dpk262006 (58673)
• Delhi, India
3 Mar 11
I fully agree with you Saph that those who upload such pictures have low self esteem and they remain desperate to seek others' attention. It is certainly unpleasant. I can recall an example. Many months ago, some female joined mylot and she posted a photo in bikini (am not sure if it was her actual photo or a fake one). However, I found that whatever discussions she would start, many would answer her post and she used to start many discussions on 's*x'. I mean that her avatar attracted many users and many would have sent her friend's request. However, if you do not have sum and substance in your posts and you appropriately do not post your comments/counter-comments, you cannot survive here for long and same happened with her and she disappeared from the scene after one or two months. I personally do not like such avatars and I don't feel good about those, who upload such avatars.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
3 Mar 11
Hello Deepak. If i know you would have looked for the meaning i would have told you in the first place. Anyway, i get what you are saying. Let me answer this for you according to my point of view and thinking. People, men and women, who upload such pics on the net have a seriously low self esteem. They cannot get the attention they want, so they get it on the net. It's not only dangerous, but distasteful as well. Most men loose their families thru this. Is it really worth it to drool over pics like that. No matter who is to blame here, people need to start thinking for themselves. I hate it when men have such an approach towards me. TATA.
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@ElicBxn (63187)
• United States
3 Mar 11
that's because they are thinking below the navel... and that thinking leads to hope, the kind of hope that gets a male's attention....
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@ElicBxn (63187)
• United States
3 Mar 11
oh, I know, I know
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
3 Mar 11
That hope sweetie can be dangerous sometimes.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
4 Mar 11
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@dawnald (85129)
• Shingle Springs, California
2 Mar 11
I call it lust...
@dawnald (85129)
• Shingle Springs, California
3 Mar 11
yes
@vandana7 (98168)
• India
3 Mar 11
Is that a new word Dawny?
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
3 Mar 11
I agree Dawny. Disgusting lust rather. Good one, meluan.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
If i were to observe the men that i am around with everyday, that is my huby, my co-workers, luckily they tend to not search women online ( or mabye because these men are in the offices) But yes, they tend to not follow them online. But i did observe them when we go out, like on a Friday night gimick, they tend to look at women who are scantly dressed, women with big bo*bs I honestly do not know the reason why, but i did asked them once, my friend said, because they are attractive, and it is nature of men to admire women this way. duh. but well boys will be boys.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
3 Mar 11
Hi sweetie. I don't call that admiring. I call that staring and that's rude. Wonder what they will say if we start to "admire" them that way. I really wish men will stop behaving that way. Just goes to show with what they think then. TATA.
@cajimenez (452)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Hi! saphy, I think men possesses the natural instinct of being a pervert :P They just not follow naked or scantily dressed women on sites but in real life too. I have that problem on my husband, he seems can't get enough of looking at other women. I believe he'll grow old being that way...
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
3 Mar 11
Hi sweetie. Pervert sounds good. I believe men can look, but really do they have to drool as well? I won't ever get that. Get your hubby a leish. That ought to help. TATA.
• Slovenia
11 Mar 11
well I think this is kind of men's nature and no matter how annoying it may be to someone they'll keep doing it, cause well that's just a part of their being. I too don't completely inderstand and like this nature of theirs, but that's the way they are, tho some who do this a bit too often come off as kind of pervert. It's ok to be a bit, but too much is too much.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
12 Mar 11
Hi sweetie. Yip, i don't think we will ever understand it. Pervert is not the word i would have used though. It seems you get more who do this too often. Thanx.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
14 Mar 11
• Slovenia
12 Mar 11
yeah, I completely agree. well maybe I'm to indirect them, you'd probably use some more discreet word then I guess xP
@mythociate (21438)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
3 Mar 11
The female body and the many-many ways to make it happy; it's like that video-game that you love to play over and over again!
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
4 Mar 11
Alright and when you get married if your not already? What then? Will you still drool like that over others? Thanx.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Mar 11
I will send your wife the whips then.
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@mythociate (21438)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
4 Mar 11
Yes, but then it will be 'because they all remind me of my wife when she feels good.' And now they all remind me of 'how my wife will feel when she's feeling good.'
@piya84 (2581)
• India
19 Apr 11
Thats pleasure to eyes.Sometime they think they can have wee little sexy chat with her.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
19 Apr 11
Hi sweetie. Wee little chat you say? I mean really.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
9 Mar 11
You don't blame men, my friend. Because that maybe an instinct for men that we can't change. I am disagree not because I am a man. But as I observed many men are really attracted to see beautiful women. I don't know the reason why most men do this. That is why most adult sites earn huge of money due to this practice of men or even women also...
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
10 Mar 11
Hi sweetie. I actually blame the women doing it and the men watching it. I wish those sites can be taken down. Thanx.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
hello saphy dear, I couldn't understand as well Wish they've grown up
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
physically 101% but emotionally... i doubt
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
3 Mar 11
Hi sweetie. What are the chances of them growing up? TATA.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
4 Mar 11
Great answer sweetie.
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
2 Mar 11
Hi saphrina dear, yes some men may do but not all. For woman its like ranting.
@vandana7 (98168)
• India
3 Mar 11
Hi jo, I am fine. This year has been something. Started with sickness, then some personal upheaval, which has done me good anyway, and now no maid... her grandson has leukamia so she is not as regular as she used to be. Tomorrow she has to take him to hospital again. He was back only a couple of days ago. Life goes on. :)
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
3 Mar 11
Hi sweetie. I know not all men are like that, but unfortunately most are. Those women need some help, i think. TATA.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
2 Mar 11
If possible just type a sentence "how to im" and hold there, it will automatically shows that "how to impress the girls". It is having so much importance to impress the girls and see them as like that as you said. To see the girls(women) like that is the feat to eyes(almost for all men). I think it is the manufacturing default of god. But it is not good in all the times. Even some people are doing the same thing in the public places like bus stands, theaters, hotels and in parks...etc., The idiots who are behaving badly with the girls are equal to donkeys.
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
2 Mar 11
hhhhmmmmmmm so manufacturing fault ?
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
2 Mar 11
okay
• India
3 Mar 11
@wuliaode (92)
• China
3 Mar 11
This kind of thing really much,I am a Chinese guy,I now feel more and more the beauty of the human body is full of mystery,not just women,as well as men .Not just adults,infants as well .This is the gift of Creator ah.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Mar 11
Good at least you are starting then. Thanx.
• China
5 Mar 11
In this case ,we only start from the little things around us.