Advice about finding an apartment, please?

@raineyes (554)
United States
March 7, 2011 9:13pm CST
My boyfriend and I and another couple who go to the same school are looking to find an apartment to move into together, but none of us has had an apartment before now. Does anyone have an advice on finding an apartment? Things to watch for? Ways to not get burned or cheated? I would be very grateful if anyone did. Thanks!
2 responses
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
8 Mar 11
Have you ever had roommates before? If not beware. I've had several roommates and for the most part most were fine until the last one. That made me never ever want to have a roommate again. I had to take her to court because she left after she bounced checks and stole rent money. Both of us were on the lease and she left and went to a different state with me holding the bag. Make sure everyone signs a roommate agreement to outline who pays what and the responsibilities of each and make sure everyone is on the lease even though she was on the lease with me I was still held responsible because I was there and she wasn't. If it's possible make it so that everyone has to pay their share of the rent to the landlord instead of one person's responsibility to collect the rent. There's a saying you never know who someone is until you live with them. They may be friends and seem really cool but people don't show their true colors until you are together day in and day out. Look on craigslist, newspapers, apartment guides. Depending on where you rent and who's the landlord you may have to do a credit check and you will probably have to get renters insurance. You have to also decide who's name will be on the utilities.
@raineyes (554)
• United States
8 Mar 11
Thanks for your advice. I have had roommates before, several, and I know exactly what you are talking about. My first roommate moved in two weeks later than she said AFTER she told me she wasn't moving in and promptly broke all of the rules, and then, thankfully, moved out again. As I said above, my roommates will be my boyfriend and my brother, whom I lived with for 16 years, haha, as well as his girlfriend, whom I grew up with. I didn't know you could divvy everything up like that, and thanks for the advice about making sure everyone is equally responsible. I'm sorry about your roommate. She sounds awful! I wouldn't want a roommate after that either.
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
8 Mar 11
Yes she was. She scammed, mooched, bounced checks and stole from a lot of people and has a warrant out on her as a result.
@raineyes (554)
• United States
12 Mar 11
That is awful. I hope she gets her punishment for being such a bad person to you and others.
@jameygc (452)
• United States
8 Mar 11
First thing you need to do is discuss the financial arragements with your future housemates. That can save you a lot of problems. Set some rules, and assingn chores to everyone in a fairly way. About choosing an apartment, watch is clean of bugs, if the price includes utilities, is the appliances work properly and if is located in a good neighborhood.
@raineyes (554)
• United States
8 Mar 11
That is all good advice. Well, we are pretty close. The other couple is my brother and his girlfriend, so the normal problems might be averted. We already decided we are going to split rent equally, and cover each other if the need arises, though it shouldn't. Thanks for the advice! I will definitely make sure of those things and interrogate our future landlord about everything. :)