What is the disadvantage of looking younger?

@ifa225 (14364)
Indonesia
March 13, 2011 7:17am CST
Hello friends and friends to be... all i know that looking younger make people see you so energize and so...young. what is the disadvantage of this? please share your opinion, thanks a lot.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
13 Mar 11
Hi ifa The cheering above is for the fantastic opening of the discussion - Hello friends and friends to be... - loved it Though looking younger makes people believe and see you to be energetic and of course young, I think it is the feeling young that plays a better and greater role. Anyways, that got off topic, now to the discussion - well, looking young poses one problem as far as my experiences go - Going by my illness, I have not got a great health and physically I seem to be a sick guy in late 20s. Now this causes the problem - whenever I travel on a train for my yearly checkup... the TTE always doubts my age as on the Ticket it mentions 35(the last year) and then asks for proof saying that I am traveling on someone else's ticket....
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
Hi Sid, wow you give me so many emoticons there you do have problems with age don't you..lol maybe you need to wear eyeglasses so you look older, you know...like Superman
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@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
who won't feel jealous with that Superman... you attract many girls there... watch out from the bad guys ..
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
14 Mar 11
They would put me behind bars if I ever tried wearing undies on the trousers like our Superman Oh, I do not have problems with age many a times they have and I feel they are all jealous
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
13 Mar 11
Hi Ifa!. I got one my friend has really young place even when she graduated from university she look like junior high student. Even one of her maid never calling her ibu because she think she is younger than her and married at really young age.When she tell her truly aged she not believed until her mom confirm it. She look so young actually even with her baby people often think he is her brother. I don't think she really enjoy it when people think she is teen when she mature woman. Its life so its common if people want different think many people with look mature than their age while others look much younger. Its has their own problems if you wanna make it problem or just better except it.
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@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
Hi nangisha, my son is 10 years old now, and he had gain his height as tall as me. and people would never believe that he is my son. same like your friends, i don't feel comfort when people say this. they think that i had adopt him.
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@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
take the good side Ifa when others look like fifty maybe you like thirty. Many people do plastic surgery to look younger but you had it. I think kids this day much taller than us. Maybe they had better gene and advance in nutritional. If you wanna look older maybe you can wear cosmetic thats made you look a little older.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
hhohoho...i can save more money then from surgery i guess the milk play a big role in kid's growth. i try to wear eyeglasses to make me look older, but i don't think it can help
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Mar 11
hi ifa here in the US everyone seems obessed with the idea that showing you are growing older is a no no. but actually I have seen some young people get turned down as they look too young to handle sertain job.So I have always said look your age and act your age. whether people here want to face it each day makes you closer to older aga. I say sol what. I actually worked part time until I was close to 80 and I loved the fact that I was able to do so. I am now 75 with snow white hair and loving being alive and able to do much of the same thing I did at 60.The thing is to keep ones mind active and use one's mental posers all the times.I cannot abide anyone who says oh shes ancient shes 60. Some are not using all their brain power at forty while others are mentally active as long as they live. I am told by many that I do not look 85 but I really am.Its all in using your God given brains all the time. Any muscle will lose its energy if not used.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
Hi Mrs.Hatley, it is wise to look your age and act like your age. that is the great way to be like that. but there is some people look younger or look older. the nature play that role.
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@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
13 Mar 11
Not that much I guess. But I think when applying for work, looking younger than your age might have some disadvantage especially when you're applying for a senior position. Some people still relate looks to wisdom and experience. They tend to assume that an older looking person possesses more experience than a younger one.
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@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
13 Mar 11
right...!!!looking younger may underestimate of your ability. i hate it when it comes like that, you look like a kid who still love play and not being serious
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@kingparker (9673)
• United States
13 Mar 11
Looking younger is most people would want it to be. If there is a disadvantage to associate with it, it might be that you look so immature, that is only one thing I can think of. So, do you actually want to be look younger, or you totally hate to be younger?
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@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
i am enjoy to be look younger. this is a gift for me. but human always dissatisfied with the gifts, cause the gifts have weakness and strength too
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• Singapore
13 Mar 11
I think one of the disadvantages of looking younger than your own age is people may not take you too seriously. This applies for both men and women. You may have more experience about something, or have more knowledge about something in the work place. But for closed minded people (I'm not saying all people are like that). For close minded people, the positions or projects or opinions will be better off comin from people who look more professional and more mature. Hmm..
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
Hi same, that is right. people doubt that we have a good knowledge even we are mature and old enough. i guess we need to stylish to make us more look older in this case
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
14 Mar 11
I cannot think of any disadantage of looking younger off hand . I think people spend lots of money to look younger and even go under the knife.. Only problem is if one is looking younger and going with his/her son or daughter, s/he might be mistaken for his/her 'sister/brother', instead of parent. . I look younger than my age and I love it.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
15 Mar 11
If you look younger than your hubby, you should take it as a compliment.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
15 Mar 11
well, most of time i enjoy playing the role as a father and daughter with my spouse. that makes me feel free to see another young guy. and that is to test too of how jealous he is
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
Hi deepak, it is great that you look younger and you enjoy it my hubby's friend always though that i am his first daughter
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
16 Mar 11
When I was at secondary school one of my friends looked way younger than she really was. At age 11 she looked more like 5 years old. Then at age 12 she looked about 6 years old. From age 13 to 14 years old she looked around 7 years old. Then her family moved to a different area. She arrived at her new area at an time that she wasn't prepared for the exams. So the school put her into the year before her. She did very well and achieved 5 grade C exams. Now she is an adult she is 5 foot 9 inches high so that is very tall. She looks very youthful still. She always had to prove so was over 18 years old. The management of night clubs made jokes and said things like "oh really" with an element of disbelief. The worst thing was when she was 14 years old she was out on a bike ride and a stranger tried to grab hold or her! This weirdo probably thought he was attempting to get a 7 year old. Thank goodness she got away from this evil person.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 11
Hi Maximax, i love to read your response here. that is how happen to me too. people tend to underestimate me of my ability. and it seems that the grabber is underestimate her too by doing that nad maybe think that he can grab it easily.
• Philippines
14 Mar 11
Hi Ifa! I agree with most of the answers here. There are advantages and disadvantages in looking younger. When I applied before for a job, they didn't took me seriously and they thought I was to vain or not fit for the job I was applying. I wanted to be a cashier on the busy super highway..LOL..I almost felt bad for being all prep-up for that interview. I don't know why people judge you on your appearance and just conclude "no, no, she can't stand to be in the hot weather and dirt." That was a sad experience for me. I really wanted that job, for the experience of something new and challenging. I think maybe if I showed more strength in my character, they would have took me seriously. But well, I have learned my lessons...(^^,)
• Philippines
15 Mar 11
Hi Ifa! And especially if your interviewer is a female too, I don't if it is the rivalry or jealousy that kicks in... Because when you look young to them, they somehow have a bad impression of you.. (^^,)
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
Hi Aphrodtei, you have a great user name here that is my experience too. they look me and just not interest to interview me. they thought that looking younger has to do with ability
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@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
15 Mar 11
i guess she is jealous with us. she won't have a rival in her office i bet
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
16 Mar 11
there had been so many times that people would think or look at me younger than my age. there was even a time when a guy had asked my wife, if i am her eldest son? well, what i think about this subject now, people will also look down on you when they think you are younger than them, even if you only look younger for them.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
16 Mar 11
true, that is happen to me too. when i was in long line in ATM, the old man just want to take my place cause he think that i am only a girl that he can fool
@shibham (16977)
• India
16 Mar 11
Hi ifa... Looking younger means a chocolate figure here? Everyone will treat you as a kid and you cant deserve all those that you want according to your age. Mainly people will stare at you.... may be embarrassed situation. lol. Take care.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
16 Mar 11
Hi sibhie, that is so annoying when people see us a kid. especially when we give our opinion, they won't respect it. they think that they have a better opinion
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
That younger men will flock on you and we have a hard time telling them one by one that you are older than you look so could not accept any of their proposal to have a date.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
lol.... i guess i have to prepare if there is so many proposal to be deny
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
15 Mar 11
It's not fun in real because I have told them my real age when I don't really want it to be established. When I just said that I am much older than them, they just would not listen and still said they would not mind dating older women. But I mind, because I know they thought that I am only about 5 years younger than them, when in fact I am maybe as old as their mothers.
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
15 Mar 11
Sorry.. I meant to write... They thought I am only 5 years older than them...
• United States
14 Mar 11
The only disadvantage for me is that my son being 6 ft 4 inches tall and as beautiful as he is, is that while around his friends and acquaintances they feel I am one of the guys.. lol It is more of an advantage because although I uphold all respect it is quite flattering. Although not sure he is ecstatic about it but then again he and I hang out a lot so he must like it. lol
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
Hi HWD and suny, i bet they treat a baby with nice and full with love it is great that you feel the advantages than the dis one. you can enjoy of who you are..
• United States
14 Mar 11
Awwh there is no fun we act our age. I am a shrimpy I am 5 ft 5 1/2 and my boyfriend is 6 ft tall. Whoa standing next to both of them I feel like a baby.
@vannyt (343)
• Philippines
14 Mar 11
Is there a disadvantage? ummmm....... nothing really that I could think of or maybe in relationships? If you look way younger than your partner even if you're just in the same age bracket, you would see people raise their eyebrows. I know cause I also do that when I see a couple that looks like as if they have a huge age difference, I know that's bad but I can't help it.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
Hi vannyt pretty, every time i walk with my hubby they also raise they brow and look at the two of us without blinking it is annoying, so stop it
@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
14 Mar 11
Having a younger look has many benefits. At least you can fool around:) People pay so much money to have the younger look, now at least you can save this cost. If you have to point out the disadantange, then perhaps others may think you are not mature yet since you have a younger look. I love China
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
Hi youless, then i guess i have to be glad cause there is more the advantages than the dis one. we know the being mature is good when we are in the society, people will respect as more of being mature
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
14 Mar 11
Depends on how young you look. if you look like a teenager then you would have a hard time applying i guess.. unless you look young but sophisticated and confident..then i believe that would be an advantage in work applications, since you view as if you are refreshing and vibrant.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
Hi Jazel i am look like teenager even i am now 30... i don't like to make up, and that is make look worst. i guess i need to change how i dress so they can see me as a sophisticated, confident and mature person
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
14 Mar 11
You have many words to said and good to each and everyone in you.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
Hi ebu and suny, when i look younger i don't think anyone wants to listen to me cause they think they are older and have more knowledge than me. but the good side is i just listen what they said and learn something from them
• Philippines
14 Mar 11
I don't think there's a disadvantage of looking younger. If you looked younger you have to take that as a compliment. The only problem I can think of is mistakening you for being younger than your real age but that can be corrected easily, can't it?
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
sure it can, but sometimes first impression play an important role for the next impression. even we had correct it and then they see how we look then...here they go again...
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
14 Mar 11
I don't think there are if we like what others think, cause people admire the younger. I think older people are more admirable, I am not afraid of getting older, I find it fascinating. Looking younger was a disavantage for me though when I was going to watch a rated 14 year old movie and I was 21 and they didn't let me in, so I laughed hard cause I couldn't believe in that woman and she got angry like I was really 13 or something.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
i have to bring my ID when i go to theater so i can prove it that i am old enough to watch the movie sometimes ID helps me so much so people know what my real age
• China
14 Mar 11
the status looking younger is hard to changeable.it let people feel not mature and deep,so some position isn't fit you. but each coin have its two sides,look younger,and not old for ever,which is what many people wanted to be... haha,enjoying it.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 11
Hi good market, you are right that we had that two side. i guess that people who look younger is not fit to be a director of company then