Do you enjoy eating while meeting?

@ifa225 (14364)
Indonesia
March 16, 2011 3:49am CST
i often see that many workers are having a meeting in lunch. i wonder how they can enjoy their food in the middle of meeting. i don't think i can...how about you?
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• Philippines
16 Mar 11
I admit it is up to the meal, If I like the meal I will enjoy my meal, if I don't, I will leave it.
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@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
16 Mar 11
that is great, you don't bother with the meeting at all. we should have this point if we want to stay out of stress.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
16 Mar 11
Hi ifa I was here expecting an invitation for some meeting over coffee or supper ... hopes shattered Ok, seriously, Some would enjoy the meeting and some (those who do not want to be a part of the meeting) would enjoy the food... I would have loved the food more than the meeting as the ones that I attended (with lunch or snacks), they were all quite boring and nothing much happening during them...
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
16 Mar 11
Hi Sid, Don't worry, you have the mug now haven't you? i bet you often enjoy your coffee while your meeting here....in my lot .... your boss must be doesn't like you when your attention full in food
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
17 Mar 11
well, it is good to be the boss but not the marketing And Sid be, careful of too much coffee. you might enjoy the coffee and forget the whole family
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
4 Apr 11
Marketing Executives have a horrible life... but moneywise they can earn a lot because of the PERKS and COMMISSIONS but I would need peace of mind and more of the Pat on the Back to deliver the best For the Coffee... yes, at times it does become more interesting than the discussions but right now, I am basking in the pat that this BR has given me...
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
16 Mar 11
Hi ifa! Me and my colleagues take lunch together in the office and of course we bring home cooked lunch. We normally do not discuss anything, while eating our food. If we need to discuss any issue, we do it either before having our lunch or after finishing our lunch.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
17 Mar 11
Yeah, you are right.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
16 Mar 11
Hi dpk, that is a good way to enjoy the food i don't think i can have a meeting too in the middle of lunch. i rather to have the meeting in the office, it feels like grabbing my free time for work if they do that
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
4 Apr 11
Hi. ifa225. No, not really. I prefer to eat alone. I like my peacefulness as I am eating with my coworkers.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 11
Hi cream, i can enjoy every taste of the food if i eat it alone. i rare to do this since i always eat while working or meeting. i hope i can have some more time to do this
@TheCatLady (4691)
• Israel
19 Mar 11
I absolutely hate it. It's a way for the boss to take your lunch time from you. OK, You get to eat, but you can't relax. Thankfully I don't work for anyone anymore. I don't have to bow down to the bosses wishes and demands.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 11
Hi Cat, they want to us to work over time without paying us more. only lunch that they gave us. we have the right to have some time for eating, not only working and meeting
@wonder11 (56)
• India
6 Apr 11
While meeting I forget what I am eating.A poor multi tasker no? I do not mind sipping however.I would like to concentrate on the proceedings of the meeting, and I feel conscious about eating there.Moreover, unlike many, I also do not mind eating alone and do not prefer others waiting upon me.I too do not like waiting for others---sounds unsocial perhaps.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
7 Apr 11
working do can make us forgot what we had eat and how much we had eat. that is what i prefer to eat not in the meeting. i like to enjoy every taste of food that i eat. thus i can see too how much that i had eat.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
17 Mar 11
some people say that you can get the attention of the other people in a food table when you are talking with each other. you can get more serious or truthfulness when they eat and talk. but for me, i say, never talk when your mouth is full.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
31 Mar 11
Hi Neildc, but for me, i say, never talk when your mouth is full. obviously do not try this at home aside the job can be done, we could go the hospital because of choking
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
17 Mar 11
Hi Ifa225!. I think when people gonna eat they had better mood and with good mood they hope its will give better result. Maybe its also made the situation less formal for them so every one feel free to give contribution in meeting. I think we get used eating and chat in dinner table so its won't much different but if its really serious one maybe I will not enjoy it. If its really important do you think the company will held it while lunch especially not located in their office.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
31 Mar 11
Hi Nangisha, maybe that is what the company think too. with food, then more great idea would come. and out side off the office also could make the situation more comfort
• United States
17 Mar 11
Actually it makes the meeting much more enjoyable because everyone is so relaxed eating and the meeting does not seem like work. We actually all feel very comfortable almost like amongst friends. I would say my first time was uncomfortable to eat in front of business associates but soon as we started we were all comfortable.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
31 Mar 11
Hi HWD, probably you are right. the beginning is the uncomfortable, but after a long communication maybe they would feel enjoy it than to feel clumsy. but in my case, i can't eat when i have so many things to think of
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
17 Mar 11
I don't think I can too. I really want to enjoy my food without having to bother about anything work-related. I prefer to have the meeting then have the eating afterward. Sometimes the food could be quite a distraction. I don't think people would be that attentive or tend to be cooperative when there is the temptation of food beside them.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
17 Mar 11
Hi sweet, maybe this is the way that the boss can push you to get work even in the break time. i would enjoy the food more than the meeting. but i guess that makes me looks like incompetent in doing my task
17 Mar 11
I do not see the pont of having a meeting while also having a meal. It is stupid to me really. I mean yes you could have a meeting and then go for your meal. But i would not really like to talk often while eating, i would rather concentrate on having my meal. i certainly would not enjoy my meal, especially if asked a question after i have just inserted food into my mouth. I just don't see the point of this and i would not be able to relax at all.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 11
Hi craigy, you have a good user number there..lol just like you too, i can't concentrate with the meeting especially if i bring a lot of paper there. i am afraid that it will wet because the drinks and meals. i better have the meeting in the office on my desk.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Mar 11
Sometimes during our meeting a pizza is served when it's about to end. Or sometimes it's a burger with drinks. But we eat them only once the meeting has ended. That way, we get to eat while sharing some more ideas about what was discussed.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
17 Mar 11
that is good that you can eat also share the thought at the same time. having meeting first then eat would be a better way to enjoy the food. but i wonder if the meeting take for hours and we are hunger cause of that
@patgco22 (35)
• South Africa
17 Mar 11
Its not normal this way, what I usually see is, when there is any meeting, in the morning, its tea and then doing all the talking, lunch time, everybody just have their lunch but no talking and even this specific time, no one is discussing any thing until lunch is over. I do not think its proper to talk whilst you are eating,its out of propotion when it is a meeting,because you need to focus to all discussion and the way forward is needed.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
31 Mar 11
Hi Pat, we can look nonprofessional too if we eat or when our mouth full with food and we are talking to our boss. i better to have that serious meeting in the office than in the restaurants
• Philippines
17 Mar 11
Usually, it's the only time that people at work can do meetings especially during a busy day and so eating lunch whole having a meeting is just appropriate. Besides, it can make the atmosphere of the meeting a lot better when great food is served during the meeting. At our place though, we usually have it in the morning right before we start working. It's quite a must especially if there are a few reminders for deadlines regarding certain projects assigned to us.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
31 Mar 11
Hi scent, food really can turn the mood on huh?? lol but don't you think that we would feel bad if our job or projects that had assigned to us can't be done with success?
• Canada
16 Mar 11
I actually don't care for lunch meetings at all. In my experience, people pay more attention to the food than the meeting and it's not really productive at all. Personally, I prefer to have the meeting and take a break for lunch and then return to the meeting. For one, people do need to have a break from work and that is traditionally what lunch is for... meeting through lunch is, in my mind, a way of getting more work from employees that are not necessarily compensated for it. Sometimes, it's necessary to work through lunch -- particularly if out-of-town clients or employees are attending the meeting and there is only limited time to accomplish what is needed. These kinds of meetings generally only happen once in awhile. I know someone, though, that works for a business where the boss expects all of his managers to eat lunch with him every day, at their own expense ... and it's not just a meal, they always discuss business matters. I think employees are entitled to their lunch break each day to either enjoy the food of their choice or to take a walk to to just relax a bit.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
17 Mar 11
in my mind, a way of getting more work from employees that are not necessarily compensated for it i agree with this. why don't they give us a break to enjoy our lunch and refresh our mind from work matters.? even they paid me, i better to have my eating without meeting
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Mar 11
hi ifa well I worked for 23 years in the tustin b ranch of the Orange County Library systgem. we had break together with fresh coffee and warmed bagels and talked over the days work. we were all friends and I really enjoyed it. I think it depends on the work and the crew involved. I might have felt diggerently in a different type of job.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
17 Mar 11
Hi Mrs.hatley, if we have the meeting around friends in our office that would be nice. but when the boss is involved in that lunch meeting, i will feel clumsy to eat that food. i think i will need to keep my image in front of the boss
• Philippines
16 Mar 11
I think that's interesting and fun to eat while having a meeting because it keeps the people "energized" but I think it would be a bit messy. Also, people might be too concentrated on eating than listening to a report or the one who's speaking. As for me, it's nice to have food available during meetings but I would rather keep my hands busy holding papers and reading along.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
16 Mar 11
Hi Enslin, long time no see.. I can't enjoy the food if my mind is working and listening the voice of my boss. i can lost attention with the food
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
16 Mar 11
Light snacks probably but not full meals. It would be awkward to have food stuffed in your mouth when you're asked a question. Or sometimes a delicious meal might distract you from the business at hand. Besides, I hate long meetings. Serving food would only prolong the meetings. But I do enjoy eating if I know beforehand that the meeting would drag for more than an hour :)
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
16 Mar 11
Hi Beamer, eating while meeting can distract us for the real purpose of the meeting it self. but that is a good way to save our money cause we have free lunch isn't it?
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
16 Mar 11
I guess people do that to "save time", or "kill two birds with one stone". If it is a bunch of colleagues, usually we try not to talk about work, unless there really is some urgency. In such cases, it cannot be helped. For me, if the lunch companion is someone who is easy to talk to, I won't mind the meeting. But if it is with the boss, I wonder if I can swallow the food, even if he is paying.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
18 Mar 11
Hi Tiff, if you are close to your boss eating while meeting is a good way to get closer and you feel free to express your opinion. however, doing this thing also have the good side and bad side
• Netherlands
16 Mar 11
I think it's inappropriate when your in a serious meeting..
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
17 Mar 11
hi denis, you are right about this. we should eat in private place and not related in serious or formal place. it is uncomfortable