what will be the first come in to your mind????

@asliah (11137)
Philippines
March 18, 2011 6:40am CST
i have a lover, and he was in his work in whole day, i sent few text messages to him but till evening he dont have yet a respond on my text, the first thing come in to my mind was he is busy on his work, secondly he dont have a load to reply to me, and third he is tired and forget me to text and lastly he dont want to text me because he had somebody else. but i am so thankful because he already text me and he told me that he doesn't have a load. how about you, if you have a lover and she/he never reply to you for the whole day,what will be the first thing come to your mind?and why?
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13 responses
@staria (2780)
• Philippines
18 Mar 11
Don't worry, like what you've mentioned he is working and might be busy the whole day. We girls sometimes become so paranoid that we think about different things when they do not respond to our messages and became easily irritated if they dont respond quickly. Stop thinking about stuff that he has another girl or anything. that wont help. and might cause both of you to be irritated
@adnileb (5249)
• Philippines
18 Mar 11
I agree with that. We actually argued that situation before. LOL So now, I just think he's busy with someTHING and not with someONE. =)
@staria (2780)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
Correct, you'll be at peace too thinking that way than the "other way". :)
• Philippines
21 Mar 11
baby.. im sory if you feel that. but i need to work hard to our future... i set my mind to give you all want you what... you are always in my mind in my soul and in my heart. no matter what happen
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
21 Mar 11
baby, i know that, im so thankful to have you right now in my life, i know you have a lot of problems and obstacles in our relationship right now, and as what i've said,i will not give up,i will stay with you what ever it happens, and of course i always understand you,sometimes i feel that because im going crazy without you for a seconds,minutes....
@jazel_juan (15748)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
he isn't worth it then
@acey76 (1276)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
Well, there are a lot of possible answers that i can think off, for me i'll just wait till we have time to talk and ask why theres no communication for the whole day, then I evaluate if its a good excuse :-)
@Jiabsa (511)
• India
19 Mar 11
If a situation like that happen to me, I will get upset and won't send message again to him. I will wait for his message. If I won't get any reply from his side slowly I will try to forget him and avoid him forever. I know that it is not easy to forget a person that we have kept a long time in our mind. But if there is no reply and contact from his side why we want to chase him again?
@globaldoc (858)
• Philippines
21 Mar 11
h, it happened to me. I called yp my girlfriend, she did not answer. I texted her, she did not reply. This is why i just texted my other girlfriends. LOL...
@se7enthbird (8311)
• Philippines
18 Mar 11
if ever my wife wont tect back to me i will call her at our house phone. so i will know what really was going on. though my wife is not that kind of person. she will not reply at once then that means she is at the toilet or taking a bath. if they will sleep already she will text it to me. if she has no load she will turn on the pc and text me back using YM. so she finds way to communicate. regarding your lover since he is at work then it is not easy to buy his co load even if he wants to specially if their breaks are short only. you also need to trust, dont think about negative things when there is really nothing going wrong. if he can not text then there is a good reason than he has somebody else.
@jaiho2009 (39174)
• Philippines
18 Mar 11
First thing i would think is..he might doesn't have load to reply. Or maybe his mobile phone's battery is drained. unless i would make a call and still he is not picking it up...i might be jealous or thinking no good by that time .
• India
18 Mar 11
Hello asliah I don't have any lover, i never had any love affairs, am happily married for the past 44 years, we are a very very happy couple, i don't send sms to any body, if necessary i talk over phone.. Thanks for sharing about your love life Cheers. God bless you, have a nice day ahead. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .
• China
18 Mar 11
The first things that will come in my mind is he fine? I mean does he face any problem or anything happen to me. I will think that as i do love him and care for him. The best things is i do trust him so any other things will not come in my mind. Have a good day!
• United States
18 Mar 11
If my boyfriend does not call all day and knowing how busy he can get sometimes, if he does not answer all day I would be really worried that something is not right in terms of perhaps an accident or something. Maybe because I have been with him for 6 years that I sort of know his routine.
@katie0 (5204)
• Japan
19 Mar 11
I never dated someone like this, what happens to me first I think I would be angry, next I wouldn't text him often anymore. But I like really kind guys. I think they like to text less then us, us girls like to express and talk, they not so much. I think the type of guy that doesn't reply too much would make me not text too in the next day. But in my mind I would think that he is not the texting type.
@JohnMach (551)
• Philippines
18 Mar 11
As lovers, you have to trust one another. You have to have faith in him no matter what happens. Don't think of anything negative because that will only destroy your relationship.