What kind of boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife are you??

Jealous - Jealousy =(
South Korea
March 19, 2011 2:28pm CST
Well I don't have a boyfriend now but did have a boyfriend some years ago. Hmm I was a good girlfriend but I have to admit I was the jealous type. I didn't like him talking to other girls or studying together with them and so on, it somehow made me feel insecure. I didn't keep it all to myself though, I told him. The funny thing is he admitted that he liked me being jealous, he told me it felt nice . Anyway not the point of my question. My question is what kind of boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife are you?? And how does your partner feel about it??
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35 responses
@khalida (1126)
• India
20 Mar 11
well i can say that i am a caring, lovable girlfriend who is quite understanding too. someone who dresses to kill for a date. i can be quite short tempered too. i go wild easily and takes a lot of effort for my partner to cool me down. i am the most pampered one in the relationship too and crave for all the attention i get and expect it to continue
@khalida (1126)
• India
21 Mar 11
ha ha thank you love your display picture what type of a girlfriend do you think is the worst?
• South Korea
21 Mar 11
Hey thanks for the response. By what I read here, you sound gorgeous. Have a good day..
• South Korea
22 Mar 11
Thank you hmm the worst kind of girlfriend you say? I think the ones who cheat their lovers are the worst kind.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
28 Mar 11
Well, I am a faithful husband to my wife and reasonable enough to understand everything that is against me or even hurt me. I need to understand her because I love her so much... I will love her forever....
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
Okay, thanks for the compliment...I wish your husband love you so much too as I love my wife...because I love my wife faithfully
• South Korea
29 Mar 11
Aww thank you so much. I hope I met someone who'll love me and be faithful too
• South Korea
28 Mar 11
Aww your wife is one lucky woman. It's o nice of you to understand and love your wife the way you say you do. Have a great life you guys. May god bless you.
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
30 Mar 11
apparently not a very good one because my wife and I just split up and will be divorcing after 10 years of marriage LOL
• United States
22 Jul 11
I am not sorry...I should have done it about 2-3 years ago LOL
• South Korea
30 Mar 11
Oops I'm sorry to hear that
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
20 Mar 11
It is my understanding that life is only for once and I like to live the way I like the life how it is. I love my partner very much and I know my partner also loves me as much also. But only because of love and faith, it is not at all limited. If we love our life so much we can anything what we like. This the way the life is for me. So that I have told my partner that if she has a more liking to anyone do not hesitate to share it and if I am in such a state, I may go for it. So, there is no need for me to be jealous in any way, if we understand the real fact. I am sure that practically, it is not so easy, but for me it is just simple and if we have made up our mind to live in such a way, it is fine. But I don't think any one will be ready to accept what I mean to say. Thank-s
• India
22 Mar 11
Hi dear, Thanks for your comments. Yes, I know to say in such a way is so easy and if it happens, practically it is so hard to accept. But in real life, I need something different and I think if anything works out, I can accept such incidents. However, so far, so coo, nothing is under consideration or no way to happen, but at any time, if there is any chances, I never regret to it. Regards, Thank-s
• South Korea
22 Mar 11
Wow you seem to be a cool person but truthfully speaking, I wouldn't do that and wouldn't like my partner doing that too. But yeah, everybody doesn't think the same. If you like the idea, good for you. Anyway thanks for the response. HAve a good day..
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
20 Mar 11
Dear Friend First I want to say the jealousy is the disease for men or women. Where there is jealousy more problem may be arise. Now we will go on your question my husband is so caring, loving and charming so I not required boy friend and even before marriage I was no boyfriend because in our group was 5 girls and not feel anybody they require boy friend because every problem regarding study life we can solve all. According to our community and beleifs not allowed boyfriend so I was so far to making the boy friend.
• United States
21 Mar 11
Hi surekharathi You are right jealousy although aside from topic is like a vicious infection that can eat the relationship alove. Sounds like you and your husband is wonderful person.
• South Korea
21 Mar 11
I can't help it, I'm just feel too insecure But there must be some solution to my insecurity, I don't know what though. I used to get really mad when I saw him with other girls. That was a long time ago though, maybe I have changed now. And yep hardworkinggurl is absolutely right. It sounds like both of you were fated to be with each other. I hope you guys have a great future together.
@zills66 (1419)
• Saudi Arabia
19 Mar 11
got to ask my GF lol and tell you when i can..
• South Korea
20 Mar 11
Yes Sir
@zills66 (1419)
• Saudi Arabia
21 Mar 11
partly, here i am sharing you. of course with her consent too! as per her, because am quite cocky, i have the whole patience and he like that so much..she's a little of a jealous kind though.. telling that too with her consent!
@KrauseHome (36449)
• United States
21 Mar 11
Personally I would say I am one that is Loving and tries to always care and show respect no matter what the situation. I can be a little cautious at times if a woman tries to talk to Rod alone too much, but that is just to be expected. I am Married and there are certain people that I am not sure respect that who are women so it is best to be a little cautious there for sure.
• South Korea
22 Mar 11
Yes sometimes it is good to be cautious, but actually it all depends on the person, how he/she wants to be . So yeah. And yeah I would someday love to be a caring loving wife too Thanks for responding. Have a good day..
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@lhenpaule (495)
• Philippines
23 Mar 11
I would like to answer this from my family's point of view. They often tell me this, "with you and in you, we feel we are special". Either joke or not, but as much as possible that's what i want people around me to feel about themselves, they are special.
• South Korea
25 Mar 11
So true. Everyone is special in their own way . Thanks for the response. Have a wonderful day.
@sql_cell (1427)
• Indonesia
23 Jul 11
Said the people around me, I am a grumpy husband, want perfection, do not like to argue, and very stingy.
• South Korea
23 Jul 11
I am a bit of a perfectionist myself too and that can sometimes be a pain!! Anyway if it works for you then cool. Thanks for the response.
@noorhizat (209)
• Malaysia
29 Mar 11
I think I am a jealous, self centered, bad tempered, don't care less. Loving husband and father.
• South Korea
29 Mar 11
I'm the jealous type myself too. But it's good to know you're a loving husband and a father. Thanks you for the response and have a wonderful day.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
23 Mar 11
I'm kind and with humor, I make fun of my own and make up jokes and plays to keep a good enviroment but never supporting family until a point they won't grow, like saying everything they do is right or something, I'm a sincere friend.
• South Korea
25 Mar 11
You seem to be a very nice person. Thanks for the response. Have a great weekend.
@tkonlinevn (6012)
• Vietnam
22 Mar 11
I believe that I'm a dynamic girlfriend. I can give him the good advices when he needs. And I can make him to smile when he is sad etc...
• South Korea
22 Mar 11
That's nice. Advising someone and giving a shoulder to lean on is the best :) Thanks for the response. Have a good day
• United States
6 May 11
I tend to be brutally honest.Example: If you're a bit thick and you ask Me if your a$$ looks fat in those jeans, you're not gonna Like my answer if you're looking for a confidence boost. I am Also the type that likes to give partners their space. You need Time alone, great! Go have your time because I too appreciate Having "alone time" when In a relationship.
• South Korea
6 May 11
Hey thanks for the response. Actually i do have some guy friends like you and actually I like how honest they are, they can't make up things. But sometimes it pisses me and they get some sound thrashings LOL kidding!!
@jdex_143 (1093)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Hello, thatgirl.. Before anything else, I have to ask you if that's the reason why you broke up with him? Well, as far as I know, I a sweet girlfriend. A caring and loving one. But, like you.. I'm also the jealous type of girlfriend. I want his attention only to me. I don't want him to talk to any other girl but there are exemptions of course. I don't know, I just get possessive when I'm in love and I don't know if it's a good trait. :) Good luck to me and my relationship. Hehehehe.. I hope you'll find your better half soon! :)
• South Korea
23 Jul 11
Nope, that wasn't why we split up. I loved him a lot but we had somethings going on which made us separate. Anyway it's good to know you are a sweet girlfriend. I guess jealousy is something that is always present in a relationship. Anyway i wish you luck for your relationship too!! I hope you guys have a lovely future and thanks for the wishes. i hope i find him soon too
• Philippines
20 Mar 11
i must admit i am also a jealous type of girlfriend. maybe because i tend to get insecure also when a lot of girls come close to my bf and try to get his attention. i have a bf now and i always get jealous because i think my bf is liking the attention he gets from all the other girls and sometimes i would feel that he returns the same attention. despite that, i try to be really understanding and try to just ignore the jealousy i feel because i know that it will just ruin our relationship if my jealousy gets out of place.
• South Korea
21 Mar 11
Yeah jealousy might be dangerous but somehow I never could control the feeling. I was too insecure but it's my fault for not trusting him as much a she'd want me to. Anyway thanks for the response. Have a good day..
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
20 Mar 11
hi thatgirl, i am best boy friend,husband to the person,i never treat my counter part is she my wife or friend,i may not hurt them,in previous days i may hurt them due to my innocence,but now i promise that i may be a good boy friend or husband,i does not feel jealous about others,have a nice day
• South Korea
21 Mar 11
That is so nice of you. Yeah hurting people is not a good thing. Thanks for the response.
• United States
21 Mar 11
Awwh the most caring and most passionate girl my boyfriend can have, along with that I am very loyal and trustworthy. Which I am very fortunate because my boyfriend and I are totally equal. Neither one of us loves one another less but equal. We feel when we met each other we did not have to settle because we are one in the same and wanting the same things out life and from each other. Not an inch of jealousy from either one.
• South Korea
22 Mar 11
That is so nice . You guys sound perfect. I wish you guys have a great future together. Not having to have that jealous feeling is really nice I think, coz I always had that heavy feeling in me and it felt really uncomfortable. Thanks for the response
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
20 Mar 11
I am an inferior girlfriend. I just feel like he is too good for me. I don't let it show though. I don't nag him or anything like that because I trust him. When he looks away I give the evil eye every time to girls are all over him. I know I sound pathetic haha. I'm pretty caring too but I can be a bit of annoying at times.
• South Korea
21 Mar 11
I would do the same if i were you, though i used to nag him for hours lol. But for some strange reasons he liked my nagings and me being jealous Anyway thanks for the response. Don't feel inferior, you are perfect
@raj7shot (838)
• India
20 Mar 11
I am true caring and loving Boy friend....
• South Korea
22 Mar 11
That is so nice
• China
21 Mar 11
That makes sense,and i agree with you.It's normal to feel jealous when you see your guy staying close to the other girls,and that shows you care and love him,so he said that he liked you being jealous. For me,i'm proud of having a good wife,she's faithful to me and love the family,and she's capable of dealing with everything.i don't want my lover always stay together with other men for no reason,and i don't stick to the other women too much since i am married though i love beautiful women as a man.Hehe...
• South Korea
22 Mar 11
Hey you're the only person that agreed to what I said (i think) lol. Anywya it's good that you love your wife and she does the same. A happy family, what else is needed in life right? have a great life ^^