How do you know if your husband/wiwfe or partner is cheating on you.

@sammy14 (835)
Philippines
April 5, 2011 4:08am CST
How do you know if your hubby or partner is cheating on you.. What are the signs. What will you do if you see those signs. Will you confront him/her.
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@ally12 (1204)
• Philippines
5 Apr 11
Before I learned of his dishonesty I wasnt nosy of some changes I observed on him. He put a password on his laptop, made different facebook accounts, not just one or two but three different accounts with different fake names and information but I didnt mind that time because he added me in all that accounts. But only recently about a week now that I discovered his one year old secret Facebook account. and I discovered it unexpectedly. I just hate myself for being so stupid not been suspicious of him putting a password on his laptop. well maybe because I had a hundred percent trust on him. but now I only have - zero trust left for him.
@sammy14 (835)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
I think these are just minor things to warrant such action from you! Males do these often...
@ally12 (1204)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
Well because i just directly answered your question. and I didnt go into details of what really the whole story of that secret account and what I have seen in that account. But regardless what information you were given you shouldnt underestimate any reactions a wife could have towards cheating.
@sammy14 (835)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
Well I agree with your reaction but girls should sometimes turn their head on the other side so to speak and let it pass.. that's why many relationships are broken because we amplify small things like that.. In a man's life there will always come a time that he will cheat.. that's normal thing for males!
@gelayagui98 (1337)
• Australia
5 Apr 11
When you see unusual to his action and movement that's it.
@sammy14 (835)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
hi friend. may I know what are these actions would be...
• Australia
6 Apr 11
actions in the sense that if you see him always grooming which he did not always do before, always go out without any valid reason and go home late at night, always spray perfumes everything that new to his moves.
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@cream97 (29166)
• United States
6 Apr 11
Hi. gelayagui98. I can understand what you mean here. I once thought that my husband was cheating on me. I may very well be wrong! He does take the time to show me some affection. And he enjoys making love to me. He has also started taking care of his teeth. And he makes sure that he showers regularly. He does not wear cologne at all. He does a lot of work that will allow him to sweat and get really dirty. I just try not to let my mind wander. I trust in God. And if my husband is being faithful to me, he better believe that I will find out about his infidelity! These signs that we all may give here, will make us think that our spouse is cheating on us. But they may very well not be. It is sad when we can't find out something that we want to know about.
@paula27661 (15898)
• Australia
5 Apr 11
I would imagine that if my husband was doing the wrong thing I would instinctively know because we are very close but I guess if he was really behaving like a dog I would find out if he paid less attention to me, spent a lot of time away from home especially in the evenings, was secretive about phone calls, his laptop etc. And if he was suddenly buying new clothes and aftershave I would be concerned.
@sammy14 (835)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
Well said! I guess I will not show these signs so that I wont be caught.. hahahah...
@o0jopak0o (6405)
• Philippines
5 Apr 11
Well there are really a lot of signs but the most one I can think off is a sudden change of habit like for example going home late, sudden going somewhere and such.
@sammy14 (835)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
I beg to disagree... may be he would just like to be alone.. that happens sometimes..
@jasmeena (850)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 11
It happened to me once, after I accidentally read a message in his inbox. I asked him, but he denied. I tried to find out until he broke me up and he is such a coward as he never answered my phone and he only texted me that"I found someone else". THe stupid thing happened a few months later. He asked me"how are you?" I replied " well, i am better off without you..I feel OK after you left me for someone esle", he denied " we broke up not because of another woman". What the hellllllll??????our relationship was a little bit complicated as he is my bro-in-law` s cousin and their relationship between family is not that good. I cried almost all the time during the break-up, but now I thanked GOD for not having him as my spouse. I feel bored now, as I have been single for almost 4 years..
@sammy14 (835)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
Well, it happens when suddenly you will find out that you fall out of love... I guess you will do the same... four years have passed and I guess it's time to move on! There are so many guys out there...
• India
5 Apr 11
he wont look interested in you!
@sammy14 (835)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
Well I guess it's the opposite.. He would be more extra sweet considering he is hiding something!
@tkonlinevn (5784)
• Vietnam
15 Apr 11
As me, girl and man have different sign if they're cheating. Almost actions are special if comparing with normal day. But nothing is whole exactly. We should care our partners/spouse more.
@cream97 (29166)
• United States
6 Apr 11
Hi. sammy14. He will act as if he never has time for you. It can be for a male and a female. The attraction between the two of you have gone away. The person does not want to make love to you anymore. They are staying out longer hours than usual and not calling you. They act strange when you ask them things about them cheating. They look guilty when you mention something around them. They smell differently. They look like they are hiding something from you. Yes, I will confront them. Better yet, I will sneak up on them if I have my suspicions.