Do u play the looser game of life?

Hi ifa Many a times... But guess what - I have found a solution and a kool way out. Hence I am sharing this one with you - my dear friend - When you are feeling so low and a loser, look into the eyes of your kid - (I know I do not have my own kid but I have a few around)- You would see a sparkle in the eyes and that sparkle will give you the required (whatever you can call it) - to start your fight afresh and with lots of hope! Always think that you are doing your best possible within your capacity and the Lord up there is watching. He is not going to leave you alone anytime anywhere. So what if right now you are feeling hopeless, the sparkle in the eyes of the kid will definitely show you the way to overcome and replace that less with ful after the hope

ifa this was what I was afraid of. Please re-evaluate what is and is not working in your life. The love for our children includes happiness for ourselves. Do not allow you to feel this way. Please make mental notes about what is working and what is not working in your life. Strategize as to what you can change and or make different. Do not say you feel useless, say to yourself I am priceless! I am a mother and I am doing the best that I can do. I cannot be expected to be perfect because I am doing the best I can. Take sometime and write down what you like and do not like about your current situation. Each day review your strategy and see what and how you can change them. Do not be afraid to ask for help, because remember as a mother we do the impossible for our children. Children can sense when mommy is not feeling well. Pack the kids once in a while and go for walks and or the park and allow your mind to have a little silly fun so it detracts from so much thinking.

I always feel useless, for myself or for my child. I always fail in life. I can not do what I want, even just want to eat, food I like, very difficult for me to do. Being a mother, I also feel useless. I am a mother that is not useful for my child. This fact makes me very sad. And I can not do anything.

Don't to hard on yourself Ifa. I don't think its all your fault but its OK to had expectation in your life. My parent never really allowing us to have every thing we want just by asking it. So if we want a new cloth we has to safe our pocket money for half of the price and my parent will add the rest. This way they teach meaning of responsibility and to appreciated what we had, because we work to buy it. So its OK if they not always had a cup ice cream every time they want it. Its why Ice cream feel so special because you not eat it every day on in special moment. I think if you allow them eating it every day its will became health issue in the future.

Looks like you are sad! Don't be sad. You have heathy kids.. A place to live, and sen sometimes you don't have enough to give kid's things to them, they live you very much. Maybe they can be sad when you say not but don't worry, everythig is gonna be ok and you in the future they will show that! You are doing what you can do so you are not a losser. You are winner because you didn't give up on you kids and looks like you love them. Just don't be sad!