"An ugly personality, can destroy a pretty face."

@Filigs (122)
Portugal
April 30, 2011 10:44pm CST
Alright, I saw this line on a friend's facebook and I got in love with it, because its really can be a fact because it's so trueee, and has a real meaning for me... For copyright stuff, she found this in a site called "tumblr"... Google it if you have curiosity in knowing the site better. So I created this discussion to ask you to comment this line and tell me experiencies you had with it, that if you had any... So I'm leaving my commentary on it. - As I mentioned before, this line is almost a fact, because this most of the times is true, if not always... When someone wants a short-term dating, I dont know how it is called, but its those "relationships" without love that last less than 1 day, this line doesn't mean anything there, because there's not really any personality, only the pretty face. So, what I mean by this is that this line only applies when there's love or friendship, and not body atraction or what so ever. I'm going to give you an exemple I just imagined, so... Imagine you're a guy, you felt atracted by a pretty girl during day at a store(random place), you go near her and talk a bit with her, then you realise she's a bit rude but you don't care about it, you just keep going and trying to get what you want, after some talk you get her phone number, you show much insterest for her but she isn't showing any for you, so she leaves and you start texting her, she is taking like 5 minutes to answer every message while you answer instantly, you might think, "is she slow typing?" or "is she talking with me only or with more?" or "why isn't she paying atention to my messages...?"... So you decide to ask her nicely why she is so slow, and she rudely answers you that you that she can't leave everyone just to answer you first... Then you think "Hey... What's wrong with her, why is she so mean to me, why can't she talk like a normal person instead of being rude... does she think shes important just because she is hot and pretty?" then you start talking less to her, day by day, until she shows interest, but that interest isn't a real interest... She was just bored and decided to send you a message, she just created a good spectulation on your head that doesn't exist, an ilusion... and you keep going on and on , always on the same vicious routine and getting nothing you want and just suffering... - This is pretty much my comment, if you didn't read it all because it is to big, basically it says a story about you finding a hot and pretty girl in a random place and finding out her personality isnt even near normal. So, from experience I rather best personality, normal appearance, a perfect girl for me isn't the one with the best body, but it's the one with the best heart, ofcourse appearance counts too, but not as much as personality... I rather a "normal" girl with one of the best hearts, than a girl with a "perfect" body with a "rotten" heart... Now I create a new line, copyrights to me, "A perfect personality, can build a pretty heart". So MyLotters, as I said in the begining of this discussion all you need to do is comment and say experiences you had related to the title.
5 responses
• United States
1 May 11
Its like you can't judge a book by its cover. Even if the person is beautiful it dosn't make them a beautiful person. Thats how things go allot anymore and its too bad. Thats why i wished people didn't focus on looks so much because looks arn't everything.
@Filigs (122)
• Portugal
1 May 11
I love your comparison!!! "Its like you can't judge a book by its cover", simply beautiful... Every word you said describes the line, loved your comment! ~~ Happy MyLotting ~~
• United States
1 May 11
Thank you :)
@Valadas (83)
• Portugal
1 May 11
My thoughts are pratically exactly like yours. I also prefer to have a girl with a "normal" appearence and a perfect personality than a a girl with a "perfect" body and a awful personality. My example is my girlfriend, I'm with her not because of her looks, but because of her personality. She also doesn't have a bad body but I don't mind that, in my case it's gotta be like 10% to external appearence and 90% for personality. The example you quoted is very common these days, because nowadays every hot girls are cocky. They only are cocky because of the people they hang out with in my opinion. Those people say to her things like "you're so hot!" and "what a perfect body you have". That's just examples to show that people become cocky not because they want too, but because people make them be like that. If you hang out with people who are more quieter and have a cool personality basically, you end up being a good person with a good personality. This is a little bit off-topic but yeah.. That phrase you created is just perfect and totally true. And it's a little bit what I said when I quoted "If you hang out with people who are more quieter and have a cool personality basically, you end up being a good person with a good personality". At least i think it's similar. If you're good to other people, other people will be good to you, if other people are good with you, it means that you have a good heart and they respect you because of your personality. Simple really. Overall, nice discussion. =)
@Filigs (122)
• Portugal
1 May 11
You're totally right, those compliments that "you" make to girls make her getting worse everytime you compliment her in that way, usually at parties where you just want to get laid, you don't care about what you do, so you just go near her and start talking and complimenting her, after she gets alots of compliments she think her body is just perfect and attractive, so that will make her a "men magnet", or will make her think like that, so she will this... "Why do I have to have a good personality when my body is enough?...", thats the bad part of those girls, thats why I wrote this discussions... Ladies, body isn't everything!! ~~ Happy MyLotting ~~
• Philippines
2 May 11
Yeah i agree. I dont like girls who feels like they're goddesses and queens. Untouchables by not so good looking people. Its better to have a non good looking friend who has a big heart than to have ms. Beauty queen who always takes advantage of you, only likes you because they need something from you plus they're ill manner norms. But im not generalizing them. Theres ought to be one perfect girl with pretty face and kind heart.
@casualkT (140)
• Canada
1 May 11
I mean after all , your face isn't your personality . Don't understand but I can't focus with that glaring light vs the dull presence of people and state she has meaning my experience is that when I relate to the appearance of one girl and its usually not pretty to others , more like cute because if the personality doesn't catch up it almost like a unstable hologram that is made up or doll-like and that's scary (- I do feel being my self being inferior )
• United States
1 May 11
Definitely true. Nothing is more disgusting than a sexy woman who is stuck up and immature. Some people need a smack of reality to wake them up from their dream world.