Wife and Lover

Vietnam
May 9, 2011 4:39am CST
Wife is house. Lover is the tent. The wind blows ... Tent collapsed. House is intact. "House" is remains all. Right? So why are there people still cheating?
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11 responses
@Jlyn10 (11966)
• Malaysia
9 May 11
Wow, nice example, tk. I guess sometimes when relationships don't work out, they have to find other alternatives. Like for example, if you can't fulfill my needs, I can get it elsewhere. But of course, I don't encourage that. It is best that both husband and wife should work it out between themselves. The key is to learn to give and take. Nobody is perfect in this world. Whatever it is, just talk it out and try to blend in to the other, so that both can build a loving relationship.
• Vietnam
10 May 11
I agree with you, Jlyn. Nobody is perfect in this world. So, if we have some problems in life, we should discuss to our spouse to solve them. We shouldn't cheat!
@Jlyn10 (11966)
• Malaysia
10 May 11
Yes, it's best to discuss the problems you have with each other. Like what my uncle used to say: "One Man One Woman". Always have that in mind. Thanks for the BR.
• Philippines
9 May 11
because some people want to go camping, you can't bring your house outdoors even if it is so intact, its stationary unlike a tent, handy.
• Vietnam
10 May 11
Yes. And the tent will be throw after the picnic
• Canada
12 May 11
You beat me to this comment, lol. Like we say "why go out for hamburger when you have steak at home?" But some people reply: "Don't you just really feel like a hamburger once in awhile?"
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
9 May 11
I have no idea. I guess because alot of people do not take marriage seriously or relationships serious. They like to play around and not be faithful to who they committed themselves to.
• Vietnam
10 May 11
There are many reasons for cheating in marriage. But I think that we should do any things to reduce the hurts for each others.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
9 May 11
People cheat because Grass always looks Greener on the other side have a nice day
• Vietnam
10 May 11
Your idea is the same one of our maxims "Stand in this mountain looks other mountain"
• India
9 May 11
hmmm....friend...of course whatever you are saying is correct but my opinions are different from you, because i dont think that the lover and wife are different.they may be same or different people depending on the situation. If lover is wife it is the most happiest thing and also lovable if there is love in between them. Even though if you say that wife and lover are different you are going to differentiate between them and not going to make justice to one of them. I wanted to do justice who ever came in my life whether it is wife or lover.... Any way happy my lotting friend....
• Vietnam
10 May 11
If you have wife and love at the same time. And you want to make justice for them. Meaning that you're a bad person because you cheated them! Right? Must there is a wrong person in this love, my friend.
• China
10 May 11
Wow,a great quote! Really we can see there are still cheatings anywhere and anytime.I think everyone has a certain natural greed inside.If he hasn't enough moral and legal sense to supervise or control himself,bad cheatings happen now and then so that even the "house" will collapse.
• Vietnam
10 May 11
It's the worst result for cheating. I hope that nobody won't have this experience.
@cieldz (709)
• Indonesia
9 May 11
hello tkonlinevn... :) wow thats a great simple quote about marriage... d(^_^)b 2 thumbs up for you... i hope that all of us can read that and keep stay at a “house” rather than at a “tent”... can i copy your quote to my facebook? i really love it... good day and cheers.. ^^
• Vietnam
10 May 11
It's no problem if I can see this topic in your facebook, cieldz I'm happy because you like my discussion. Thank you.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
11 May 11
House remains but tent will be used in special occasions which are special only. So lover is a sweet/bad memory where as wife is a constant relation. But i prefer the wife and husband relationship only but not the lover.... When lover becomes the wife then that relation is more good looking....
• United States
9 May 11
Nice quote but my partner best be thinking that my house and tent are both the best option because cheating itself is wrong. Why, hmm there are many excuses why and none should be warranted. Can't people learn to let go before they opt to enjoying another. So my only way to explain the way is that they want their cake and eat it too. lol
@oligel (130)
• Philippines
9 May 11
there are people who are cheating their wife/husband because there are certain reasons why they are doing that: they are not contented the way they lived with their wife/husband, they are not open to each other. 2. men are cheating because they want to show how masculine they are, and because of reason that they are away from their wife. and other reason is that they are longing for another love or they are longing the sweetness of being a wife/husband
• Vietnam
10 May 11
I can see you. However, cheating in marriage is bad no matter what. If you're not pleasant with your spouse, you should find how to solve it. If you can't, you can divorce before you cheating your spouse. This is my view. Wish you're happy!
@ludyvel04 (311)
• Philippines
10 May 11
because Satan entice us to cheat and if we're weak we'll really commit adultery / sin...