Do you think doctors should predict the life expectancy of terminal patients?

@scheng1 (24650)
Singapore
May 9, 2011 8:26am CST
It is hard to face a family member who has terminal illness. It is harder when the doctors tell the patient bluntly that he has just three months to live. while some patients are fighters, and want to prove the doctors' wrong, most patients give up the fight, and die earlier. What do you think about it? Should doctors tell the truth to the terminal patients? Should doctors predict the life expectancy of terminal patients? Wouldn't it be better for doctors to cite statistics instead of giving their own opinions?
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18 responses
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
9 May 11
it is best for doctors to be realistically blunt when it comes to diagnosis of a terminal patient based on assessment, studies conducted and probably signs or symptoms presented by the patient himself. it would give the patient time to prepare him/her self to assess the situation to either seek another opinion or to take the necessary measures regarding treatment or hospice in such a case.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
13 May 11
Hi Obe, I personally think that some doctors are too blunt, and they force their opinions on the patients. If there is no way the patient can survive for three months, then the doctor can reasonably advise the family and the patient. If there is a likelihood of surviving a year, then the doctor should keep his mouth shut or just say a year or more. Most patients cannot accept that they are going to die within a year, and some patients cannot accept that they will live in pain for one whole year. I think it is more important to give hope to the patients.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
15 May 11
Personally, i think it is the doctors' job to inform patient's of their diagnosis truthfully based on their opinion, and their opinion are definitely based on workup [bloodwork, x-ray, ct scan, etc.] and usually they also confer or ask opinions from other doctor colleagues and scientific clinical journals. Based on these results and definite diagnosis and prognosis, the doctor then inform the patient first or sometimes the family beforehand, and this is done so as to prepare the patient, as well as the family, mentally and physically. The option of the patient on the other hand is to get a second opinion if he/she does not concur with her/his terminal diagnosis or accept the situation and a consultation for hospice could be on the way. Hospice consultation is an important option as this kind of care/treatment aims on keeping the patient as comfortable as he/she can be, without pain or with less pain which i think is a better option for the patient, as well as the family. Shutting up or concealing the truth is not the doctors' best option for dealing with terminal patients as this would mean a defiance of medical ethics. Honestly, hope should be given to patient if there is still a cure, but in cases of terminal or endstage disease, the best option is face the facts and hope for a miracle.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
17 May 11
Doctors, unfortunately, with all the workup done to rule out certain diseases tends to err based on diagnosis/prognosis, so i think in cases especially one with endstage/terminal illness, an option is to seek a second opinion or even third, fourth or fifth opinion until there is certainty on the what the patient is really going through. personally, doctors are only trying to do their job, and obviously with what they have [workup, bloodwork, radiographic studies, etc.], they give their honest opinion based on their judgment.
@tinkerick (1257)
• United States
9 May 11
I don't think doctors should estimate time left. Unfortunately for them however, most people demand an approximate time remaining. This puts the doctors on the spot and they make guesses based on statistics. People should not demand an answer to how much time they have left. Doctors can only guess because every person is different. Some do have a will to fight and are able to make their bodies respond to this. Others may have the will to fight, but their bodies do not respond to their will. And yet others do indeed give up and die sooner. I do like how they state it in that one Cancer Centers of America commercial "there's nothing on you that says you have an expiration date".
@tinkerick (1257)
• United States
16 May 11
Hi scheng1, I agree that doctors should not personalize the statistic and say "you" only have so much amount of time left, however, we cannot generalize and say all patients will feel better being given the statistics. Yes, many will look at the positive and place themselves in the 10%. But it all depends on the person. Many will also look at the negative and give up feeling that they are part of the 90%. It really is a tough situation for doctors. All they can do is provide what information they have to the patient and be ready to give the patient whatever help they can, but it is up to the patient to interpret the diagnosis themselves.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
14 May 11
Hi Tinkerick, if the doctors just quote from the statistics, many patients will feel more positive. Even if the statistics show that only 10% of the patients for a given cancer will survive to five years and above, the patients will feel comforted. They will not think of themselves as the 90% who will die within five years. They will think of themselves as the ones who will live to five years and more. i think that is a better approach. Most of us do not feel that the statistics apply to us, unless these are good indicators. It is bad of a doctor to personalize the statistics, and say that a patient has only a year to live.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
9 May 11
Actually,it's not the doctor's choice to predict or give prediction. It's the family of the dying person who always insists the doctors to tell them how long does the patient has. If it is hard for the family to accept..it is much harder for the doctors to say it. As if they are killing the patient and the family at the same time.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
13 May 11
Hi Jaiho, while it is true that many patients will ask the doctors about the prognosis, it is also true that they ask for the sake of hearing positive news. Most people do not think that they will die so soon, especially when the morphine masks their pain. They want to hear that others can survive to ripe, old age. They are not ready to hear that they will die in a year. Over here, many doctors offer such information, and they are quite blunt in telling the patients. However, many older and experienced doctors are more reserved in that they offer hope. They also share their experience of certain seemingly miraculous healing.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
10 May 11
Partly may be because of what you said but most cases doctors offered also such information - but for me the buttom line is doctor can predict but not sure because it is only prediction - if God said it is not prediction... surely. see you around
• India
13 May 11
No a doctor should not under any circumstances, because he can never be sure of the prediction, it is better to encourage the patient telling he/she should not worry, miracles do happen lol. Thanks for sharing Cheers, have a wonderful day. Professor ‘^Bhuwan^’. .
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
14 May 11
Hi, i agree with you completely. Since the doctors are always wrong with it comes to life expectancy, they should just keep their mouths shut. If patients want to know, then they should just print out the general statistics for the patients. Even if just 5% of the patients can survive for three years and more, it is more comforting than hearing that he has just a year to live.
• United States
11 May 11
I guess they are trying to be honest with the patient. But that is sooo hard to hear for sure. Statistics may be better though. I think I would just be depressed and sitting there waiting to die and scared. Take care.
• Philippines
9 May 11
No, it will only make the patient more sick and discourage to live on....Just tell them something they don't know ;-)
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
9 May 11
Hello my friend the topic mentioned only if the doctor can predict the expectancy of the patients - yes because, doctor can predict according to his/her finding but not 100% accurate, only God can tell whether die or life... even terminal ill. see you around
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
13 May 11
Hi Karljohnson and Visavis, actually that is a common practice in the medical field. It seems that doctors like to tell people that they can live for one year, or two years. Sometimes they tell the family members, but they also tell the patients directly. I think it is very demoralizing to hear that we have only a year or two, or that the doctors have given up on us. Just hope that we never get terminal illness.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
9 May 11
I agree with you Scheng. There is no point telling the patient about this. I know of an eighty year old lady whose cancer [lung] was diagnosed at an advanced stage and the doctors predicted that she would definitely die within 6 months. SHe was a very brave lady who pulled on for more than 2 years after the diagnosis.Her relatives were told this but though she knew she had cancer all that she was told was that she need not panic if she spat blood and that she had cancer. DOctors' prediction was not told to her. Another cancer patient, the moment he was told he had cancer just became bedridden and passed away within a few months.[same lung cancer]
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
10 May 11
Usually doctors do not inform a patient that he has so many days to live.This information is given only to close relatives with specific instructions not to divulge anything to the patient and also not to show any signs of grief or sorrow outwardly in front of him or her.The patient on his part is always hoping against hope that he will recover somehow and it is the doctors duty to see that this faint hope is never taken away from him.Therefore doctors appear cheerful in front of the patient and try to keep him also cheerful even though they know that it is a lost cause.Strangely it is usually the patient who instinctively knows that he is dying and calmly accepts the fact and mentally prepares for the final event.This is the 'giving up' of the patient that you have written about.
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
10 May 11
Doctors predict the life of the patient because they have an explanation with it. But sometimes they failed with there prediction like what happened to my mom. Her doctor told her that she will just live for 15yrs because an important organ was removed from her body and according to her doctor, nobody can live a longer life without this organ. But now she was done with the 15 years and now living 20 yrs after the diagnosis. Maybe my mother was just have a strong faith with god.
• Philippines
10 May 11
The time given by doctors maybe just an estimate of how long will it be.They never really claim to be perfect in their predictions and they know too well that it still takes a lot of factors. If they are blunt enough to tell the sad truth, maybe its because they really think medically it is hopeless and so preparations must be made for the inevitable. In my opinion, there is only ONE who has the final say... (^_^)
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
14 May 11
Hi Lipstick2009, most of the times doctors talk as if they are the authority in the lifespan of a patient. Most young doctors are more tactless. They are better at treating the physical symptoms, and they sometimes forget that the next patient could be their own beloved family member. Many older and more experienced doctors are more tactful in dealing with the emotions of the patients. The younger doctors in the public hospitals are more fond of predicting the remaining days. It seems that is the current trend in my country.
@06MLam (620)
10 May 11
I think doctors have the duty to tell the patients the truth unless the patients require the doctors not to. Telling the patiets about their life expectancy is to allow time for the patients as well as their family to prepare for their leaving. This might be a reason for some patients to give up. Yet, this is also what statistic has shown. So, if I were the patient, I would try as hard as I can to carry on with my life and do whatever I would like to do before I leave the World.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
14 May 11
Hi 06MLam, yes, I agree the doctors have a duty to tell the truth. However, I do not agree that doctors should speculate on the life expectancy of the patients. The doctors can and should list the options available to the patients, in term of treatment methods, cost and government subsidies or assistance. But they should never speculate on the actual life expectancy. The best they can do is to show the statistics. The statistic is a general outcome, and people do not personalize the statistics. For example, if you tell a smoker that half of the smokers die of lung cancer, he will not feel offended. He likes to think of himself as the other half who do not die of lung cancer. It is different from telling him that he will die of lung cancer. In this case, it is very insulting, as we have personalize the figure.
• United States
10 May 11
Well if it's a fact that they won't be alive after a certain amount of time, I think the doctor should ask them if they want to know or not. Some patients request that bad news not be given to them, so doctors should take this into consideration before waltzing into a room saying "Well, you've got 4 months to live".
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
14 May 11
Hi Lsdshrooms, I think it is even worse for a doctor to ask patients. It is better for a doctor to give general statistics. Even if the statistics shows that only 10% can survive a year or more, most patients will try to defy the odds. Much better than telling them that they have a year to live. Over here, some terminal patients waste their time in the casino. They say that doctors have told them they have a year to live, so they feel that money is no longer important. They waste so much time and money there, instead of finding ways to prolong their lifespan.
@katieh (151)
9 May 11
I think that depends on the patient. Some want to know and others really don't, and some might want one thing but be much better off with the other. All a doctor can really do is use their skill and training to try to do the best thing for that patient. It must be really hard, especially if they have only seen them a few times for a few minutes each time so they simply don't know them that well.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
14 May 11
Hi Katieh, I think the experience of the doctor in charge is a deciding factor. Many patients who are older do not doubt the words of the younger and inexperienced doctors. They accept whatever the doctors say. I think those doctors have to bear in mind that not all patients want to know the truth. Some of them want the doctors to say comforting words, such as "you will defy the odds." It is very cruel to tell someone that he has just a year to live, when the patient expects himself to live for another three years.
10 May 11
well it can be taken in both ways as it is beneficial and harmful alongside.. doctors should tell the true story of what is going on with the patient..they are experianced so they can do that..but this also damages the morale and the feelings of the relatives and the patient himself....
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
14 May 11
Hi Mr47ali, I have noticed that the more experienced the doctor, the less likely he will speculate on the life expectancy. Those doctors who are younger and less experienced are mostly in public hospitals. They are the ones who tell a patient that he has only a year or less to live. It is very tactless, and not accurate too. Even statistics show that some patients can defy the odds, and live for longer term, or cured completely. If the doctors just say that only 10% survive to five years, that is more comforting than telling someone he has only a year to live.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
9 May 11
i dont think doctors should be saying anything the patient did not asked for. if they are asked for the information, they should be saying what their findings are.
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
13 May 11
Hi Chiyosan, actually I think most patients want to hear positive news even when they ask the doctors how long they can live. If the doctors say that the patient has at most a year, that will definitely crash the spirit of the patients. If the doctors say that some can survive above five years, that gives hope to the patients. I think it is better for doctors to provide general statistics, instead of personalize the bad news.
@flagella08 (5065)
• Philippines
9 May 11
it depends on the situation most doctors prefer telling the truth in a subtle way and patients react violently. that's always the case since people can't accept their deaths soon. we all know that we'll get there but not for the time being. in the case of severely ill patients the doctors will usually tender their predictions. they both have the right to tell and inform the patient. this can have two effects on patient: will he either strive or give up.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
9 May 11
I believe that doctors should be honest with their patients. Giving false hope is demeaning to life and does not benefit anyone. If their indeed some hope i believe it should be encouraged. a positive attitude can do a lot for the body's healing. I think a doctor should give a patient a reason to hope unless there is absolutely. After that they should be thinking of the patient's comfort for the time they have left and making it worthwhile.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
9 May 11
Yes my friend, doctors can predict only according to their findings but prolong the life and knowing the life end is in the hand of God. They are only make predict but not 100% true. see you around
@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
13 May 11
Hi Visavis, I think doctors should not even try to predict. If they just give the statistics, most patients will try to beat the odd. Many of us do not personalize the information we read in the newspaper. For example, even if we know that 1 in 4 persons will get heart attack, we will not think that we belong to one of these potential heart attack patients. If the doctors would just say 30% die in the first year, 40% die in the second year, and the rest survived more than two years, most people will think that they belong to the last category. it is better than telling people that they will die within 2 years.