what is considered cheating in a relationship these days?
By samafayla33
@samafayla33 (1856)
United States
5 responses
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
20 May 11
I don’t think having a premarital relationship is the same thing as cheating. If two people love each other and are committed to their relationship there is no breach of trust. On the other hand if one of the people in the couple sleep with a third party that is the worst betrayal and can mean the end of the relationship because without trust love is just not enough.You can only guide children; at the end of the day they will do as they see fit when they are adults. It is important to lead by example, I think.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
21 May 11
I think there is all kinds of scenarios of cheating, especially these days where there are so many options for doing so, like chatting online or through cell phone texting. Cheating is cheating regardless of how it is done outside of your relationship!
@Galena (9110)
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20 May 11
I wouldn't even put premarital relationships and cheating in the same category.
if you choose to wait until marriage. that's your choice. if you don't, that's your choice too.
if you cheat on someone you are in a relationship with then you are hurting and betraying someone else.
my husband and I were sleeping together for nearly ten years before we married.
I would NEVER, NEVER, consider cheating on him for one moment. and that's not just since we married, but for the space of all those years we've been together.
the two are not even slightly alike.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
19 May 11
Cheating is hiding of things ,hiding the truth from the partner who trusts.When there is no thing to be hiden between the persons in the relation then there will not be any cheating.If one person cheats the other has to suffer.Children will suffer.Before marriage what we do is right at that time period becox we would be in selection the right person for the life.So we may be talking to many but noeveryone is our soul mate.When the one right person is choosen then should be engaged with that person ,however this if not continued it becomes a life time pain .Not everyones life is as same .
Days are same what ever it might be,Previously we had ancestors which taught us much about these things. No new things are now happening,just we think so ..
@SilverKing (1003)
• Canada
20 May 11
I would consider cheating when you are keeping important things from your partner.Things such as another partner you are with for example.Also if you are not interested in your partner that much and try to avoid them this could also be considered a form of cheating on your partner.The amount of cheating among couples nowadays is skyrocketing.Back in the good old days 50 or more years ago this was much less common and marriage and relationships were considered more valued and people spend their whole lives together faithful as the day the couples met each other.My oh my have times changed in this digital anti social society with mass texting addiction at reliance on electronic device prevalent amount a vast majority of people.






