heart over money? or money over heart?

May 25, 2011 8:49pm CST
love or money? I have a friend who was caught up between two girls and he's been asking me for an advise but I'm confused too with his situation. So this is his scenario, He has 2 girlfriends, GIRL1 which is already working in a retail store ,and the guy loves her so much since high school. GIRL2 who is rich, a single parent, offers him to move to other country to settle down but they have just met a week ago.. who would you choose and why? GIRL1 or GIRL2?
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@stary1 (6612)
• United States
26 May 11
No contest..Girl 1..he loves her and money they can always make. Love is not easy to find. It needs to be cared for and cherished :)
26 May 11
yeah that's my point too but I think my friend is having a hard time choosing because.. 1. financial 2. i think he is tired of GIRL1 in their long relationship..
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
26 May 11
Seems pretty drastic to even consider moving to another country with someone he just met...
26 May 11
yeah i think GIRL2 good at bed too that's why my friend is having a hard time.. haha its funny and confusing...
@celticeagle (159474)
• Boise, Idaho
26 May 11
Your friend has known Girl 1 longer and even has feelings for her. Girl 2 is a situation where he would be in another country and far from home if something happens to end the relationship. And he has only known her afew days. I would tell him to go with his gut. And there is always the pros and cons list where you make a list of pros(things you like) and cons(things you don't like)about both parties. See which has the most pros.
@celticeagle (159474)
• Boise, Idaho
26 May 11
And I would be alittle nervous to go to another country with someone I didn't even know.
26 May 11
i really agree with you, he should carefully choose the one by visualizing the pros and cons. because this cannot be met by trial and error.
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• United States
27 May 11
I would listen to my heart first because when the money is gone what are you going to do? Plus it would be wrong for him to leave his girl that he loves so much for someone he just met only becuase of the money. And honestly if I were his girlfriend and I knew he were asking you for advice on whether to leave me for someone he just met just cause they have money I would tell him to leave just for him even having to consider it. If you have to think about leaving me when you claim you love me then you dont love me at all, because money shouldnt even matter when it comes to love.
@Jesuriel (267)
• United States
26 May 11
That's a really difficult situation. I think he should wait a while and see how his feelings towards girl2 change. Since he's in love with girl 1, he should spend more time with her.