Home Alone - Life is boring to be alone :(

Hi besthope Am so sorry you are feeling blue. Do I ever know this feeling. It is just my boyfriend and I at home and last year he left on a work trip for 4 weeks and I was so alone and teary all the time. I will tell you what several on here told me; My pms work all the time, if you need to talk I am open ear all the time. Try and keep yourself busy as much as you can and remember they all will come back. It did wonders. It was quite comforting for several to offer. Therefore, I extend the same to you. Also come on here and vent my dear it is such a great place where many lend ears. Pamper yourself a little by resting and or doing some things you could not otherwise do while they were home. Before you know it time will definitely fly and your home will be filled with all the happy noise you so adore.

i like being alone :) some don't and some do but to me being all by myself gives me the oppertunity to make time for what i always wanna to do, because with others arround me, i could never do as i would want to.

Well, it's really bad to feel loneliness but you need to be happy when people around not be there. Just try to manage yourself just by doing anything that makes you little happy...like writing something in mylot to ease your loneliness... Smile friend and don't think something. They are coming back and you'll be happy again...

hahaha... sound funny to my, not your situation, it´s difficult to be use to one situation and then change it completly.... i was use to be alone, when i was a teeneger my father worked all day while i was at school, then i went to work on a cruise line industry.... life can be very lonely sometimes... but i had the greatest time in my life when i was alone... now i have my family and sometimes i wish to be alone just for a minute!!!! i cann´t even listen music (my pasion) because my baby girl prefer tv .... anyway... enjoy to be alone for a minute... don´t get use to it, but lisen the music u like, watch the movies u like, prepare the food u like... you´ll see the time goes fast and your family´ll return soon... good luck...

I know that feeling, it's like we need the company of others because they know how to fill up the silence. I can't handle silence because it drives me insane. I need someone to be with, I can't do things on my own.

Madam: U are not alone. U are with your children and pets. U are also busy with bank work. Where is the question of loneliness. You are bored with bank work and hence you have posted in mylot. That is good. your point - do we sometimes feel bored when along -- the answer is obvious yes. That is why we see television, we browse internet, we read newspapers etc. have a good day.

I am used to living alone so for the most part I don't feel lonely..but after my little granddaughter has been here and she goes back home the quietness is so loud! LOL...really..then I do feel a bit lonely!

Hi. besthope44. It is like this for me too whenever my kids go with their father to the store. I will feel very alone and like I am all by myself in this world. It feels strange to have the house to myself while it is so quiet. The silence is so very annoying. But I do love the peace though, the quietness is just irritating.

No, it won't be like that always. I would have thought that you would be enjoying the peace and quiet, but since you are not, get busy and do something. Is there an older person in your neighborhood who would enjoy some company? If so, bake some muffins or cookies and take some to him/her. Stay a while and visit. Do some yard work, go for a walk or go shopping. Do some chores that you prefer to do by yourself without the "help" of your children, like painting a room. Keep yourself busy

It is not a fun feeling to feel alone. I personally like "me" time to get away from the everyday hustle and bustle. It's probably boring compared to what you are used to. Enjoy this time to yourself to reflect and relax. Life is so busy that it is ok to not have anything going on from time to time. I don't have children of my own at this time, so I can't say for sure what you are feeling. But being a parent is a full time job in itself, so just take this time to do something fun that you would like to do that you would not be able to do with the family around.

The last time I was all alone at home was more than 3 years ago. Although it was a bit lonely, I enjoyed it. I liked that I could be lazy, and not do anything. I didn't even cook, and just ate whatever. But before my mini vacation was over, I made sure I did something productive. So, I framed some photos that I was sure that my family would enjoy when they got back. Those framed photos are still on the walls.

i remember some years back when i was younger, i always wanted to be alone at home, or i tend to stay alone when everybody else wanted to go out. few years later, i was living alone in a city far away from home. all i thought it was just tv, food and sleep. it was not that easy. some days of it, it becomes boring and lonely. it made me appreciate things that i had been taking for granted. but i learned some other things, though. things that help me alot now that i am no longer alone, but rather managing a home of my own.

The first time I live alone without my family because I worked out of town is feel so much empty and alone, but I try to face it stronger. I'm young and I have to grow up. It's not for forever so why dont just face it and be mature. I still can call them even it's not the same situation anymore. By the time I learn that's alright live separately and alone from my family as long as my heart is full of them

Some time ago I was working in a different city, I was away from my family. During the day I was at work, but in the evening I was alone in my apartment, I wished to hear from my family, to receive a phone call. I have often been alone. I never really got accustomed. I tried to find some leisure time activities or socialize with people on internet.

I would hate to be alone all of the time but it is good to be alone sometimes. It gives me time to myself to do what I want to do but I also miss my husband too when he is gone.

i dont know, i guess it is because i am an only child that i love being alone because i can do what i want with no one bugging me. i can read all day, eat what i want and when i want, its great!

besthope been there and done that, my only family my adult son and I got split up. he lost his job , we got behind on the rent and zap were evicted so he is in gov housing while I am here in this very tiresome retirement center, we were homeless so we had to find some place for each of us to stay .,without money here you cannot afford to rent an apartment and the rents are outrageous, he finally has a part time job but not enough to get the two of us back into an apartment. I am 84 and diabetic so had to go along with my being here for now. i have a roommate and there are 90 other r esidents but that does not mean I do not get lonely thats why I am mylotting a lot all the time. retired and stuck here and not able to walk far I needed someway to interconnect with other people of all ages and mylot does that for me. hurray for mylot.

in my case, i would vrey much like that. most of the time i stay in my room when i was still living with my parents. whenever i'm alone back home, i just go online while listening to some good music, watch tv if they're airing good movies, cook or eat whatever mama left for me in our fridge. plus i love thinkin about whatever.. so i just lie down for hours until they're back home.

im a home-buddy, im not bothered being home-alone. i actually enjoy it compared to me being outside and being in a party - for me that is boring especially if the people around are not my close friends at all. I get to do alot when im alone and meditation is one of them :) being alone makes me become ALL-ONE :)

acutially i don,t know