My ex keep on calling me, finally I give in
By kingparker
@kingparker (9673)
United States
June 2, 2011 4:33am CST
On the past weeks, until yesterday, my ex keep on calling me. Sometimes, I don't want to hear the ringing of my cell phone, I rather turn it off. Yesterday, she left a voice message, and I finally give in, and call her back after work. She asked me to meet up, and I told me that I don't have time, since I am busy. I just made that up. Later she called again, and left a voice message that she is about leaving, moving to other places. Out of sympathy, I called her. I agree to meet her, nevertheless we were friends. Before, she called me because she wants me to buy her something, or help her out if she need help. But since maybe this my last time to see her again, I just try to be friendly, and have a dinner with her. What do you think? Did I make a wrong decision? I had thought about it whether I should meet her or not.
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11 responses
@rhejans (191)
• Philippines
3 Jun 11
Yes! You have made a right decision. Even whatever the result will be then
you are just being Gentleman! You take her out for a dinner. then atleast you still
left her a pride that the woman should have for whatever bad things she have done to you or whatsoever. Good Decision! Gentleman!!
@minmin3456 (81)
• China
3 Jun 11
Hi,Kingparker.
I think it'e very nice for you to see her,as you say, you just want to be friendly,and have a good dinner with her,then just do it.
If there is somethig unhappy happens,you can just go.In my opinon,you have done already what you should do.
By the way,I want to talk something about myself.I don't know why my ex came to my colleague,he taught her to play games,when he was live in another place,and he knows that there only I and my colleague in the workroom.
I just wanto say it out,I don't want to think about him any more.
Good luck for you,wish you happy.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
3 Jun 11
It sounds like she is just using you if you ask me. I could be wrong. I think you did right by just being a friend though.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
An ex is there for a reason, I though she would be there to just tell you that she's moving on and it would be a sweet end to the chapter of your life - finally.
So, what happened? Was it sweet? or a teary night?
I think even if it's already an ex, we must not forget that this person is part of our life. I guess if it's the last time, it's her last time to see if there something else left or not. The gesture of you agreeing it's okay actually.
@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
it's your call. whether shes leaving or not, for me just go and see her. if you find out that shes really not leaving, then just dont comment on it. try to be nice and make things straight with her. if she wont stop then dont give her another chance after that dinner date you granted.
maybe she wont stop because everything's not clear to her. talk.. give her time to somehow give her something to start letting you go. ;)
@mansha (6298)
• India
2 Jun 11
I think its not bad, if you were friends before you can still stay friends just be clear about it to each other and for women at times its hard to let go but it was nice of you to make time for her. Since she is moving elsewhere there is no threat of you to getting back together. At times we just want another look to make sure that whatever happened happened for the best. meet her at restaurant split the bill and go to different way and make clear to her about this. I know she will get it.
@rainbowink (296)
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
Go have a dinner with her. Try to read between the lines of what she's saying or try to really understand her intention in having a dinner with you. If you prove she's not telling the truth and if you don't really have any love left for her, then stop answering her calls. OR, if there is such, block her number.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
Well, there's no harm in giving her a dinner date.
But if it turns out that it's just a ploy for her to sweet talk on you, then probably you should never ever answer her calls again. Doing that will give her the impression that she can entice you to go back to her as his boyfriend.
