I am annoy of other people behavior and find out I have the same behavior too..

i also experience the same things. i get annoy easily and then i think i have the same habit. just like you we could realize our mistakes by reflecting in terms of how we treat other people. we could find some defect but our self also have the same defect. so hard to judge in order not to be judge. learning to accept on another is the key to good life.

That wasn't so surprised when someone get annoyed with other behavior while they have same behavior. Even worse then those one.

I usually get angry when someone has no mannerism in public. Clearly, there are a lot of things we can't do there but there are some who cross the line, I'm sure you know the kind: picking their nose, laughing hard, talking too loud, etc.. Most people will be annoyed by these stupid mannerisms, not just me that's why I also don't do it.

For me I will try to look the good and bad side until the person prove to be a real annoying idiot then I will back off and avoid at all means. Really, if they arent there at all who are we to like? Their role is to make us appreciate and tolerate the other lesser irritating people more and to appreciate highly those true gems.

Its mirroring yourself from others behavior. It is a study in Psychology. Sometimes we are unaware that we hate jealous people because we are also jealous type. Though we don't accept it, its on our subconscious mind.

I really developed dislike to other people for no apparent reason. But most of the times is like you, in the end i realize that they have somewhat something common in my behavior. but most of the time i get the feeling even they do not do anything wrong to me.

Yes. Some things some people do and say makes me dislike them. I try to give them a chance though but alot of times, my instincts were right.

It is annoying to dislike someone without them doing anything that makes you or feel you are harm. We know why we dislike a certain person, but sometimes for us not to get to any trouble, we just simply says, we just don't like them. Maybe it has something to do with the way they speak, move and laugh. Maybe because from the way they show their personality. Moreover, I got your point as sometimes I hate girls who are screaming or talking loud. Who likes to make fun of others and it seems they are enjoying the scene. I lately observes myself only to find out that I do it sometimes. I hate those things to do with me, but I did it on someone before. That is weird.

Maybe the reason why their behavior bothers you so much is because you share these behaviors. Maybe subconsciously you dislike these attributes in yourself and so you project. That is good that you realize that you can't expect others to behave the way you like. You can't change others, but you can change your attitude towards them. I believe that by realizing this, you will be able to stop having to feel annoyed. We can't control everything and when we understand and accept that, the world is a much better and less stressful place. I do sometimes dislike others for no apparent reason. I think that everyone has experienced this at least once in their life. All we can do is try our best not to judge so quickly and give ourselves the chance to get to know the person.