Is your boyfriend/girlfriend your ideal one?
By eljayo
@eljayo (1105)
Philippines
June 7, 2011 7:07am CST
Hi guys! I was wondering. All people have their ideal man/woman they want to share their life with.I myself have a list of what I want on a guy.But i guess, sometimes we are given the person that is not our ideal one for us to become contented and happy of what we have. I can attest to this and I can proudly say that I am happy on our relationship. Others think that they can never be happy unless they meet their ideal one. To some this is true to others they are contented. SO guys, How about you? are you happy with the one you have now or are you still waiting fro the ideal one and taking for granted the person who loves you the most?
7 responses
@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
My boyfriend is not the ideal guy for me before. But since I happily accepted him, whatever his attitude and character is. I feel like he's already a perfect guy for me. We are one half of each other.
@pepper_popper (5)
• Philippines
26 Jun 11
me too.. he is not my ideal boyfriend but i have learned to love his flaws within the two years that we are together, and his family is nice to me.
@sanijannah1 (38)
•
7 Jun 11
well Ideal means something that everyone would likely approve of. so its like a person that's close to being perfect. nobody is like that, everyone has flaws and sometimes what you think is ideal for you might not really be your match or that you and him can't be compatible after all.
@weirdo55 (77)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
i too have a list if qualities that i'd like my partner to have. but honestly, he doesn't have most of it. but to tell you the truth, i don't mind. because i love him and he loves me so much. i couldn't ask for a better guy. id rather have him than a guy with all the qualities of my ideal guy and not know how to treat me. my boyfriend may not be perfect nor is he my ideal guy, but it turns out, he loves me for me and i love him for just the way he is. and that for me is enough. :)
@bslovers (57)
• United States
9 Jun 11
I have found probably 99.9% of the ideal things I want in the man I'm with now! Of course there's things here and there especially if you are fighting that you say I wish he was like this or that but overall I am very happy with my man! I was married for 5yrs to a guy that I jumped onto a relationship with bc I wanted someone and it was a disaster. But I'm happy with my man now he';s sweet, funny, romantic, he's helping to raise my kids from my previous marriage as his own, he's a great dad, man and lover. Along with the fact that he's my best friend!
@soccerbai123 (274)
• Philippines
22 Jun 11
honestly, my boyfriend is not the ideal one and at first, it was a bit bothering because my friends always say that he is far from what i wanted but as time goes by, i did not mind at all. because i already loved him and acceted him for who he is. i think that is how it should be. it is not about changing yourself for the one you love but accepting him for who he is
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
7 Jun 11
I'm pretty sure I've found my ideal significant other, I once was married for quite some time and that didn't turn out as I imagined.
As of right now we'be been dating for 5 years already with our few ups and downs but I think we've been able to figure that out quite nicely.
