bslovers

@bslovers (57)

United States • Age 40

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First kiss always memorable..!!!

lovedude @lovedude (4447) • India 8 Aug 11

When you first time kiss your partner it's always most memorable one.. where did you first time kiss to your partner? chick, forehead or lips?

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bslovers Our first kiss was a very memorable one! It wasn't the greatest thing ever but it was so sweet and unexpected for him! I leaned over and surprised him by kissing him and he was so happy! It was absolutely the best!

8 Aug 11

Calling off a wedding....I was supposed to go to one last night!

jillhill @jillhill (37353) • United States 7 Aug 11

But the bride called it off about two weeks ago as she had the feeling it was the right thing to do. She is suffering though...and I totally understand. Why? Because my first wedding was called off. By the groom. I got a dear john...

brides

calling off the whole thing

falling out of love

marriage

weddings

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bslovers I never called off a wedding, but I wish that I would have! I would have been much better off if I didn't marry my first husband. That's the best thing to do sometimes if you know it's not the right decision for your life. It's really hard on the other person...

8 Aug 11

Should I be worried?

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 12 Jun 11

I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and he's taken on my kids as his own but I feel like he's never going to deepen the commitment by marrying me. Should I be worried?

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bslovers Thank you! We have talked about it in the past & I always felt like there was one excuse after another but we talked last night for a couple of hours and we've decided we'd like to be married within the next two years or so.....Hopefully the ring will be coing...

2 Jul 11

Should I be worried?

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 12 Jun 11

I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and he's taken on my kids as his own but I feel like he's never going to deepen the commitment by marrying me. Should I be worried?

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bslovers Hey thanks I meant to write a yr. and 10 months! Sorry. Which I believe no matter how long you've been together, if you love each other and want to be together marriage is not a bad thing nor is it too soon. but... next month well be together 2yrs. and I feel...

1 Jul 11

Should I be worried?

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 12 Jun 11

I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and he's taken on my kids as his own but I feel like he's never going to deepen the commitment by marrying me. Should I be worried?

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bslovers Okay 1st off thanks for writing. 2nd I wrote only 10 months we've been together almost 24 months (not too sure what I was thinking sorry about that) I think that his mom and step dad waiting like 7yrs. to get married. I've already been married for 5yrs. and...

1 Jul 11

Should I be worried?

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 12 Jun 11

I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and he's taken on my kids as his own but I feel like he's never going to deepen the commitment by marrying me. Should I be worried?

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Is your boyfriend/girlfriend your ideal one?

eljayo @eljayo (1105) • Philippines 7 Jun 11

Hi guys! I was wondering. All people have their ideal man/woman they want to share their life with.I myself have a list of what I want on a guy.But i guess, sometimes we are given the person that is not our ideal one for us to...

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bslovers I have found probably 99.9% of the ideal things I want in the man I'm with now! Of course there's things here and there especially if you are fighting that you say I wish he was like this or that but overall I am very happy with my man! I was married for 5yrs...

8 Jun 11

When should someone stop holding on?

guypersona @guypersona (57) • Philippines 22 Apr 11

So... i'm going out with my own bestfriend for almost 3 years now. We've been through a lot. we're happy. sure, but whenever i think of the problems we've had, it makes me doubt myself and my love for him. i mean, i've been...

had enough

love

troubled lover

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bslovers I was dating my best friend in high school and every time I turned around he was with another girl on me, including my sister. I forgave him over and over again and finally I had to let go because I realized I was the only one holding on to the relationship....

8 Jun 11

Marital problems...

ludyvel04 @ludyvel04 (311) • Philippines 27 May 11

Do you have any idea on how to avoid or at least lessen causes of marital problem?

marriage

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bslovers Before you get married look at everything the person does. I was married to an abusive alcoholic and If I would have looked at the warning signs before we got married I wouldn't have gotten stuck in the situation. Even little things that get on your nerves...

8 Jun 11

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who am i?????

bumami @bumami (15) • Czech Republic 11 Aug 10

i, my self and me!!!at this point of my life i keep asking my self who am i? what i really want,what kind of person i am? there are people a had observed and based on my observation i told to my self that i am not like them i am...

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bslovers The best way to find out who you are is time and observation of others and decide if what they have is what you want and then how to achieve it, if not how to stay away from what they are doing. Hope that helps & good luck!

11 Aug 10

Have you as a parent ever felt ike this?

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 1 Aug 10

My kids and I went to my sisters house and my daughter who's almost 3 said she wanted to spend the night there I was sad but okay with that until I tried to take my 1 1/2 yr old home and he started crying that he wanted to stay...

sleep overs

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bslovers Aww sad for you guys but awesome for her having a good time. Yeah other mylotters also shared that it will happen from time to time, it's nice to know I'm not alone! Thanks for responding!

11 Aug 10

Miscarriages and what you think about them

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 2 Aug 10

I had three miscarriages before two healthy children and I believe that my kids will be waiting to meet me in heaven, that God took them early for a reason. Does any one else feel the same way? I love my kids they were at one time...

miscarriages and heaven

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bslovers Aww! I am so sorry. I went in to hear my baby's heart beat and was told the baby didn't survive. I too was devastated. That is a great idea I never even thought of a walk to remember the child. I might start that each year, and do one each month I miscarried....

11 Aug 10

Miscarriages and what you think about them

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 2 Aug 10

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bslovers Me too! I don't know where I'd be without them!

11 Aug 10

Journailing in a scrapbook

bslovers @bslovers (57) • United States 4 Aug 10

What's the best way to journal in a scrapbook and make i look the best? My hand writing is not the neatest or prettiest so that options kinda out any suggestions?

journaling in scrapbook

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