Learning to tie up the shoelace!

Shoe lace - Shoe lace always a challenging on for kids in tying up them!
@besthope44 (12123)
India
June 11, 2011 12:20pm CST
Its my daughter! She has a trouble always in tying up her shoe laces right. To my surprise today, I saw her shoes on the bed and she was busy meddling with the lace. When i started to have a talk, she was almost into tears. She is 5 years old and she got hurted at school by her friends, when she said she has trouble in tying up. So we decided, sat together for 3 hours, started to teach step by step and finally she picked up well! She screamed proudly "I did it! I can do it myself! No one can tease me any more!". I always feel tying up shoelaces are first challenging lesson for them. I remember i struggled too initially in tying them right.lol. Am happy she is out of her depression now!
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8 responses
• United States
11 Jun 11
Hi besthope Awwh too cute! Yes it is quite challenging and some have a very hard time in learning how to tie the laces. I am glad you patiently taught her how to do it. She will never forget your guidance and remember you too remember the challenge, therefore, think about how happy this was because one day she too will sit and patiently teach hers and other children how to tie them. I remember my two where I did the bunny loop over and under, gosh sounds so cute and funny now but as parents this is what we do. Though it may seem like something small to small, actually it is the start for her to learn to patiently take her time and try, try again and she will be able to accomplish anything life brings at her.
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@besthope44 (12123)
• India
13 Jun 11
HI HWG, Oh yes! I taught her the same bunny loop song which we learned those days. It made her easy to rhyme and tie them up, so she remembered it easily. Even today she tied it herself and i was really glad to see her level of confidence.She was patient for the 3 hours and i can see the interest on her eyes to get it done! She is just like her dad, who never gives up with a winning attitude! His dad planning this weekend to get her a cycle which she loved for a while now, to motivate her efforts!
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
11 Jun 11
Wow, 5 years old and ties her shoes, that is awesome..Here, it used to be that by 5 or 6, children were suppose to tie their shoes. But now with velcro, they don't push it as hard, so even if one was 7 or 8, they wouldn't get teased about it, probably because most kids can't..My son can, because I worked with him, I didn't want him to not know.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
16 Jun 11
Hi Carmelanirel, I had problem with shoe laces at age of 10. I believe she managed it now. She has taken it so hurted for her friends words. Nice to hear your son manage to do it! Kids are more smarter and sharper nowadays at young ages!Cheers!
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• United States
16 Jun 11
Hi besthope, yes kids are smarter today, even my 9 y/o son who still get add and subtract negative numbers better than I, and he was never taught how, that's embarrassing...
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
17 Jun 11
Wow that's really wonderful carmelanirel! I appreciate your son at his age, this is really surprising. But true, kids of this age are much smarter and they are real masters. To be honest! even am not so good at add/sub neg numbers..lol., but happy to see the kids simply "Little Masters!". Cheers!!
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• Singapore
12 Jun 11
i wonder why i managed to tie my shoe laces without help, maybe its due to the fact that when ever i bought shoes, they are always already tied to "perfection" therefore not needing any learning to be done?
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
16 Jun 11
Hi liquidblot, Thats really great to hear you never had trouble with the laces. Thats pretty interesting. Cheers!!
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
11 Jun 11
ahaha! I am also of the same kind. I do not to tie shoe lace. I never learnt it properly. But now that ur daughter has learnt ask her to practice it on holidays also twice. She will become comfortable. I learnt putting knot say in my 40/45 th year. I never use to wear shoes in school days. During college days my mami (auntie) use to help me. I use to avoid wearing shoes to Bank also till such time slip on shoes were introduced. have a good day. Now I know to some extent.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
16 Jun 11
Thats interesting to hear sir. Most of us always find shoes and laces a big trouble. Even me, my brother all had this problem. And it was not easy to learn it as quicker though. Nice you had your aunt to help you. Latest shoes are more comfortable without hassles of laces. Cheeers!!
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
17 Jun 11
Oh yes , they are cool and never tough to tie and knot. But the schools till follow the old type and its a strict rule. So Children has to learn them. Cheers!!
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
16 Jun 11
yes. present day slipons help us solve this issue. Even then wearing throughout the day--the children are put to torture. have a great day
@TREISIKA (22)
• Vietnam
12 Jun 11
that is a tiny story but useful. She showed that she's a strong and independent girl. I guessed that you're in US or UK or somewhere like that because I heard many stories about independency in culture of UK or US. The youth can live independently at their early ages. That's great. We could succeed as long as we try
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
16 Jun 11
Hi Treisika, Even in India, most kids are learning to be independent, especially girls. Though not totally independent, but to some extent they stand on their own and thats proud thing to see. True, interest can takes to success! Cheers!
@kimLJT (30)
• Philippines
12 Jun 11
wow CONGRATULATIONS to her ^_^, at least she is trying her best to learn that sort of a thing nice to her, she has a determination to do things ^_~
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
16 Jun 11
Hi KimLJT, Thanks for those encouraging words, kids usually needs these words and they will do wonders if we motivate them. Cheers!
@GardenGerty (157462)
• United States
11 Jun 11
Oh, she is doing well. She took action to master the shoe laces instead of pouting or hiding from it.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
16 Jun 11
Hi GG, Yeah, she is managing to do it herself daily now. And she doesn't like anyone helping her now and she does it well!
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
12 Jun 11
Good for her. My granddaughter had the same problem at first but then they helped her out too....she is in kindergarden and here they have to be able to tie before they can start school....
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
16 Jun 11
Hi Jillhill, Nice to hear your granddaughter learned it at her small age. Kids of this age are much smarter and have good grasping power to learn things.Cheers!!