Love stinks
By blue65packer
@blue65packer (11826)
United States
June 13, 2011 12:38am CST
It has to me! It hurts,too! It makes a person act crazy! It makes our heart beat like it is ready to come out of our chests! It makes you want to be with that person for the rest of your life! It means you really care for this person and will do anything for them! It is romantic! It is passion! It is whatt everyone is suppose to do! There is respect,communication,there is trust! You think life is perfect and always will be! When love ends it stinks! You hurt! You think or are told it was all your fault that everything went wrong! You feel useless! You feel angry! You are disgusted! You want help to heal your heart but instead everyone makes you feel worse! You think you never love again! It is something you want to do again and probaly will! Me no! It is not worth it! I fall for the wrong guys and always get hurt when I am not getting taken advantage of! I will leave it out there for the ones you want to really full in love!
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8 responses
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
13 Jun 11
I respect your choice. I hope you are happy . Me? One of the best things that happened to me was a broken heart. I fell for the wrong guy, and he left me broken hearted I mended and was in a better place. I knew I wanted love and like that, my guy found me. I can't say that I believed it at first. It did take time and effort for both of us but we made it. It is possible but it does take work. But enough about me. Romantic love isn't for everyone and if you are far happier without it then I say Brava! Follow Your Bliss.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
17 Jun 11
I hope there is room for like! I like you. I'm happy if you are happy.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
15 Jun 11
Hi Blue,
Sorry to hear that you are giving up on love. If you are not willing to risk being hurt which kind of goes along with it, then you just will never know. I don't think anyone intentionally goes into a relationship with the intent to hurt the other person. I think they really do care but sometimes things just don't work out the way we wish they would. Just because it ended doesn't mean that it wasn't real while it lasted. I'm sorry you got so hurt. I hope in time you'll find someone who you can't resist and will sweep you off your feet again!
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
16 Jun 11
There is no change at love for me ever again! Love was never meant for me and there is no guy in site! I don't want to try! If I did I would need to be set up or go one line to meant someone! That is the only way! The more I hear about people being in love the more I know it is not for me! Love gets stinker by the second! I really have given up!
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
14 Jun 11
Personally I have been there. It does hurt, and it can make you feel quite betrayed. It can even make it to where it is hard to Trust and Love again. But in general time does heal all wounds if you let it. When a person treats you like this it is Sad and makes you wonder, but moving on makes it all worth while. I know I have been with a wonderful caring man for over 12 yrs of Marriage, and he is my everything.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
16 Jun 11
After reading most of the relpies to this discsussions I really know now love is not for me and it really does stink! I am really begining to hate,more and more,of people being in love! I am so sick of this! I was never meant to find love and live with the one I love forever! Love gets stinkier by the second!
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
14 Jun 11
I know what you mean. I have been through alot of bad relationships. I have been hurt so many times too. I finally gave up and was looking for friendship only. that was when I met my now husband.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
16 Jun 11
I wish that would happen to me! Look for just freindship and find a husband! I do have male friends. Unfortunely they are all married! One is gay. The second one found his love of his life at a place they both worked at.Number Three got engaged not long after I meant him to his longtime girlfriend who he is married to now! This is one of the many reason love is not for me and why I give up! Love really stinks!
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
14 Jun 11
real love never hurts but infatuation fools people and does not always last. I met my love when I was 32 and was married to him for 33 years only ending with his heart attack. but we loved unconditionally. we took each other just the way we were good bad and indifferent points and we loved all of the other person. that love does not hurt and will not blow up in your face.but so many people have all these conditions on love like I will love you if you lose ten pounds, if you bleach you hair, grow a beard blah blah. conditions strangle love. r eal love takes you as you are. You need to meet that one special right guy and you will know him when you meet him. he will give unconditional love and you will return it and you will love forever.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
16 Jun 11
A broken heart does take forever to heal! Boy do I know that! Especially when I was in love it was with 2 guys at the same time! A long story on how the heck that happened! Anyway when both relationships were over,it took forever to get over the two men! I never will even try again! What I just mentioned has alot to do with it and getting really burned by the last 2 boyfriends,I dated, has alot to do with it,too!
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
When you fall in love be ready to get hurt. You will get hurt when your expectations from the relationship is not met. You will get hurt when quarrels start and nobody wants to say sorry to each other.
But i guess, the most wonderful feeling is to be in love, despite the hurts it gives.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
16 Jun 11
Being in love is a great feeling but it really stinks when it is over! I rather not go through either of those emotions again! I need to have my life simple and when I really think about it there is no room in my life for it!
