your father.. what is he like?

@tigeraunt (6326)
Philippines
June 17, 2011 11:41pm CST
my father passed away three years ago (nearing four years now), just as i was starting in my lot. he lived a good life. he worked hard and never complained and saw all five of his children earn degrees, get married and have children (in that order). he was a strict parent but always ready to shower outward affection. i always remember him playing board games and joking with me when he is not at work, hugging me and the rest of us, or being more than a figure head. he was very demonstrative to my mom and all his siblings. and how he loved his couch at home where i often see him taking a nap and snoring. i think about my dad a lot and how much i miss him. [b] tell something about your dad. what was he like? do you say i love you openly to him?[/b] ann
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9 responses
• United States
19 Jun 11
My father is a wonderful man who I love very much. My parents are the unique ones that raised five kids of their own plus left their doors open for the neighborhood kids that were mistreated. We often had spares growing up and never knew how many kids were going to be there in the morning. Dad provided for all of us and even the spares were his kids. This year has been especially rough on my dad as my "adopted" brother passed away unexpectedly two months ago. The army knew the story behind my brother's adoption into the family and honored my parents as his parents by providing them with some of his military medals. Just last year, my dad became even more of a hero to us. My nephew tripped and the dog's chain had wrapped around his neck. Another nephew screamed and my dad ran out the door without even thinking about it and proceeded to free my nephew from the chain around his neck. The emergency room doctor said that my dad literally saved my nephew's life. Within a few minutes he would have suffocated. My nephew has recovered and is doing well now.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
19 Jun 11
hi linda, wow! am sure you are so proud. youre very lucky to have very generous parents. thank you for sharing them with us. ann
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@watergirl (567)
• Philippines
19 Jun 11
My father is a hardworking dad who strives to provide the best for his family. In turn, he expects the best from his children especially in school. He is a disciplinarian: No offense is overlooked nor goes unpunished. Growing up, I've always admired his intelligence and principles. I remember making a fathers' day card for him when I was 10 years old. Imagine my surprise upon receiving the card back with corrections and all! I regarded his opinions and teachings more than those of my teachers.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
19 Jun 11
dear watergirl, that was a funny experience from your father. if that was me as a child, i would feel devastated. but if it happened now, i would accept it as a challenge to strive to perfect my craft. thank you for sharing. ann
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• Philippines
18 Jun 11
well my dad i say that he is not perfect but he is the best dad ever existed!! im just blessed that im a daughter of a father which is a good man,person,brother,uncle,cousin,son,husband and of course a good dad to his children=))
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
19 Jun 11
i second! thank you so much for sharing him with us. ann
• United States
19 Jun 11
That is such a wonderf thing to say about your dad. My dad was strict and had some issues due to how he was scarred as a child but he was a good dad.
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• Philippines
24 Jun 11
well my dad is strict too but now that im big girl already i understand why. actually his always yelling at me but i admit it was my fault. but for me his a sweet dad and always provide his family's need and even sometimes our wants..
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
18 Jun 11
Dear Anny My dad is no more, he left for his heavenly abode long back, my mom is alive like your's, much healther than me, lives 500 meters away only, we meet, either she comes or i go atleast 3 times a week, we talk almost daily several times We consider our parents next to gods and goddesses. We don't say, I LOVE YOU to parents, but touch their feet when we meet, they put their hand on our head, bless It is divine.. Thank you so much for sharing Namastey. ^Kalyani^
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
18 Jun 11
hello kal, we too have something like that. we show respect to elders by taking their hands and placing it on our forehead. i guess it came from the spaniards who colonized the philippines before. showing respect is also loving a parent. your father will be included in my prayers. we say happy father's day to them in heaven. ann
@ray8500 (46)
18 Jun 11
Hi there, My dad is alive and still very strong, his an X-Military official here in the philipines, and now he's managing his store at New Zealand. His is a very cool person and can make friends with just about anyone.
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
18 Jun 11
hello ray, thats lovely to know. yes i would say he is cool being able to make friends with anyone. thank you for sharing. ann
• Philippines
18 Jun 11
Hello Ma'am! My dad is still alive, in fact He just celebrated 60th last June 6 this year. I thanked God for the life of my dad because I have so many accomplishments because of Him. Without my father, i couldn't finished up college and was able to work satisfying my profession. He is also very protective and strict esp. when it comes to spending time wisely, even spending quality budget and making major decisions. Even after my marriage with my husband, I can see how loving, generous, caring and protective my dad esp. to his grandchildren. He sees to it that his family are in safe, well provided and in proper standing. I always pray that the Lord will continue to bless His life, making him a blessing to everyone surrounding him. HAPPY FATHERS DAY to all great DADS in the World!
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
18 Jun 11
dear michdex_mariz. you are very lucky to still have him around. my dad was 77 when he passed away. keep loving and be demonstrative of your love to him. have a great day. ann
• United States
10 Jul 11
I lost my dad when I was 12. He didn't get to see me grow up. What I do remember is riding on his shoulders and that he would surprise me with gifts. He was kind and he Loved, loved my mom. I can remember his voice. It was a little soft and raspy.sadly that's all I can remember.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
24 Jun 11
Hi ann,it is nice to read about your feelings for your dad and it shows that you shared a special bond with him. It was the same with me. My father passed away 12 years ago when he had a heart attack and We all miss him a lot to this day. My father was a very special person who had absolutely no enemies. He was always fair to everyone and treated not just us his family with a lot of love and care but others too who were close to him.I had planned many things to do with him and my mother - his greatest desire was to take me and my mom to his favorite Calcutta where he had spent many years of his life, and show us all his old haunts and generally show us the city, but it never happened ...
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
18 Jun 11
Hi Ann... my dad also passed away about three years ago. He was the greatest man I ever knew. He taught me moral values, he supported all that I have done and one of my fondest memories is of him teaching me how to play baseball. We had many father and son talks while doing this. We played baseball or at least played catch even in my adult years. I miss you...dad...soooo much
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@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
18 Jun 11
hi dennis, it must have been a very wonderful time with him and you. thank you so much for sharing. ann