how relationship works if they keep on arguing?

Life is about learning and growing as people. Sometimes that's going to take some Drama and growing pains. I always said if you never argue with your true love then you probably have the wrong one. Let's don't focus only on the drama part. True love is wonderful even through the hard times. With chemistry and passion, true love is Glorious!! I will gladly take a few arguments

arguments are really normal for couples. every individual has its own point of view and each has its own differences and because it creates an argument. it just depends on you on how to control the emotions. me and my boyfriend often have arguments but we make sure that at the end of the end of the day, we work things out and make an agreement. nice discussion by the way.

It is too difficult to avoid the arguments. A few days I heard something funny via the net. It said that even to perfect couples, they have thoughts to kill each other several times in their lives. So you can see that it is very normal to have arguments in the marriage. I think sometimes it is alright because you can see free your real thoughts and anger. And therefore both of you will realize what's wrong and you can find a solution to it. In fact some people will feel peaceful after losing the temper. If you don't talk to it to your partner, as time goes by, your gap will become larger and larger. And finally you will feel like strangers. I love China

See our society is moving. People are willing to live in the same house, produce a child but are not willing to marry. Let me not comment on this. They fight still live together is a condition that they are couples only. Each is not satisfied with the comforts they have so they fight. I appreciate they are tolerating to this extent. fighting may be for the same of others. when they are alone they are together. --this type of style is there. I wish u find a partner soon and get married. have a great dau.

they love each other that's for sure but they just don't agree on certain things. They need adjustments with each other's weaknesses. But if arguments and misunderstandings persist why not call the relationship off.

An argument is something that can really happen from time to time. I think its best if the two are willing to meet half way and raise a white flag to lower their pride.. and you know, talk. A talk that listens and understands what the other is trying to imply. A talk that doesn't require shouting, cos of course, one can get easily boiled up if someone is shouting at you. Another thing is learning how to COMPROMISE. :)

Having an argument in a relationship is just normal since there is no such thing as perfect relationship but if they are arguing everyday, then I think it is not already normal. If they used to argue everyday, then I think it is not worth it to stay in a relationship. Maybe, they are not really meant for each other. I am afraid that in the future, your sister will just get hurt at the end. I think it would be better if they live in separate houses. Her boyfriend would still have the chance to visit her for the sake of their child but not to the point that they will live under the same roof. Personally, if they really love each other, they will both learn to live with their differences and love every aspect of their relationship. Happy mylotting!

Arguments are part of life in a relationship, but if it is happening at a increasing rate then probably there is a breakup or a divorce, Arguments occur when one is not able to tolerate things that are been said, it so happens that when someone talks rudely or when someone tries to go forward from us or we think that this is not right we certainly argue on situation, also sometimes for no reason a person argues then it is going on the streets and pulling down the ears of dogs, argument works something like that if we do it purposely. Now when we are involved in arguments we should be compromising things because that is where love works the most even if it takes your life for compromising you should do give your self and your partner no reason to argue but also see from the prospective that things are not been taken for granted otherwise it may be a problem in future too, so keep things well balanced and surely they will help in a relationship.

Love does not exist with out trials. Lovers must bear with each other, must braced themselves with every storm that may come and if they are not strong, love will eventually die. Love does not only ask for pure intentions but also for brave hearts and strong will to hold it up until the end. Many times we have heard how great their love for each other and yet have let love go. Their intentions are there but the will and faith to hold is not there. Love is not at fault, lovers do not have the faults but the circumstances and how they reacted make love fails.

Hi janefatima, you really got me thinking. I have been together with my boyfriend for 5 years now and we seem to be doing alot of arguing too. Sometimes i really wonder if it is just a message telling us that we are not suitable for each other. I'm really not sure about it. Is you sister married? or does she have any plans to get married? NO offense but do you think since your sister have a baby, she should try to provide a complete family for the child?

In my opinion one should have the compromising & understanding by nature by which the relationship can be continued if there are arguements also. Arguement is a part of relationship & is very common specially in the relation of wife & husband. We do argue each other many times a day but at the end of the day we forget everything. One should compromise & should let down his/her ego to continue the relationship. But it should be from both sides at times it should not be like one should keep on compromising. Relationship breaks when both of them make it an ego issue & don't like to get down which should not be done as there is no harm in letting your ego down in front of your partner as he/she is your soul mate.

No relationship is perfect. And no relationship is without arguments. They say that things start to get a bit rocky if they get too close for comfort. Even if couples who have a lot in common also argue. It's just one of the many challenges that you get when you enter in a relationship. That's just the way it is. Think about it. It would be too boring if you're happy all the time or you're just being safe for the sake of a "quite" relationship. Loving the other person also means that you accept the good as well as the bad. If you think they weren't meant for each other, maybe they didn't try enough and gave up so soon.