How come I have nothing to say, awkward

United States
June 20, 2011 9:10pm CST
There is a girl in different department, and I have to admit, I have crush on her. This morning, she came to work early, and I saw her during the break time. I say good morning to her, and we sat at different table respectively and have our own breakfast. I look at her, and look me back in exchange, and we both smile. I try to start a conversation, and ask her "how was her work?", and how was she etc..... Mostly work related. I just couldn't think of something to say to her during that 15 minutes. Really awkward. I simply look away and read the newspaper, and we go separate way after that 15 minutes break. Maybe I am suck at this, and I just couldn't come up something to say to her.
3 responses
• United States
7 Jun 12
The best advice I can give you is don't force anything. If you can't think of anything to say don't try to force it out because that can make it even more awkward between the two of you in the future. Just let things flow and if she likes you things will eventually progress if not you just gotta move on
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
4 Jul 11
I think you are trying too hard. I find the best way to talk to someone, is just ask them something you really want to know. Like... how's it going. What's up in your world? And then just follow the answers. Well things are ok, although I have a (something) I have to do today. Oh really what's that? and just follow. But be real. If you are not interested in whatever, then keep your mouth shut until there is something you are interested in. Fakers will be found out. You start blowing smoke in her face, and she'll figure it out real quick. I think that's why you are getting tied up. You are trying to makeup something, and you are a horrible liar. That's actually a good sign. Loosen up, and talk about what you really want, or ask something you really want answered. How are things in your department? Man, these long shifts are killing me. What is your work like? (be honest too)
• Philippines
21 Jun 11
After that morning coffee break, I think you got into the first step. Next time, sit beside he and talk to her just like your other friends. Maybe you can talk of her previous jobs, a little talk about your family, and other interests. You just have to start the conversation and everything will be smooth. You will later know what her interests are, then that will be a good start of conversation.