What I swhould do if my friend cheat me

@amrith (291)
India
June 21, 2011 9:30am CST
After 2 years of friend ship my friend cheated me Now not looking at me only took my lumpsum money and now turning her face at me and going what i should do she is my office mate what i can do?please advice
5 responses
@koperty3 (1876)
25 Jul 11
Confront her. If you will pretend that nothing had happened so you will loose respect for yourself. Confront her and tell her everything what you keeping inside.
• Philippines
23 Jun 11
Just learn from the experience and move on. There's a big chance you've just been conned by your "friend". Don't expect her to be back soon, or ever in that case. Life is hard so do yourself a favor and don't ever feel pity on anyone and lend a handful again, you'll just make your life more miserable and harder than it already is.
@caribe (2465)
• United States
21 Jun 11
Nothing ruins a good friendship faster than loaning or borrowing money. Try to talk to her and see why she isn't paying you back, but don't be too surprised if she never does. Learn from this an important lesson to never, Never, NEVER, loan money to friends, because many times you lose your money and your friend.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
21 Jun 11
You are a fairly aged person. You must have had many such experiences in your official career. Lumpsum - we should always give money to friends assuming they may not return. If u are serious about return of the money then you should have taken documents - at least if u have lent through bank cheque ok. Please talk to her tactfully, go through some of your common friend and try. I am not able to give a definite answer because from ur id and profile I cannot make out your gender.
• Philippines
21 Jun 11
Well, if you have the guts... just confront her.. tell her everything and be honest.. and if she's still not listening or keeps avoiding you.. well, ignore her... and make it as your lesson.. next time don't trust anyone even with your closest friend.. Don't worry God will always be with you... just don't think about revenge because it will just ruin your image and disappoint God... =)