Teaching children at home

@ravisivan (14079)
India
June 29, 2011 4:49pm CST
I remember when my children were young mostly my wife will be teaching them the portions covered on the day or previous day or before tests. This helped them learn the subjects well. I use to teach on sundays or whenever they have some doubts. After their reaching 10th standard they had to be put into good tuition masters for improvement. I am sure many parents having young kids must be teaching their children every day at specified hours in order to improve their learning skills. How is your experience in this regard.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
30 Jun 11
Yes friend teaching children at home is necessary because without revision they cannot do the study. My sisters always take revision of her daughter till 10th class and now her daughter was the topper in 10th. Both daughter's habit was wake up in the 4O'clock morning and then their mother means my sister take the revision.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
30 Jun 11
Good. I am sure you will also take same amount of interest with your children in the days to come. have a nice day.
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• India
29 Jun 11
First i want your kids to send to English Grammer coaching which is very very important for now and for future too... Later on make them to understand the concept rather than byharting the lessons or answers. If they understood the concept they will never forget the subject. Lets say if they are studying about bulb, show them how a bulb looks like and how the filament looks like and the type of connections etc..so that they can easily keeps that in their mind through out their life... Does my suggestions makes any sense..? I went to english gramnmer coaching in my childhood....
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Jun 11
I think chandu bring very nice tip for parents who are looking to learn how to teach their kids. If they understand what they are learning than everything will goes fine because kids no the logic and that is the real problem of kids of today's world. Very nice sharing Chandu :)
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
30 Jun 11
Chandu : Nice way of explaining it. You have presented it in an interesting way. Bulb mean bulb to be shown --good. English grammar - yes that is also important.
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
30 Jun 11
iboy ! how are you. Hope u are busy with your software work. did u try freelancers.com I am bidding and awaiting acceptance from a few.
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@ram_cv (16513)
• India
2 Jul 11
My son is still too young for me to start teaching too many things. But as my wife is a teacher, she does most of the teaching for him. So as of now, I am not doing much of teaching for him. But I am right now trying to get him interested in reading books, so reading stories to him every day is one of my major tasks. Cheers! Ram
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
13 Jul 11
You are busy with your chartered accountant work -- but spend at least half an hour with your child coaching something which u consider interesting and useful for him.
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@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
1 Jul 11
Yes, it is very important to teach our children while they are at home. It can helps them to understand their subject much easier when they are at school. I had started to buy books and teach my son when he was only 2 years old. Now, he is in Kindy and i can see him picking up very fast in his study. I plan to send him to a good tuition school in future, when he is studying in a higher level.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
3 Jul 11
Yes, indeed. I will always have an eye on him whenever he is studying. That's good for him...
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
2 Jul 11
Even if u send children to tuition have an eye over their progress. This will help u in the long run.
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@kaylachan (57974)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
30 Jun 11
I don't have children of my own, but I see nothing wrong with home schooling children at home. With online schools, most free-of-charge it can be a great aid to children. While social interaction is important, there are other ways then sittinb in school for seven and a half to eight hours a day. Parents can get their children involved in social groups and activities that keep them out of trouble. Now, if you're talking about giving your children homework help, that's good too. Just as long as you help them in a way they are actually learning the material, and not trying to do their work for them. Most parents don't want to see their children fail, but some cross the line to where they pretty much do the work for them. With the digital age being what it was, or is this take becomes simple. Most papers are required to be typed, so on that note it's impossible to prove who typed it especially since most families are a one person household.
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
2 Jul 11
I am talking about our supplementing at home. The students attend school regularly and any home work will be helped by parents so that they can complete them easily. Further guidance will be useful for monitoring their progress.
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@amitgune (877)
• India
30 Jun 11
Teaching children at home is a wonderful thing especially when children are small. It keeps the children in touch with their studies. Also it makes the children realize that their parents care and value education. When children realize this at an early age, they tend to study a little bit more. That could be the difference between success and failure.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
2 Jul 11
Exactly. Children who get at least 50% attention from parents will have better awareness and perform well as they grow old.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
2 Jul 11
I have always been against this concept of teaching the children at home. I pay the fees (exorbitant amounts where I am at) and then I am expected to teach them at home too? I don't mind help and guidance....but when my kids return to school, I want to spend time with them and inculcate other things in them which the school cannot do. When I was growing up, my parents weren't able to help me. My father worked long hours and would sometimes help with Maths or Science when I had a doubt. My mother is a 10th pass in the vernacular syllabus and she wasn't able to manage with my ICSE syllabus though she helped me with a routine to study till I was in 2nd grade and my sister was born. I have to thank my parents for putting me in a good school where the teachers did their job well...and no tutions for me either. When we moved to India when I was in high school, I went to one tution class because the particular teacher would give marks only for students who attended her tution class. I hated the experience and thanks to her...for 2 whole years I didn't enjoy Maths which happens to be my favourite subject. 2 years ago, we decided to homeschool our two children (why pay money and then teach at home being one of the reasons). Our older son is almost 11 and younger one is 4 and a half....both doing exceptionally well academically and having ample time to play and enjoy life too. 2 years ago, I was a teacher at the same school as they were and though I knew other teachers who would come home and then teach their kids, I didn't want to do it.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
4 Jul 11
Yes, it means that they do not go to school and they study at home. They go for other classes...the older one is into music and plays a few instruments (also giving his Trinity School of Music exams)...the younger one is into sports (we started with cricket...but he is showing in interest in soccer and hockey as well). The academic part my husband and I handle (we were doing the same when they went to school too but now we don't have to eat up their play time to teach them). In some subjects/areas, our kids are a little ahead of their peers (academically) and this way we can help them instead of them doing lower than their potential at school.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
2 Jul 11
I could not follow this: "2 years ago, we decided to homeschool our two children (why pay money and then teach at home being one of the reasons). Our older son is almost 11 and younger one is 4 and a half....both doing exceptionally well academically and having ample time to play and enjoy life too. " That means they are not going to school and study only at home?
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
13 Jul 11
I am hearing this sort of an information for the first time. that the children do not go to school and still they study well. this option is possible where the parents are equipped and is considered where the parents job involves shifting from one city to another. good.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
30 Jun 11
I too can look back when my children were young and I had to sit with them so that they finished their homework ...The greatest problem they had was with languages especially Hindi and Sanskrit which they really had to work at for the first two years whereas in other subjects they did very well without my help.Those were wonderful days never to come back in life...I feel that one should try and be as close to one's children as possible during those growing years , because they grow up very fast and before we know it they are on their own , which is of course nice !
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Jun 11
This is still going on in our home. My youngest always do his homework/s soon as he arrive from school,and I assisted him. But during weekends,it is his elder sister who always teach him with his lesson,my daughter likes teaching his younger brother with previous lesson that she already learned. have a good day
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
29 Jun 11
nice. If only the first child teaches the youngest then the burden for parents will be less. have a nice day.
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@allknowing (130063)
• India
30 Jun 11
There is more to child development than merely learning 'abc'. A child needs to socialise, mix and mingle and learn to handle those who are better off than they and worse off than they, in every aspect of living. School is a place where they get this environment.
@allknowing (130063)
• India
30 Jun 11
It is only after I posted my response that I realised that you were only talking about grooming children at home which I think is inevitable knowing the kind of teachers we have these days whose only aim is to earn while teaching is not their passion
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
30 Jun 11
A teacher teaches 60 children in classrooms in India. it is not possible for him to concentrate on all the children individually. It becomes a necessity for parents to concentrate on the development of their children by involving personally every day. have a nice day.
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@beingwell (3625)
• Thailand
30 Jun 11
That's really nice rav. When we were young, I remember my mom would help us with all our assignments. I would come home and tell her, "Ma, we have a lot of assignments today!" By "we", I meant she and I! I liked it when my mom teaches me. We don't have tutors so after she reviews us, we finish the lessons on our own. For me it worked says the medals on our wall!
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
30 Jun 11
Nice. You liked teaching of your mother and probably liked studying and that has helped you improve ur communication skill well. have a nice day.
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@beingwell (3625)
• Thailand
1 Jul 11
Maybe, I don't know. Perhaps the cartoons I watched when I was a kid helped more, with regards to my comm skills!
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
29 Jun 11
When my child started grade school last year, everything came as a shock to him because he got more home works than when he was in preschool, he's got more to study and he must write a lot. I was always there throughout and never left his side. We spent two or three hours studying each day. Reviewing what they have taken up for the day and advance reading. After a few months, he was able to adjust and learned how to study by himself. He finished grade school as an honor student and he's trying to maintain that now that he's in 2nd grade.
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
29 Jun 11
excellent - If only u had not sat with him initially, the child would have found everything Greek and Latin (not understanding). Even now you must be able to spend a at least an hour with him to give him a sense of importance. have a nice day.
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• Philippines
30 Jun 11
Having a hand in helping your kid's education by home school is told to be an effective way in raising our kids as well as cementing/ having a close relationship with them. I must say that your children are very fortunate having you as their parent. Most parents today entrust their kids education elsewhere, either at school or tutors because of time constraints.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
30 Jun 11
it was possible for us -- because we had less of DVD, Tv in those days. Now there is less time for education. Apart from our teaching they also evinced interest and studied well. have a nice day.
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
1 Jul 11
yes. DVDs and Tvs separate us from our kids for hours together. Now internet is another tool which takes more of our time. for me it is ok. grown up children.
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• Philippines
1 Jul 11
Indeed. Technologies could be a nuisance in some ways. It kind of negatively affects the interaction of family members, kids tend to prefer spending time with TV and DVD's and others rather with their parents and siblings.
• Philippines
29 Jun 11
I don't have a child yet but since I'm still young, my childhood memories are still fresh to me. I remember my mom teaching me math, basic computer stuff like MS word, complex logic and multiplication table as early as 7 yo. As for my father, he was my teacher in linguistics. He's a polyglot and he used to yell at me when I don't speak proper English and German. He thought me how to be a debater and has always been supportive to me whenever I join a competition. My (still) single godfather, is an architect and was my teacher in arts mainly about infrastructures and he gave me a set of Lego as a gift. :D All of them - my parents and my godfather, they are all strict when it comes to my education. As if they want to put the knowledge of the universe in my brain. It completely ruined my childhood. :D
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
30 Jun 11
welcome to mylot Ahaha! "ll of them - my parents and my godfather, they are all strict when it comes to my education. As if they want to put the knowledge of the universe in my brain. It completely ruined my childhood. :D" Their efforts has helped you here also =-- u have presented it in a humorous way. have a good day.
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
1 Jul 11
congrats. keep up the good work u are doing.
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• Philippines
30 Jun 11
Ahaha! Right! I'm an optimistic person but I'm fond of constracting sentences sarcastically. All those trials I've been through, sacrifices and challenges was worthy and paid off. :)
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
30 Jun 11
We do this as well. My daughter's school always sends home some work over the summer. As a family we also make trips to the library. It helps keep them prepared for the next year.
• United States
29 Jun 11
I homeschool both my children and hope to do so right through to high school. Because I plan out our curriculum and use a variety of resources, I am literally teaching them everyday.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
29 Jun 11
'homeschool" means - are the children not sent to regular school? Or they attend the school and you teach in the evening. excellent. You seem to be more confident in ur expression because you are doing it seriously. In which class are they studying and do they cooperate while learning?
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• United States
30 Jun 11
I was a single parent during the upbringing of my children. Though I did work a lot all the time. I specifically sat them at the kitchen breakfast nook for them to do their homework and while I ran back and forth doing the cooking I picked up flash cards and tested them. I did set out time each and every evening to sit with them to test them, check homework and make sure the teacher's memos were read, when they came. We spent a great deal of quality time together as I never left them with sitters only but for work. I enjoyed doing all that and though it was a bit difficult because my day at home really started after they were in bed. I did spend a great deal of evenings with them to teach and help with their lessons.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
30 Jun 11
Nice to hear the steps taken by you single to coach your children. That is the uniqueness of women. They shoulder more responsibility. That would have paid u now. Your children must have studied well. have a good day.
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@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
When my daughter was still young, I had her sit in in my class and learn what I am teaching to other kids. When its time for her to enter school, I quit my job and focus my attention on her. I did not only help her through but she's my only student and we had a one-on-one teaching and learning activities. When she's in middle school, that's the time I went back to work , she's now on her own and thanks God, she's doing alright!
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
2 Jul 11
yes. When the children can manage their studies of their own, the mother can go for work. Initial coaching for a few years is what is helping the child to shape its better future.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
30 Jun 11
When my daughter was still a young kid and is in her prep school, i would always teach her. But when she grew older, she doesn't want me to teach her anymore. She said she can manage, but would only ask when she can't answer some. Well, she graduated cumlaude in her BS Course last April and is now a scholar for Medicine. I guess, i helped her a lot in preparing for her higher school. Didn't i?
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
2 Jul 11
yes. We can help only in the early stages. --If we guide in the formative stage automatically they will pick up when they grow old.
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@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
30 Jun 11
Teaching the children at home is not easy but it is a good practice. If the children are near to you then you can not scold them. children don't understand much so you have to have a good patience to make them understand. convincing them to study is a big work. I taught some children while I was myself in studies and it was tough for me.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
2 Jul 11
Probably u refer to assistance given by you as an outsider to the children of others. I am referring to the assistance being given by parents to their children in completing home work and clarifying their doubts.