Perhaps this is my last discussion on mylot.

Perhaps means may be or may not be. This is better than saying 'This is my last post..." When it is last it is last but when iy may be the last it may go on for some more time or go on and on and on. You have some problem with some people over here what your post reflects. But you have not stated clearly what is it. Look man, we are humans and are prone to commit mistake. As you can not say for sure that you would never commit a mistake others too can not. So if any misunderstanding has hit you badly tell us, I mean who you trust most and we would try to bring a solution or say a truce. But bye byeing mylot is something is that we do not love to hear.

I was just like this a few years ago. I remember I went on two months' leave when I had a problem with one member of my staff who had direct connections with the higher management. Looking back I laugh at myself now when I had several choices and chose the worst one. Do go through choices you have and you will also laugh at your self. Good Luck. Hope to see you here as usual.

Hello Dear Shibham! Mylot is a discussion forum where we have members almost from all countries of the World. We have different cultures, different etiquettes and mannerisms. Like in India what we feel more caring may sound as Nagging for people from different part of this World. In India we force our guests to eat but the same is considered as a bad mannerism by many. Thus I think we have to be bit careful while dealing with such sensitive issues. You can always have a soft and humorous approach so that the person whom you are approaching will not feel bad and at the same time your purpose is getting solved! don't get dishearten that you are the person taking initiative every time with your friends...I feel this is a big quality you have and many people can't do it even though they want to do it! So be proud to have this quality. Now coming to quitting part of Mylot, I many times told our friends here that this is a virtual forum so please keep this in your mind and act accordingly. If some one has hurt you then avoid the person and you have rest of the forum for you! Any way you are the best judge and hope that having given a thought for a while you would take a proper decision! Please respind back so that we would know about your present mood! Take care and cheer up! Best of luck!

Today is not April 1 Shibham. Regarding the issue of interfering friend's life, I think I can limit my freedom upto permissible extent. Since I won't cross the freedom there is no issue of getting a rude response. It may not be your fault dear Shibham, what provoke you to leave the site?

Hi shi... It is nice of you to show concern for your friend, maybe s/he will appreciate sometimes, but at other times, one can get so stressed that s/he shouted at you. S/he might come to regret doing that to you. Hope your friendship continues...

Sometimes people just don't want to be ordered around. When we are sick comforting words from someone is much better than berating words. That's why most children don't like their nagging moms because coupled with the caring is the nonstop blaming and nagging. WE don't want that from a friend. Even though we know fully well that you as a friend is just concerned, we don't need to be told or blamed for what has happened. Must be cultural differences or belief. If she's a woman then we are very sensitive when we are sick. You don't have to stop communicating with her if you see yourself as a true friend. A true friend actually says sorry without even considering who started the fight or who was at fault. Friendship is not about pride, it's about caring and taking care of each other.

Unfortunately your good intention was not well received. Why would that disturb you and prompted you to take the drastic action to withdraw from your activities here? Don't let your emotion take over the better side of you. There are still many fishes in the ocean, you better start fishing in the open sea. Stop worrying over a small matter. This is the virtual world, a make believe world that no one should take so seriously.

I think I am like your friend. I would not listen to anyone ordering me what to do and what not to do. I always do as I wish. If I felt I was too sick to be online I would rest. If I thought I could sit up and do some work I would continue. I think we should give everyone their space and let them do as they like. If your friend did not listen to you, you should have just let her be. There is no reason for you to get upset. Many do not listen to even their parents and family members. And this is just a friend. And why does this have to be your last discussion?

hello shiby, I wonder why people are discussing leaving mylot? Is there any virus spreading regarding this matter? So..why leave mylot?... You've been here for a long time and leave mylot for nonsense reason eh?

For me you can't understand here then stop to be friend her and you can't said no to the person who not be like to be your friend.

Hi Shiby! I don't know what really happened to you and the real story but my brother will not leave this site ya?? Take a break for a while. I have faced the same thing too when people disagree and misunderstood to whatever we write to them. Sometimes they ask for advice but then eventually neglected and feel uneasy towards our comments even if we really do care for them. Forget about that friend for a while. And stay with Mylot~

Hi shibham When it comes to someone whether it is online or offline, if I care about them I will be sincere in saying and suggesting to rest. If the person is resistance and will not listen, I will continue to be me and check on the person from time to time. I do not mean it as pestering or anything like that simply to remind the person that I am there for them. As for the "Perhaps this is my last discussion on myLot" No Shibham, do not stop discussing here. You do have caring friends who would miss you, therefore, take a break from creating discussions and allow the sometime to get you back in the mode. You have been a member here for so long, therefore, do not allow your feelings about myLot to change dear, we would miss you dearly.

But what have made you to take such a drastic decision of quiting mylot. I would request you to think again.

Oh no amigo! Don't you dare do that!!! You know what amigo,from what I've observed about you,you always let yourself be affected by one person..don't you care about the feelings of the majority? I asked you once about your ladies,you said one told you that your ladies sounded monotonous that's why you're not posting it now but I still read some of your friends here still asking about your ladies. And now,one person made you feel down by what she has done to you and you suddenly decided not to post a discussion? Is that your way of getting through it? Are you not that brave amigo to face it? If she feels that way to you,you can always say sorry for her and move on not move back. Amigo,you are better than what I think of you,don't do this! Read all of your respondents here. Hope to see you again.

Shibham! Why should you leave mylot if one friend has not listened to you? Coming to the issue, you need a bit of maturity handling this issue. Just think for a moment," Ok! I ws just concerned for her and she has rebuffed me. I won't bother hereafter. I won't try to advise her; she is after all an adult." Just shrug your shoulders , don't be emotional about it. THis issue woill get magnified if you keep repeately thinking about it. She is not your sister or mother with whom there is a heavy emotional bonding. So, do not bother.FOrget it and get on with your life.

I don't think you should leave. I think you are being to hard on yourself, really. It sounds like a simple misunderstanding. You were telling the other person to get some rest because you care and he/she took it as if you were ordering him around from the sounds of it. Maybe you should send a private message to this person and apologize for the misunderstanding??

Oh no, do not leave...

Hmmm I know you cant leave mylot. Because mylot is your family and I know why you are upset. But dont worry after some time everything will be ok. You should not stop the relationship only due to this small reason. I know you are a good men or boy so cant do anything which is hurt to others. If this incident is occured with me I will call her/him not stop the relationship because I am caring of that person. So enjoy an be happy dont be angry and I am not such type of women. Hahaha

Caring your friends is not an bad habit as per my point of view is concern but some times when try to to some extra problem start from there. It is well know sentence around the globe, "Illness make people lazy and crazy" so we have to keep these words in mind too when we are trying to help some one. I don't want this discussion as your last one but an milestone which you have achieved now :D Cheers

Shibham, you're friend may be too serious to what he/she is doing at that moment and having you around ordering him/her to take a rest had gotten him/her so far. You don't have to be upset about the event. There is reason up to why he/she had done that to you. You can talk or contact him/her when everything will be okay. Or, let's say when he/she's not busy with something. The action you have showed to him/her truly indicated that you are a caring and thoughtful friend; there's no need of changing. There is too much goodness in life that is need of celebration. What I really mean is, Cheer up! You're not fool.