Wanting a person out of your life

@dfollin (24172)
United States
July 5, 2011 3:00pm CST
If you do not want a child or another person not in your life anymore what should you do? It appears there are some people that think that instead of giving a child to a family member or up for adoption,it is better to kill the child.And someone how,maybe paying someone off to get a way with it. There have been men and women,alike,that instead of divorcing their spouses or breaking up with their signifagant others they chose to kill them. God's word in the commandments state,"Do not kill".And it is also against man's law to commit murder. Why do you think people think and act this way?
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@kingparker (9673)
• United States
5 Jul 11
They are irresponsible, and they don't want any burden in their shoulder, even that is their blood line, and their part of flesh to them too. It is cruel world, and people will do all sort of thing. I just hate those people, and I don't like what they do.
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@dfollin (24172)
• United States
5 Jul 11
Well,if they don't want no burden then they need to put the child up for adoption,get a divorce from their spouse or break up with the person.Maybe move to another country away from that person,don't kill them.
@natnickeep (2336)
• United States
5 Jul 11
Not everyone receives the help they need in these situations. I don't think these people think it's right or ok to kill, they just don't know what right or ok is. Most people who commit crimes like this or hurting children have been through things as a child also. A lot of these people are still those same children in their head. We can't put all the blame on them. It's a cycle, a horrible cruel one, that is so delicate and hard to understand.
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@dfollin (24172)
• United States
5 Jul 11
Yes,but there are many of those people who were not abused thou.
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• United States
6 Jul 11
I do not know why people think that they need to kill other people if they dont want to be with them. Especially kids I dont think it is right to kill. I am against abortion unless the baby or the mom will be in some kind of danger then it is ok. I am against it otherwise. The Bible says do not kill so I am going to do whatever the bible says.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
5 Jul 11
if there is abuse involved and the person has to defend themselves most likely in the midst of struggle, the abuser gets killed but in regards to a child gets killed, that's a different story well a child can't harm much but smaller things like animals I would just keep them away from animals until they behave and then we have psychopaths, adult or child I just hope I'll never have to defend myself against these
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Jul 11
hi dfollin oh my thats so sad so cruel so evil in fact to kill a child just because you do not want it. I think people who do in somoene who they should but do not love are evil clear throuogh or they would not its wrong to kill other people.also they are very selfish and self centered and will not help anyone with any thing, If one could say they are in league with the devil maybe they are.they are surely not believers in God at all.They are selfish, cruel and are only looking out forthemselves.
@dfollin (24172)
• United States
5 Jul 11
Hi Hatley, You are totally right there.They are with the devil.
• China
6 Jul 11
No killing is all right!I don't think killing can change anything.It can only make more problems and more sadness.If you want to get away from someone,you can try to move that guy!
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
6 Jul 11
I'm not sure why people think it is alright to kill another person. I do know in some situations, people cannot get restraining orders to keep people from harrassing them and they take the law in their own hands to make them stay away from them. Sometimes they kill the person to keep them away because the law will not do anything for them.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
5 Jul 11
I sure can't answer your question, Donna. I don't understand why anyone would choose to do something like thaT.
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@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
For me they influence by Satan because he know that his time is near to ruin he is the ruler of this time that's why many bad news happened but it will end if the Armageddon hit it is the battle of good and evil.
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
I'm not really the superstitious type but I really do think that the Law of Attraction works. It basically states that whatever you think, you will get. I'm not just talking about mental states here, I'm talking about general matters such as if you don't want this type of person in your life, just imagine having a life without that type of person and it will come true. That goes the same if you're always thinking about a type you don't like. Chances are, you'll always encounter the same group of people if they're always present in your mind.
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• Portugal
6 Jul 11
about abortion i couldnt do that but i dont judge those that do it in the beginning of their pregnancy. to have the kid only to have and hate him after he gets born and be bad to him is better to dont get born than suffer a lot lot by being abused :( me personally i couldnt do it but who does well i guess it depends of the reasons the person has. if the person was raped and then finds out that is pregnant and decides to abort then i understand her side bcs everytime she looks at the child she will remember that bad thing.. i know its not the kid's fault but still the person is traumatized and we never know what we will do if something bad happens to us..
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@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
I think these people are born with the killing instinct and no matter how much they know that this action is wrong, they still would do the same thing. People with criminal minds are also born with and if their destiny is to kill or murder a person,it would happen someday in their life. We don't need to ask why they do it, it is their fate!
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
6 Jul 11
In my opinion, these people who does this kind of crimes are psychologically imbalanced. No one in his proper state of mind will do such heinous crimes. These people are already conquered by the devil.
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• United States
6 Jul 11
Sometimes it is all for greed. Then sometimes I think people have a psychotic break or become dissociative for a period of time and do things they would never dream of doing. As for the Casey Anthony case we will never know who did what. I kind of think her father has something to do with it. After all...I don't believe that Casey was stout enough to move a tree over Caylee's body. Her dad and brother were plenty big enough. There are a lot of secrets there that may never be surfaced.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Jul 11
I can understand a parent for giving their kids into adoption or putting their kids into orphanages. But killing their kid/s..that's really crazy and I am sure that person is not in sane mind ,and needs professional help. Same thing with those people who kills their spouses rather than divorce and having separation. Those people are sick and needs to have some mental assessment.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
5 Jul 11
I can not understand why these people kill innocent. What's fault this little child. these people just are not good and should be treated. I understand that sometimes parents koio for some reason leave their children but to kill him it is sin. I think it is inappropriate to make this better do not make this child. Because when it was nice not thinking about the consequences and what will happen to this child. There are so misunderstood people in the world. I hope to have more parents who raise children and live well. nice day!
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@sanijas83 (270)
• Latvia
14 Jul 11
Of course, there are persons who cause problems for others. If they act against the law, they should be punished. It is known, two wrongs do not make a right. People think there might not be consequences if they decide to get rid of some person, but if they kill someone, evil deeds do not end. The revenge starts, and crimes spread further in the world. I know there are cases when it is not possible to forgive, but perhaps life would be easier if people could decide not to revenge.