How Many Here Have Had Renters?

@KrauseHome (36445)
United States
July 6, 2011 1:39pm CST
Either you have rented a room to someone, or have a Mother-In-Law type place, or apts. etc? I know there are many of us here who have done this. How many have had nightmare renters or people just not wanting to pay? Are you having Great experiences and highly recommend it? Many of you know my night mare story of the one taking advantage and trying to control our house... Also had ones where because their girlfriend is staying there from 2 a.m. on you tell them you are raising their rent, then they decide it is time to move out, and making excuses for everything acting like a little kid wanting money back, but never giving a notice or anything. Then we had one who said she spent the Rent $$ at the Casino and then wanted us to come chase her down somewhere to get some $$ from her. Personally you would think all of these would make me quit wanting to Rent to someone, but instead it is making me wiser. It is to the point the next person we decide to rent too, which might be by this weekend, we will see, we are going to do a Credit Check, background check, and require a deposit. Also going to make them sign papers of what we expect, etc. Maybe then we will have someone who will be good for a change? What are your experiences and anything you would expect? ~~TINA~~
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
8 Jul 11
During the first two year of my marriage, we had to rent in order to live a separate life from our oldies. Well it was quite hard to rent because you are living in a place that is not really yours. There are rules to follow. Sometimes the landlord would even knock on your dog to tell me my dog is barking too loud. She seemed to be watching on every details of my life actually. Well I am glad those days are over. We now have our own house and it is our own and nobody else dictate on me. It is a total freedom.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
19 Aug 11
Well, we own our home so personally we do not have to worry about anyone telling us what we can and cannot do. We are just wanting to rent out some of the extra rooms in our house to bring a little extra money in so that we can eventually get caught up on our bills again. What was interesting is we were about caught up to where we could stay right there, and then I had major Medical issues again. So maybe all of this is happening for God to show us something, but believing in time this will all be over again.
@manleyjoe (1597)
• United States
6 Jul 11
I would take it one step farther and have a rental agreement drawn up that sets everything down so everyone knows what is what. There are several free sites that have sample agreements online just pull one up that you like and print it out. have your renter agree to it and both sign it and you are better protected. Most states have laws that help landlords and tenants.
@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
25 Jul 11
Yes, we found out recently that that is what the Cops said we need. That way it protects us in case there is any problems on what rules are expected, etc. That plus demanding a Deposit upfront in case they are a SLOB like the last one is going to be a help so we have $$ set aside for cleaning the carpet, etc. when they move out. Just so many things you learn along the way.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
28 Jul 11
Yes, this is where we goofed the last time. We did not insist on the deposit up front.. or what we expected and so it became a hassel. We have a contract now made up and let the people know right away that there is a deposit, and what we expect and give them the choice to decide from there if they would like to rent from us or not. We feel we are being reasonable, but after what we experienced with some of the renters we have had we now know what we need to do.
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@manleyjoe (1597)
• United States
26 Jul 11
I would never think of renting without a deposit because no matter how neat the tenets are there will always be a need for cleaning to get it ready for next person.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
18 Jul 11
You need to have a proper lease otherwise you don't have a leg to stand on. Get references too and CHECK them. My first tenants were great...they painted and did minor repairs. They left my little house just a bit better than it was when they moved in. The second lot were ok in that they paid most of the time and caught up when they were late but they called repairmen out for the slightest thing...like changing the light bulb in the oven. A 20 second job cost me $65...there were quite a few of those call-outs for different things. The next and last lot rarely paid rent and I turfed them out. Luckily they went. If you get a bond, make sure you lodge it at the correct place...here in Australia, a bond is lodged at the rental bond board. You can also ask for the first 4 weeks rent in advance...just don't spend it straight away.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
20 Aug 11
I am definately more prepared this time, and checking References etc. but most of the time when someone calls, they either never show up as promised, or come look and then never let us know when they are not interested so this can be quite frustrating for sure. Yes, we were told by the Cops we need to have things in writing from now on, and with the deposit, etc. and give receipts. We have learned a valuable lesson and Trusting God in who ever decides to rent from us from now on will be of value as well.
@celticeagle (189833)
• Boise, Idaho
6 Jul 11
Did you ever see that movie with Michael Keaton? What was the name of it? It is called Pacific Heights. He plays a psycho tenant. If you haven't seen it you might enjoy it. Relate to it! I think, as renters, you have every right to be assured that the person(s)you are renting to are everything they say they are and are responsible enough to rent to. There alot of weirdos out there that can seem so nice and turn out to be irresponsible nuts. I have had just the opposite in a way. I have had some very strange landlords. there was a discussion on here recently about a woman or guy ? that their daughter had a overly sensitive landlord. She could even walk across her floor during certain hours or she would hear his rath. Can you believe it? I think people who rent and are going to rent really need to set down and figure out what is realistic to expect from either party. And not change the rules to meet with their expectations too. SOunds like you have had enough experience that you know what you expect and I woould make them sign a paper saying they understand. I had to do that with my daughter because she becomes manic and is irresponsible. House rules are important. It is your house and they are merely boarders and maybe you need to write up a paper with your expectations on it and have them read it or be aware of it. Zero talerance too. Think about that.
@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
22 Jul 11
Well, yes after our most recent experiences with Renters, we are being a little more cautious now, and letting people know what we are wanting upfront before they even decide if they want to Rent from us. Yes right now the Extra $$ would be a Big help with all the time off I have had to take, but only if they are going to be respectful for sure. We have had many lately call and say they want to come look at the room and then never call back to cancel even if that means we sit around all day waiting for them. I guess they did not need a room bad enough after all?
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
9 Aug 11
Yes, many times you will see situations and know why someone does not have a place of their own yet. Makes you wonder if they even realize just how bad they are damaging themselves?
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@celticeagle (189833)
• Boise, Idaho
23 Jul 11
SOme people are so irresponsible and just one more reason they don't have a place of their own. Always good to be cautious.
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
8 Jul 11
Yes, there are all kinds of people out there. It is good to know that you have become wiser in choosing your tenants. Many years ago my husband do rent out the rooms in his house to different people. Some are nice people but some are very 'calculative' and really take advantage. They get their boyfriend to stay yet show their 'unhappy' face when my husband asked her to pay an additional rent for the additional occupant.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
20 Aug 11
Well that was the situation with one we had. He said his girlfriend was not living here, but her Van was here all the time, and she was usually here from at least 2 a.m. to 10 a.m. or later. When we confronted him he said she was around because he needed a ride, but at 2 a.m. So when we told him Rent was going up he balked and said he was moving, but then the day he was supposed to move tried causing a lot of problems to where we called the Cops and had him moved. But so far things are looking good with the New tenant. Still considering renting out the other room as well until things are better with my Health and we feel we are caught up financially some.
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
I've never rented a room for someone before but this sounds frustrating. Renters that spend all their money on casinos or any type of vice and forgetting their rent are non-arguably irresponsible. They should mind that they're renting on a place so they should at least keep some money to pay for it.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
28 Jul 11
Yes, there have been a lot of issues with renters. I would think people would be a little more appreciative and want to pay rent, etc. and help out before they end up homeless or in trouble, etc. Makes you wonder what people really are thinking these days and what really matters to them.
• Philippines
29 Jul 11
Yep, they really seem like they have discombobulated priorities in mind.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
7 Jul 11
SOn in laws people from he** broke things never to tell about it we finding things all the time now. Only help was the end of the 4 years with food and maybe some things like washing powders and toilet tissue. Nothng on extra lights Water or other bills. Wasnt like renters as our house isnt that big and the other grandma would take over grand daughters bedroom so she either slept with me or her mom. Sooooooooooooooo glad they are gone we will not have them back again!!!!!!111
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
13 Aug 11
Family is definately worse than having real renters, that is for sure. I am not sure I could have any of my family live with me for very long. My aunt tried that with me with her daughter many yrs. ago and left me hanging when she was not helping pay on all the bills. My aunt also maxed my Mom's credit cards etc. when living with my mom and never paid back as well, so family is a nightmare worse than ever renting out to someone else.
@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
6 Jul 11
I've had renters off and on since I moved into this house. Most have been good about doing their share, but there are always a few who take advantage of my good nature... And then there was the one who let the cats out!
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
28 Jul 11
Well, I keep on saying the last 2 experiences we have had are just lessons preparing us for what we need to do from here on out when wanting to rent out a room or two in our house to people. It has been an interesting journey, and makes you learn a lot about people. We are ready for some good experiences and to find someone or 2 people for both rooms that will be cordial and we would want to have around as renters for a long time.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Jul 11
hi tina years back whemn we rented a room adjacent to the garage and the p eople neverstopped complaining. We had told them int was not an apartment just a sleeping room but they tried to cook in their and kept blowing f uses until we had to ask them to leave. We got the rent we asked for but the renters tore the room all apart but we were so glad to get rid of them.we did not mind that. we never rented again. Most people wanted an apartment where they can cook. this was just a sleeping room in a good part of Costa Mesa Ca.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
25 Jul 11
Well, we let people know it is just a room we are renting out, but it does include Utilities, and FREE WIFI if they have a laptop. We usually will allow it to include cable but they have to come upstairs to watch TV if they wish. They also have to share the kitchen with us, but are allowed to eat with us from time to time if they so desire. There is only a 1/2 bath downstairs and a shared bathroom upstairs but if they do not seem to mind this usually is no problem. What we have to worry about is people not wanting to obey the rules, or not wanting to pay their rent, etc. and thinking it is no Big deal.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
6 Jul 11
havent had this experience for many yrs. im thinking though if they pay and do their share it would be good to have one. i keep telling son we need to try it for financial reasons, but hes to selfish of his privacy.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
28 Jul 11
Well right now we are getting to the point that even if we are not wanting to do it, we need to try it again for Financial reasons as it would really help take the dent out of me not being able to work Full time and having all the medical expenses that we have. It would be nice to have someone who is willing to help around the house if they are going to share the house, and be more responsible as well as being courteous and willing to follow a few rules. It is not hard to ask, just wondering why some people do not want to go there?
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
7 Jul 11
I rented my grandmother's house out after we reunited. SHe lived in California and it was hard for her to manage. My mother had lived in the house for years and after she moved..my grandmother wanted to rent it. I actually lucked up and chose a college couple. I was leary about them but at the same time, I had a good feeling. My grandmother loved them. They were always on time and was never any trouble. I was worried though..they used a trust fund as a payment reference. They had a couple of other means too but that was their main. I think it is honestly hit or miss when it comes to renters. I hope you get some better luck with them.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
9 Aug 11
Truthfully I have heard that this is the truth. What I find interesting is now that we are trying to rent out a room again it is quite hard to find someone even interested enough for us to consider accepting to want to give them a try. We have had people come look and never get back to us, and it makes us wonder what is really up. I often think even in today's economy people are expecting too much, or figure people need to feel Sorry for them. Just makes you wonder.
@epicure35 (2814)
• United States
7 Jul 11
We have shared the same nightmare. One couple let their child ride his bicycle in my white tiled foyer. Another illegally rewired electric fixtures. And they threatened me as if it were their house when I wanted to keep some of their deposit money for repairs for the damage they had done. One painted rooms without permission...and more. I would never want to rent again, since most people I have dealt with recognize no responsibility on their part to give proper care to my property or even pay the rent money they owe.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
19 Aug 11
Well, that is why some people have stated you need a Contract signed before you start renting to them, and have Rules and Regulations set out of what you expect from the start. We have learned a lot from trying to rent, and still wanting to do it to help make ends meet. Just praying and believing God for good things to come from it this time.
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
7 Jul 11
When I got married we moved to another city. While I was gone I rented out the house I had before we were married. I had a friend that was in Real Estate handle getting me tenants and fixing anything that needed done. Because of that I really didn't have any problems. The only thing was I didn't allow pets, but the one tenant had a dog that he never told us about and there is a stain on the carpet.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
31 Jul 11
Well, that would be a Great way to do it if we were renting out the whole house, but since it is just a room in the house it is different. The thing I do not get is why when people promise they are going to come look at the room at a certain time why do they tend to not follow thru, and most of the time they have found something somewhere else and never bothering telling me as well.
@donharis (305)
• Pakistan
7 Jul 11
Well I am living in a house which i have taken on Rent, And i have divided every room of it in three seats..Like an Hostle..But not a hostle..I keep only the boys i know..Like my university friends etc..But Like Paying Guests..U know we have to divide all expences..But U will not belive in even such a case where all the expenses are infront of everyone, thier are some who are just not willing to pay bcoz they want others to pay more..And i hate such people
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
9 Aug 11
Personally I think this is why when we rent out rooms in our house we charge a certain amount to that person, and know that even if it is not 100% divided equally hopefully this time they will be people that we can trust, and will pay rent, because no matter what, even people that you know will not always want to honor it and make you wonder about them for sure.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
6 Jul 11
If possible get first, last months rent and a cleaning deposit to be refunded only after you have oked the place rented. I have dealt with renters and been a renter so I know some of the pit falls. Blessings
@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
19 Jul 11
Well, we are still interviewing and meeting with people and trying to make a decision from there. Would be nice if we did not have to consider trying and renting to someone again, but there are some issues due to my Health where the extra income would be a plus. We definately are charging a deposit now and being a little more pickier with who we decide to choose as well.
• United States
6 Jul 11
Hi Tina When I use to won my home I did rent one time. I can actually say it was a very good experience. We did set out all the expectations in the beginning but partly more as the tenant was a very good one. I would not have rented in the first place but felt bad when I was asked. Luckily I never had any issues and it was for six months at the time. Because of the many stories prior to my own experience and or as of late, I would not want to be a renter anytime in the future. We are not lucky each and every time, so I would not want to gain any of the headaches I have heard from so many. Yes what you are considering is exactly what you should be doing, though no guarantees that all will go smooth, at least you will have some sort of sense who is coming into your home and have the legal side covered too. Good luck and hope works out when you get a new renter this time around. As I do remember the past issues, so hopefully a new one will be of some help.
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• United States
6 Jul 11
My first sentence should read when I owned my first home.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
19 Jul 11
Well, we have interviewed a couple of people, and have had some people come and look at the room, and home, and might have one considering it around the first of the month but not sure. I just sometimes wish this is something we did not have to do, if we can ever get a good renter in here again, but until I know my Health is 100% and we are back on track financially it is something we feel we need to do. Just wish God would bring us someone who we know we could work with.
@margeryann (1845)
• United States
6 Jul 11
I've rented before. I haven't done it in a while. I ended up selling the house that I was renting out because it was a big mess. The messes I ran into was people not wanting to pay there payments from the beginning, people doing a good job paying from the beginning then not and every time I would get a place back it would need to be remodeled because it would be too damaged to rent out and then all of the money put into remodeling it before they got into it would be messed up and then I would have to do it all over again and the cost of the remodeling cost more then the money I ended up getting from renting out the places. I know some people that had very good luck in renting out places though.I never did though.If I ever did it I would want to do everything you are saying that you are going to do and get references of phone numbers of places that they rented from before and make sure you call the references to see if they were good renters for them. Good luck this time in getting good renters!
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
24 Jul 11
Well, unless we went thru a good agency, it would be a Scary thing to own a house and completely rent it out without making sure you had some good damage deposits, etc. Especially since now a days you never know if a person is going to be able to pay rent on time, etc. In a way I feel it is better to rent out a room in a house like we have been trying to do, and hope for the Best from there. Due to all the negative experiences there are a lot of things we have learned, but more ready when the next renter comes along. If it was not for my Health right now, this would not be something almost manditory to think about for sure.
• United States
6 Jul 11
Hi Tina, Unless you REALLY know the person, I think you have to go all out and require a credit check and criminal check and whatever. You have to know this person or people pay their bills. You don't want to find out after the fact and get screwed out of your money. I would love to have a mother in law apartment. I was in that kind of situation once, it worked out well for me. I was the renter then and I stayed there for 3 years. If my friends still had that house, I would probably still be there. They knew me and knew that I paid my bills and I was never late. I hope it goes well this time Tina. Be careful.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
25 Jul 11
Well, we are being quite cautious this time. We have been interviewing a lot of different people and such all the time. We have had a couple of people not interested from the very start and have said so, and that is OK. We have also had people make apts with my to come and see the room, and never show up. Do not even call or text me or nothing. We do have one couple that is supposed to get back with us later this week, and another one interested who might come check out the room on Thursday. All I know is I wish we did not need the Extra $$, but with my leg issue right now getting someone in here to help with the bills would be a plus for sure. Just remembering to play it cautious this time for sure.